Have you noticed sometimes how some men are naturally successful with women than others and more to the point, how often have you seen a gorgeous women and thought wow how did he get her?

Well let’s find out how he did and how you could to.

The first point to note is, women are much less physically aroused than men and you have to approach at both mind and body level to succeed.

The mind is the key to the body here and this is where you need to start.

Let’s take a hypothetical example.

First things first

1. Be friendly & Polite

You fancy someone in your office but you know that really she has not noticed you yet, but you are about to change this.

Work on being polite, courteous and paying her compliments (but not of a sexual nature please, at this stage ) and engaging them in intelligent conversation.

Women like to be complimented on their appearance, so take note this is the way to go, not your breasts look fantastic, that will make her think you are just after one thing.

2. The first date

Now your friendly you can ask her out, but don’t tell her you fancy her! Just a date between friends.

Make sure your well groomed, punctual, well mannered and make sure that you pay her your full attention.

Open doors take, her coat etc make sure you concentrate on her and talk about things you know she likes make sure that you that you do not pay any sexual compliments.

You will know how it went and you may find this girl growing to like you. This is where you still stay cool calm and collected try going out again with her and get to know her more.

Women like to be treated with respect, NOT purely as objects of desire and you need to keep this firmly in your mind.

While they don’t like to be treated as sex objects of desire, all women like compliments.

If they have made an effort getting dressed up compliment them, also on other areas that they make an effort - They may be good at their job, play tennis well, it doesn’t matter, just show an interest and make them feel good about themselves.

3. Picking the right moment

Picking the right moment to tell her your true feelings is down to your intuition, but you will know when the time is right and when you do, don’t try and jump into bed with her straight away.

Just make your feelings known you will then let her decide when the time is right.

Don’t be pushy! She will give you the signals when she is ready and thats the way it should be.

4. Sexual connection

So far we have concentrated on the mind aspect and we have focused on areas most women like:

To be treated with respect, feel wanted, feel there date is interested in them NOT Just sex and someone who is confident, but not pushy or aggressive.

When it does come to sleeping with your partner you need to be sensitive.

We have lots of articles on the art of lovemaking and how to make your women satisfied, so here we will make just one important point:

5. Sensitivity to her needs

Women tend to be turned on by considerate men and that includes in the bedroom!

This does not just mean just focusing on the sexual act of intercourse.

It means lots of kissing, foreplay and finding out what she wants and making sure she is feeling happy and wanted and this will turn her on.

Finally!

Always keep in mind that women are not as motivated by sex as men.

How often have you seen beautiful women, say they love their partners because their considerate and loving?

Very few women come out and say:

I am with my partner just because he is good in bed!

Keep the above in mind and you will have a much better chance of finding the women of your dreams.

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1. Never give out personal details to the person you are chatting with. Remember that you just met, and are getting to know each other better.

Keep such important personal details such as your home phone numbers,work addresses,credit cards and bank account details from your new friend.

These are the details that scammers are always in a hurry to get from you.

It’s not unusual for a chatter,who is a scammer to insist on having your phone number right away so that he or she can call you.

Once you give out your phone numbers, then be prepared to receive lots of calls from the person.
The fellow would do all he/she can to impress you and warm up to your heart with their constant phone calls.

Also, do not give out other details that are personal to you or any of your family members.

2. Use reputable dating sites.Don’t use free ones,as scammers tend to shy away from paid ones.
Remember that most scammers come from regions where the poverty level is high, and credit cards are not readily available.

Therefore, you should sign up with paid dating sites, to ensure a greater level of security for you.

Some of the paid dating sites have been actively weeding out scammers from their site in recent time.

They have assumed more responsibility to protect those people who are paying for their services.

But all the same, you need to be careful on the paid ones too.Some categories of scammers can easily pay their way on a dating site and also use the services there. So, it pays to be on your guard at all times.

3. Look for someone in your local area.This is still the best form of dating.Most people I know who were scammed in recent time, eventually got to date someone in their area.
Some are married already.

Don’t live under the impression that you can’t find true love in your localty. You surely can. You only need to look very well in order to find a person.

You may also consider a person in your state, or another region of your country. The chances are that a date that you meet in person is less likely to be a scammer.

Even if there is a shortage of eligible men or women around you, you might just look around in a town next to yours.

So, rather than looking for a person abroad when next you are searching for a date on the internet, you could just search for a person in your area.

Alan Prince’s insight and research on romance scams has been of great use to many anti-scams groups.He has helped a lot of people to unravel the truth about romance scams and how it operates. You can read more about you can avoid romance scams at www.elovedeceptions.com

The mistakes men make when online dating are spoiling there chances dramatically. Men already outnumber women by 2 to 1 so they need every advantage they can get. With the way some men approach online dating it shouldn’t be too hard to make more of an impression than the competition.

First mistake men make is with their online dating photo. Some don’t even have one. This is the biggest mistake you can make. Everyone should have a photo on their profile. Admittedly women don’t put as much emphasis on looks as much as men but it’s nice to see what someone looks like before they’re contacted. If you don’t have a photo on your profile it will just get ignored. Plus it looks suspicious.

When you do upload a photo make sure it’s a close up and clear one. So many men put up one with themselves so far away from the camera it’s impossible to see what they look like. If women have to use their imagination about your looks they will only get disappointed when you eventually meet them. Also never put a photo on your profile of you naked. A few men still do this, and it is not the way to attract a single woman online. This will only be socially accepted on an adult online dating service where they expect it to happen.

Being negative in your online dating profile is something you shouldn’t do. Some men go on about their ex girlfriends, and the things they didn’t like about them. No one wants to here about anyone’s ex girlfriends, and especially anything negative. That will not get you e-mailed or have any of your e-mails replied to. Single women want to read positive, active things. They want to read something that makes them want to get to know you better. Be positive, tell them about your goals in life. This will give them some idea of a future with you, and put a picture in their mind. This is how women think, it’s not just about getting that first date.

Don’t make a list of the type of women you don’t want contacting you. This will probably make you unapproachable. If you have a preference then say the things you do like in women. Tell them you want someone who looks after her body if you want a slim girlfriend.

Put as much detail in your profile as you can. It doesn’t have to be a novel just don’t leave any questions unanswered. If you have an empty profile like a lot of men do then no one will ever contact you. Women like to read about men first so give them something to read.

Don’t expect a free ride. If you’re attracted to some of the single women, pay for a months subscription, and send them an e-mail. So many men send pre written flirts to about 30 women and then wonder why they’re not getting any responses. Women like that personal touch. With an e-mail you can mention things that you liked in their profile. They will tell straight away that you haven’t put any effort in and you’re too tight to pay for 1 months subscription. If you can’t pay for that how will they expect you to wine and dine them?

Never start getting possessive online. If you haven’t seen someone you have been communicating with for a few days don’t question where she has been. Most women still have a life away from an online dating service so allow them that privacy.

Acting like a creep or a stalker is a definite no no. If a woman hasn’t answered your e-mail then move on to someone else. Keep sending the same woman an e-mail will not make her want to date you any more than she does already.

If you can stay away from these mistakes men make when online dating you will have a much higher strike rate when it comes to getting replies, and getting that first date.

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Are you sick of being told “I just want to be friends” or “you’re a really nice guy but it’s just not the right time in my life for a relationship” and about 99 other excuses you’ve heard over and over again?

I don’t blame you. Sometimes it seems like a mystery when trying to find out what make some men successful with women when you are not – especially when you think you are doing everything right, just like you’ve been told or just like you read in the books.

But the good news is that there is now an easier route to dating success

Internet dating has made meeting beautiful women so much easier, hence why I’ve been using it for the last two years with great success.

There are many different ways to meet women and each has its own advantages. Ways such as :

* Personal ads
* Speed dating
* Through friends or colleagues
* Singles events
* Offline dating agencies
* In bars and nightclubs
* Taking evening courses

BUT…

Internet dating is king and here is why:

* It’s cheap
* It’s quick
* It’s fun
* It’s simple to use
* There are thousands of women in almost every area now online
* They know you don’t just want to be friends but that you are actively looking for a date and ultimately a partner.
* And the biggest reason of all is that it’s a great place to learn without the fear of face to face rejection

It’s a fact of life that rejection is all part of the dating process, and even the most successful guys who date lots of different girls get rejected far more often than they ever get lucky.

In fact with online dating you can see how random the process really is and why you should not take rejection too personally.

Just like most things in life, dating is a simple numbers game. And even though the numbers may appear to be stacked against you they can still be turned in your favour. The more we can move them in your favour, the more successful with the type of women you want to date you will be.

Dating has never been as quick and easy as it is nowadays. On the internet you can simply put up a profile, play around with it until it sounds the way you want it and then off you go. A good way to look at it is like it’s your own 24/7 automated dating machine that’s attracting women for you around the clock! How cool is that?

And you don’t have to be attractive, rich or extra special in any way. In fact, the guys I know who are most successful with women don’t have a lot of money and are usually just average looking guys, unremarkable at first sight.

The difference is they know what women want, they know how to behave around women and they act in ways women find attractive.

And the good news is that this is all stuff that can be learned.

Sean Pearce has published many articles and several books on dating, how to attract women and overcoming anxiety with women. You can get a free sample book along with a free mini course in dating at OnlineDatingSecrets.co.uk

You have met an interesting woman online. You two had a great time chatting online and she decided to give you her phone number. Now you have to make her want to see you face to face, and the phone is your only tool.

The first telephone call is the most important one. Sure you have her number, but nothing has been won yet.

1. Before you call you should have prepared a list of several topics to talk about. Hopefully your email exchange has provided you with some information to follow up on. Study her profile to think of other topics to talk about. Prepare open ended questions. Start talking about a subject, and give her a chance to speak as well.

2. DON’T: ask her questions about other guys she’s seeing, suspiciously interrogate her about how she spends her time, and angrily reprimand her for flaking on you. How she spends her time is her business.

A lot of men sabotage their chances with a woman by don’t giving her enough credit and respect.

You know there’s trouble if you’re doing all the talking and her replies are short or non-existent. If so it either means you haven’t hit on the right topic to talk about, or, more likely, she simply isn’t interested. Also, if she ends the conversation early or “has to go”, leave it up to her to call you again, if she wants to. Usually, she won’t.

So, when talking to a woman on the phone DON’T worry about impressing her. Have fun. Enjoy the conversation. Amuse yourself.

3. At first phone conversation is better to stay away of complimenting her. I think giving women compliments can be very powerful. But when you give a woman compliments within the context of trying to win her over, you become a wuss.

Usually women are curious why the men they are talking to online decided to pick them instead of other thousandths of profiles. Most of them will ask you about these “reasons” and by doing this are giving you the opportunity to make her compliments. So, wait the moment. 

If the conversation flow easily, effortlessly, if you find her fairly responsive and you can keep up the conversation for at least a half hour you can ask her out. Her answer seam to be: “YES”.

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