Singles Dating

Write the Wrong Words and You’ll Miss Mr Right!

And How do you know that what you have written conveys what you really intended?

There are a lot of ‘Profile Doctors’ attached to Single Dating Sites these days. They can make your profile pull contacts for you by writing your personal ad for you.

Like it or not, your Singles profile is just like selling any product or or commodity. You need the right headline to attract attention, a picture of the product you are selling, and the ad itself, where you sell the features and benefits of the product. i.e. Use this easy to apply face cream and you will look and feel 10 years younger!

Online dating service’s are growing rapidly as the Internet Dating idea grabs hold and becomes a more acceptable way for people to meet from just about anywhere in the world.There are many success stories, but unfortunately, there are thousands of disappointed and misrepresented singles stories that just don’t make the head lines.

If you are interested in only meeting men or women for pleasure and sex, then the Adult Personals would be the way to go. If however you are serious about wanting to meet someone for a short or long term Relationship, then you will find my article “Write the Wrong Words and You’ll Miss Mr. Right!” a valuable asset in your entry into the online singles game!

Here’s an example of some female profiles with ‘naughty bits’ that may have not been intended!

“I am open to anything new”
“I love spending hours in a spa or Jacuzzi”
“I like to live life to the hilt”
“I love a long lunch, I bet on the horses, roulette and blackjack”

Now you may ask what is wrong with those statements.
The first thing to remember is that you haven’t written a private letter to a friend! This is a public profile seen by thousands of the opposite sex.

You need to ask yourself, ‘What frame of reference are the people reading this profile coming from?

Let’s go deeper.

If you sell spa’s or Jacuzzis and a potential customer tells you that they love to spend hours in a spa, you know you probably have a sale. You know the clients frame of reference - that is - I love spa’s, I like to do things in a spa, I think I will buy one for myself and have it installed at home.

Now, go tell that NOT to spa sales people, but to a testosterone filled dating site where guys are drooling over and fantasizing about meeting a woman for marriage or even just one night!

What is their frame of reference? Love, Sex, Marriage, One Night Stand, Fantasies, A Date, A Nice Meal in nice Surroundings, etc etc.

From that frame of reference, tell me what this could mean?
“I am open to anything new”

Questions
What is Open?
What is Anything?
What is New?

These things mean different things to different people, and people will assume that what you mean is how they understand it.

It goes deeper and deeper than that.

If you haven’t had sex for a while or you really feel like some tonight, but don’t know where you are going to get some. Put yourself in that frame of mind. then go search the singles dating profiles.

Now look at this and tell me what it means?
“I am open to anything new”

Remember, this is not the same for a guy as it is for a woman!
A guy would write, I’m up for anything new”

So she’s open and he’s up. And the subconscious mind hears SEX!

If you wonder why you get some weird email contacts and you thought you had put yourself across as a prude in your profile, you had better check for statements like the ones I have shown you above.

As an example, the “I am open to anything new” statement should be clearly clarified.

“I am willing to try new experiences such as going to sporting events, which I have never been to, perhaps learning to sail, bungee jumping and dancing the salsa.”

If you do want to meet someone just for sex, then the opposite of this is to bury the statements within your profiles normal text, so that it appears normal, but really tugs at the male subconscious. For instance, many guys would like their wives to be a Lady in the lounge room, and a Slut in the bedroom!

“I am a very open woman and love to spend an hour or two in my spa (Jacuzzi) getting soaking wet. I am very cheeky but then on the other side, I love to give and receive sensual massages. Before you head off for the hills, I feel I’d like to get to know you over a long lunch and we can get to know each other better - so get in touch with me now and let’s turn over a new leaf. Send me a kiss”!

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Mr Write is the author of “Write the Wrong Words and You’ll Miss Mr. Right”… A Free ebook available for instant download.