Archive for November, 2006

Compliment Her, Date Her, Love Her, Get Her

Wednesday, November 29th, 2006

Gentlemen:

- Are you tired of women passing you by without a second glance?

- Are you fed up with being alone or having to settle for ugly or average-looking women?

- Are you annoyed by the fact that some guys seem to get all the great girls when you don’t get any?

- Are you scared of the dating scene and unsure of how to approach and talk to women?

If these are some of your problems, then let me tell you that you are not alone. It seems the only guys who get lucky these days are the ones who know something that you don’t. Modern-day Casanovas and studs understand what a woman wants and they know how to manipulate a woman to their sexual advantage.

When we enter the age that is said to be the most exciting phase of our lives, the age at which we enjoy life to its fullest, the age when we boys are called youngsters or young guns, everyone of us has one thing in mind. The same old question how to attract, date and seduce beautiful women. Isn’t it? Yes, indeed, it’s very true. Aren’t we speaking the language of your heart?

So here I am going to share with you some important tips and tricks that you should not only keep in your mind but also follow to attract the fair sex towards you. Not only this, you can also make others feel jealous of you - and, believe me, other men will be shocked at your success!

Never before has a man thrown out the rule book and exposed every last intimate secret about what it takes to get a great woman. These secrets are vital to your success and it is important that you understand them to get yourself into the lives, hearts - and beds of beautiful women! Hmmmm…

Do you know what is the biggest myth that most of the guys believe?

It is that you have to be good-looking and rich to get a woman…
B-U-T - but my dear friends, this is simply - not true!

It does not matter if you are ugly, bald or poor!
It does not matter what age you are - 18 or 80!
It does not matter if you have a low-paying job!

Whatever your appearance, age or occupation, you can transform yourself into a man that women will be fighting over. If you follow these tips for dating and pick-up success, women will flock to you from all corners of the bar, restaurant, the nearby shopping mall or even the supermarket. Literally, anywhere you go, women will want to date you, and the best thing is - they won’t know why! It’s not a joke, guys, it’s a dream come true for everyone of you.

Women will be putty in your hands!

I’ll tell you how to manipulate the dating game in your favour so that you walk away with hot dates every single night, and your friends will be so jealous, they’ll beg you to let them in on your secret!

Do you want to be the guy who’s successful with any woman you desire? Well, starting today - you can be!

Forget all that you have learned about dating women up until now… If you’ve learned it from a man, chances are it doesn’t work! Most of the well-known dating and seduction books or articles that are written for men, by men, fail to realise one thing: only a woman truly knows what a woman wants! But we won’t let the same thing happen again. So this is the first and probably the most important thing that you should keep in mind and find out what a woman expects from you. Then try your best to fulfil that particular expectation.

Do remember that there are no easy ‘one-liners’ that actually work well. Girls hear one-liners all the time and when they hear a cheesy line from you, they presume you are only after one thing - and promptly reject you! The more times you’re rejected, the harder the dating game seems and the lower your confidence plummets.

5 things girls love to hear

There are some rules that are to be followed while going on a date. I have asked 250 girls around the world to give me the one tip guys should know, when dating. Here are the results:

The top 5 things girls love to hear are…

1. Compliments
2. Compliments
3. Compliments
4. Compliments
5. And more compliments

That’s the answer girls gave to the question. Every single girl likes to be listened to and complimented in the right way, at the right time, by the right person. Pay attention to her, be honest, and speak from your heart. But don’t overdo it.

Now let me tell you the compliments that can really attract a woman to you. But take good care when making use of these compliments while dating the one you love.

Indirect Compliments

* I like this colour.
* You are right
* (If she is preparing a dish) Mmmm… It smells good
* (While eating) It’s delicious (and) How did you do that?

But never, never speak about tits, legs and ass on the first date. It would be too sexual at that point of time. And it would be perceived as a major intrusion. What you think is a compliment might very well be perceived as an insult.

Direct compliments

Excellent for the first approach

* I like your shirt. I like your skirt… I like your earrings.
* I like your bracelet. May I see it?
* I like your bag… I love the sound of your voice.

More Sensual

* I like your hair.
* I like the way you dress.
* Your hair looks so soft.
* Hmmm… you smell good.

It means more or less: I like you. I offer you this compliment as a proof of my admiration. Let’s be friends.

Anything sensual but nothing sexual or related to the body, unless you can defuse it with humour. Otherwise, it might be too direct. There is no pretty woman who would turn down regular compliments and entertaining company, from a handsome guy.

Direct body compliments

* Nice legs!

But, hey, while making use of these direct body compliments, be careful. It is like entering the Danger Zone. It’s like nitroglycerine and can blow up on your face any minute if you don’t know how to use it. Many girls can take that as an insult. It’s like saying, “Nice ass.” Use it only when you know the girl and you perceive flirting signals. Never use it early. Because it means more or less - “My hand would fit very well on your legs, and I’d like to…” Girls usually don’t like that unless they already like you. But how can they like you if those are your first words and they don’t even know you? Believe me, my friends, there are better ways to give a killer first impression.

Moreover, if a girl has nice legs, do you think she waited for you to notice it? If you say it, you act as a beggar and you give away all your feelings. Seduction is like a poker game, not a demolition site. You don’t want the girl to see you as the guy with a helmet, behind the fence where it is written - “Under construction.”

But once she brushes up against you, or you can touch her any time, it’s fine by me.

Top compliments

* You are gorgeous
* You are very pretty.
* You are beautiful… (or) You look beautiful tonight….

You have to find elements in the situation (clothes, attitude, haircut, personality…) anything related to her and special to that moment, so your compliment will be totally honest.

Personal compliments

* You are looking nice today, Senorita!

And she will feel great, as sexy as Jennifer Lopez - dancing on a hot tin roof.

Indirect top compliments

These are a few smart ones:

* You know you’re… (Give a looong pause after that. Let her fill in the blank on her own)
* You know you are gorgeous.
* You know how much I care for you.

Hot compliments

Once you become very intimate, treat your lady like a princess. One of the best ways to turn her wild in bed is to make her feel sooooooo… good. You can deliver hot compliments while making love…

* I love your skin. So soft.
* I love the taste of your skin.
* Let me watch you. You’re beautiful.

Any girl likes to be appreciated for what she is. Any girl likes to be loved. I don’t say that’s how you get girls interested. Don’t compliment them at the very beginning. Remain solid as a rock and a big challenge for her.

As I keep saying, chasing women is like playing poker (I really hope yo know what poker is…). Don’t show your cards right away and the game will be interesting for her. Play your compliment-card when it is your turn. Not before. Women were huntresses hundreds of years ago. They still are. They love to run after YOU and get YOU.

But once you know for sure that you have gained interest, find the right words and let them drop on her eardrums like the precious pearls of a earring. You will become her Prince Charming and she will fall in your strong arms like ripe fruit.

Apply these tricks and I am sure you are going to feel on top of the world (along with your lady in Red).

Happy dating…!!!

By: Michael Douglas

Michael Douglas is a dating expert and he will help you develop high confidence while approaching a woman and provides tips for being irresistible to a woman. Please visit his website Love-Lectures.com for more dating tips and ideas to meet, attract and seduce a woman.


Online Dating Tips: Play Safe!

Tuesday, November 28th, 2006

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” Samuel Butler has stated the most thought provoking and intriguing reality of life in as simple words as possible. For people who have been through this delirious phase called Love would be able to recount how fantastical life seems when you actually meet someone that makes your heart skip a beat or two. But beware; love is not just about fairy tales and fantasies!

At times when real life romances are fizzing out in no time, online dating and romances have given people a completely new dimension to explore. People suffer from a lot of misconceptions when it comes to this novel concept of Online Dating. There have also been times when virtual romances have turned nightmarish. Fret not, erase your memory, follow these golden “safety tips” and your online dating experience can blossom into one that you would love to cherish till eternity!

· First things first, be very selective when it comes to choosing an online dating site or agency. Very reputed ones take good care of their members by checking past records of its members and by automatically deleting excessive or sensitive information from profiles.

· Choosing an appropriate screen name is almost necessity. The name that you choose shouldn’t be too boring or too cocky. Who knows, your screen name might attract all the unwanted attention that you might find hard to fend!

· Once the initial choice is made, don’t give out personal details such as your name, phone number, address or a personal description to people you chat to on the internet. Well, not at least till the person you are chatting with becomes a reliable friend!

· If you decide to make a date, never give personal details such as your address or surname.

· Life is not lead by rules. Same goes for online dating. Follow and trust your instincts and more often than not you will come out with the right decision.

We would love you to share some of your online dating experiences with us. Shall look forward to getting some feedback from you!

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By: Samuel Hary

Samuel Hary who is associated with www.ukonlionemarket.co.uk would present the best Online Dating Tools through the portal.

YOU Are The Best Man For Me!

Friday, November 24th, 2006

Yes, that’s true. You are the best! But no woman will tell you this too easy, even if she believes it.

If you do like a women you are dating to, and you want more than a few dating nights with her, just STOP being nervous and excited around her. If she accepted to date you more than once you do have a lot of chances to be the best man for her. All you have to do is to start believing it yourself, and she will realize it too (if she hasn’t already).

Let’s suppose you don’t know each other very well. The fun of dating is learning about each other, peeling away the layers and discovering all those wonderful habits and personality. Don’t be too intense when you two are spending time together. It could be fun and remember that fun should be the main state when dating her.

If you have “I need a soul mate” stamped on your forehead, you’ll scare her away. But if instead of that you have the attitude “I am the best for you, and I’m not in a hurry because I know you are not going anyway” you will look confident, calm, funny and finally more attractive.

Attractive women are looking for something different: a challenge, a spark, an unpredictable, funny guy like you to take her imagination away.

I’ve heard many women talking about how they would like to meet a serious, loving man to build a life with, most of them are not in their best days when are telling this. But I never heard a woman in love saying that she is attracted to her lover because he is a serious and careful, attentive man.

Would you like to know how a woman in love is describing her sweetheart? I’ll tell you how: “I really don’t know why I am so in love with him. He’s different! He’s the best!” Nothing too concrete here, you’ll say. You are right, but this is the true: attraction has no logic.

I don’t tell you to get a shower before your date (a recommendation that make me smile and that you can find in most dating articles tips for men on net :))  but dress smart casual, don’t overdo it.

Just become a challenge for her and maybe some day she will whisper to your ear “YOU are the best man for me!”

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Yick! This Is Not Going To Work

Thursday, November 23rd, 2006

Online dating is hot. People are finding out that meeting someone online is not only very doable but can be especially gratifying. .

But (there’s always one of those) internet dating can sometimes produce less than positive results. For many people it’s when expectations meet reality.

For instance a guy who thinks he’s found the right girl. He replies on her profile and suddenly they start communicating on a very regular basis.

The chemistry they’ve built up through exchanging messages and talking on the phone blossoms. Now he considers the possibility of having more than an online relationship with the girl. He decides it’s time to set up their first real date.

And then it happens. They meet for first time over lunch and it’s a disaster. The girl appears to be somewhat different than what the guy had expected or recalled. But worse of all, the cheerful chemistry and lively conversation they had built up abruptly vanished. The date came to an end and even though the girl said that she had a nice time and enjoyed herself the problem is still there. The guy does not know what to say.

This is not uncommon in the world of online dating. There are many cases where two people just don’t click when they meet in person.

A lot of people who are involved in online dating usually ask why such things happen. They find it hard to believe that the person they have learned to like (and love) online is entirely different when in person.

So they try to assess themselves what went wrong. Is it their point of view that has changed? Were they deceived by the other person? Or was it just wrong from the very start?

The problem with most people is they fail to keep in mind that when they communicate to their dates online, they are really communicating, not with a person but with a series of texts. This is because any answers can always be fabricated or the other person can always deceive his or her date.

When this happens, personal meetings often end up like the one mentioned above. This is because reality is entirely different from what the computer screen illustrates.

Nevertheless, in real life, you’ve got to know how to exit from the situation without having to hurt the other person’s feelings.

1. It would be better not to delve on the issue about not having the right chemistry in the first place, or point out the reason why an individual cannot pursue the dating any longer.

In order to break things up easily, don’t focus on the issue of not getting the expectations one had started to build before you met in person. Don’t excuse yourself on the grounds that your date is not good-looking enough, or be hurtful in any way.

2. Explain the importance of finding each other’s right mate in order to build a happy relationship.

An individual should at least try to make an extra effort on explaining how chemistry works with two people and that lack of such value could be detrimental in one’s relationship.

3. Excuses will only make it worse.

Rejection should be done in such a way that the other person will not be hurt. That’s going to be tough enough without you making dreadful excuses the other person will sense immediately

4. Be firm in your decisions.

If you start to tell the other person that you think the relationship will not work, but then go all wishy washy, you will only make the matter worse and generate negative feelings.

5. It is usually best to allow your date to express their sentiments and ask questions then answer the questions as honestly as possible.

When a person gets disappointed after meeting his or her online date in person, it would be better to set things straight at once and put an end on the situation before it gets out of hand.

Try and understand how your date is feeling and be kind to them, even though you are about to end the relationship. Remember if you were in their place, you would want your date to be kind to you.

By: Daryl

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Online Dating Advice

Wednesday, November 22nd, 2006

Many singles are seeking dating advice due to heartache, bad luck or downright confusion about the opposite sex. As the number one resource for information, it seems the most popular place for dating advice isn’t a glossy magazine or a trusted friend, but rather the Internet. Virtually thousands of dating services encompass the Internet, yet it isn’t making the dating world any less ambiguous it seems, as one of the most searched phrases online is, “dating advice”.

There are many advice columns or, as the Brits call them, agony aunts on the Web. Many of them are sought out for dating advice, marital quick fixes and sex tips. All of the above are related, obviously. For as long as mankind has existed and procreated, it seems there are still many mysteries amongst lovers. While some dating advice is strictly referring to the physical aspect of a relationship, others are imparting deep, thoughtful wisdom on the union of two people.

One of the most successful formulas for a site about dating advice is one that allows the public to submit their own thoughts. Open content sites, sometimes referred to as “wikis”, can allow for any man or woman to disclose dating advice that has worked for them. Some sites are specifically targeted to a gender and it helps to have the opposite sex weigh in on what they are really thinking about on a date. Many such sites allow users to rate each tip according to how useful it is in practice.

Many people refer to dating as if it’s a game. If that were true, then it would seem that the search for dating advice would merely be a way to get ahead of the other players. However, there is a less cynical way to look at it, too. Online dating advice serves a purpose and is harmless in many ways. After all, who is taking an article entitled, “101 Raunchy Pick-Up Lines” that seriously? Likewise, dating advice about what not to wear on a first date is just harmless fun to most. One must try different approaches to dating in person before one truly knows what does and doesn’t work.

There is a big demand for instant gratification and knowledge in today’s world, but the idea of seeking out the Internet for quick dating advice may seem rash to some. After all, isn’t each situation unique to its two parties? Surely there isn’t a blanket statement that will help to heal the human heart or lead a person to Mr./Mrs. Right. However, humans are curious creatures, seeking out answers to things they don’t yet understand and love can be the most enigmatic feeling in the world, creating a large need for online dating advice.

By: Jason Roberts -

Jason Roberts is a writer for GuaranteedOnlineDatingSystem.com which is an excellent place to find Dating links, For more information go to:Online Dating Advice