You have to get in the ball game and play. When it comes to relationships, you cannot just sit on the sidelines and wait for love to fly overhead. Now when you put yourself out there, there is a chance for failure and heartache. Those two come with the territory.

Be open and honest throughout your entire relationship. Let your love flag fly. Ask where your partner feels the relationship is headed. If you are on two different pages or totally different books, then you may need to look elsewhere for what you want out of a relationship. Of course, there is the physical aspect of your relationship. Keep your mind open here. Now that does not suggest that you should dress up in all leather and whip him with a chain (unless of course you are into that sort of thing). Just be honest about what interests you and that will be just fine.

That quality time with your partner is a gift in itself. At least once a week plan for a night out on the town. Leave the kids at home and get ready for a night of love. Make reservations at the restaurant you both enjoy or go where you had your first date and relive that perfect evening. If going out is not an option, plan for a romantic evening at home. Gather candles and have rose petals leading from the front door to the dinner table. This works for both men and woman. Prepare a fabulous dinner consisting of your partners favorite dishes and save room for dessert. Be ready in an outfit that will make his jaw drop. Remember men, woman love a man in a tuxedo. Turn the stereo on low and see where the night takes you.

Whether you have been married for 10 years or are on your second date, make your partner feel like they are the only one in the room. Say it with flowers, say it with candy. Better yet, say it with a kind word and a touch of her hand or a soft kiss.

By: Ron Steiner

Ron Steiner is 41 years old from New York. He is a featured writer at www.DrDating.com - one of the most complete sources on the Internet for dating advice, dating site reviews and information on dating, relationships and singles. Get a FREE 7 Day Dating eCourse - “The Ultimate Man’s Guide to Online Dating”.

Flowers have a language of their own, a bright particular language, that is fun to explore.

Almost all women like flowers. They like to receive many flowers even if is her birthday or an anniversary or for no reason at all. The woman  consider that it doesn’t really have to be a special day to bring her flowers, it should  happen in any simple day in order to show your feelings for her.

If you didn’t bring her flowers for a long time, she might think that you have no feelings any more for her.

If you have already a girlfriend and you care about her you should show your feelings. If you decided to do this by bringing her flowers, you have a large variety to choose from. Every kind of flower has a particular language, all of them express something. So, according to your feelings for her and what you want to show her, choose the flower which it represents you.

For example, ROSES are most use because have a lot of senses. Every color means something else:
* red - imply passionate, romantic love
* white - express innocence, purity, secrecy, virtue and chastity
* yellow - friendship or devotion, a dying love, platonic love, and also means jealousy and infidelity
* blue - mystery, attaining the impossible
* orange - desire, passion
* burgundy - beauty
* pink - a lesser affection, grace
* light pink - admiration, sympathy
* dark pink - gratitude
* red and yellow - joy, happiness, excitement
* red and white - unity

Another beautiful and used flower is LILY:
* imperial one -express  majesty
* day lily - means coquetry
* white -  youthful innocence, purity
* yellow -  gaiety, falsehood
* water lily - purity of heart

If you want to show her your thoughts, bring her CAMELLIA:
* pink - I’m longing for you
* red - you’re in flame in my heart
* white - you’re adorable

In addition, TULIPS may help you in expressing your thoughts and feelings:
* red -  declaration of love, show trust
* variegated - compliments, beautiful eyes
* yellow - there’s sunshine in your smile

IRIS is named after the Messenger of the Gods in Greek mythology
* represents a message being sent, faith, hope, wisdom and valor, compliments

ORCHID are very beautiful and refinement flowers:
* means - love, beauty,  compliments like beautiful lady

If you are at the beginning of your relationship, you may give her LILAC:
* purple one - express the fist emotion of love
* white - youthful innocence, purity

Use JASMINES to express amiability:
* yellow - grace and elegance
* Spanish - sensuality

LOTUS means eloquence:
* lotus flower - estranged love

For showing modesty buy VIOLET:
* blue - faithfulness, watchfulness

SUNFLOWERS - mean either haughtiness or respect

MAGNOLIA - express love of the nature, nobility
* swamp magnolia -  perseverance

NARCISSUS - compliments as if you are so sweet, and egotism

AMBROSIA - tells her that her love is reciprocated

DAISY - imply purity, innocence, loyal love

IVY - use this for expressing your fidelity

PANSY - means thoughts

Therefore, using flowers is an easy way to express your feelings and it is at your choice which flowers represent you better and your thoughts.

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Be honest- are you one of those guys who secretly *wants* a girl who is your friend?

She’s attractive, intelligent and you feel great whenever you’re around her, but she only likes you “like a friend”.

Well if you have these feelings then you’re not alone…

In fact, there are many guys who want to go from being friends with a female to something more physical. Perhaps even leading to a relationship!

However most women brush off any advances from their guy friends because they’ve grown comfortable with the friendship and want to jeopardize it.

The good news there is a step-by-step system you can follow that’ll turn that female friend into your girlfriend. Now I have to warn you some of these techniques are a little intense. So if you ‘re not a brave person then I recommend you read no further…

But if you’re tired of watching other dudes hang with the girls you secretly like, then I recommend you implement this five part system:

Step 1- Don’t be a friend when you first meet a woman

The first step is to never become friends with a woman. Instead of acting like a woman’s buddy when you first meet her, you should act like a guy she would want to date. In other words, there are certain things women observe that help them place guys into either the “friend” category or the “boyfriend” category.

I’ll give you a hint- if you’re always there for her and treat her with kindness and respect then you’ll probably end up in the friend category.

In order to prevent this, you should act in an aggressive and sexual manner from the moment you meet a woman. In essence you will want to act in a way that a friend wouldn’t.

Step 2- Remove yourself from her

Now if you’re already in a situation where you’re *just friends* then you’re going to have to do something dramatic.

You have to stop hanging out with her!

This means you stop calling her, emailing her, and hanging out. Do everything you can remove yourself from the friendship.

While it’s important to never be a jerk to her, you have to become a “really busy” guy who doesn’t have much time to hang out. You can return her calls and messages, but make sure you do it over after a couple of days.

Bottom line is you should stop being the guy who is always there for her.

Step 3- Date other women

When you’ve stopped talking this girl, you have to date other women. In order for this system to work, you should make a decision about your friend. Either you can decide to stay friends or continue working towards making her your girlfriend.

By dating other women, you’ll start to develop a more confident attitude about women. In essence, you’ll start to see how she compares with other women.

Step 4- Contact her after a period of not talking

Once you’ve dated different women for a couple of months, you should make a decision about your female friend. You’ve can either choose to be friends or try to develop a relationship. If you want to make your friendship more physical, then you should contact her.

Now when you initially talk to her, make sure you speak to her like a potential dating partner, not like a friend. In other words, don’t be all buddy-buddy with her. Instead act in a way that a guy she would want to date.

Step 5- Treat her like a woman

Now that you’re talking to her again, start behaving in a way that’ll make her attract to you. Ask her on dates, flirt with her and treat her like a woman. The more you can do to act like a MAN, the more she’ll see you in a new light.

Turning a friend into a girlfriend is a hard thing to do. Women are naturally inclined to categorize men to the friend or boyfriend category. So it’s up to you to make a dramatic turnaround and transform yourself into the kind of guy she’ll want to date.

While these five steps are pretty extreme, it can be your best solution for transforming a casual friendship to relationship.

By: Scott Patterson
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You should give unconditional love without any expectation. When you love somebody unconditionally, you are ready to do anything for that person, surely, if she returns your feelings.

However, what happens if your loved one has already a child? This should not be a problem for you if you are sure that this relationship is what you want and you are ready to make all the sacrifices that perhaps.

Singles that already have a child are very concerned and choosy about their dating options. They usually avoid going out and do not accept very easy a new partner. Dating in these circumstances is not easy for both partners because it is very risky. In any moment, it might happen you find out that she is not truly sincere with you, because every mother protects her child.

Be realistic and do not pretend it will have no effect on your potential relationship; it will. While you are dating, kids will limit the time you can spend together and put your love life on a curfew. If things get more serious and long term, they will play a major role in your relationship.

If children are part of the family of someone you are dating, there are unique things you have to consider.

Dating someone with kids is a matter of compatibility and acceptance. Therefore, if you want to get into her family and to be accepted, you must win their hearts.

Meeting her child is a very important thing in establishing and maintaining functioning relationship. However, this should happen only when you are dating for a while and things become more and more serious. To extend your relationship you must form a relationship with the child. You may start by showing him that you could be his friend and your relationship will not hurt him.

So, prepare a meeting out, try to spend more and more time with the child and make him feel good with you. Spend time at their place playing games, watch cartoons. Be aware to the child feelings and wishes. Make so that some day he will accept you.

Watch out because children are very difficult, do complicated things and ask a lot of questions, that is why you should ask from the beginning about the child habits to know what to expect at.

Also, be careful at the details. Be sure that your behavior in front of the kid is appropriate. In particular, be careful about displaying physical affection when the child is around. Do not do anything in front of the kid that would embarrass you, he will report to the other parent.

Children use their parent’s behavior as a model for their own lives.  The examples you set for the kid will influence him over a lifetime.

If his biological parent is out of the picture due to death or divorce, he may use you to replace his parent and may act angry and hurtful towards you. Assure him that you do not want to take his parent place and you know that he is the most important in his life; you just want to be more like a friend and to give you a chance to get into his life.

Discuss with both, mother and child about what role you will play in their life, this being a good opportunity for all to express your feelings. Therefore, you will know what your place is and how to act in this relationship to make it work.

With some luck and some sacrifices from your side and not only, you may have the family that you ever dreamed with the woman you love.

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For single guys, trying to meet woman can be a very frustrating process. Even if we go to the right places and find interesting girls, it still can be difficult due to the fact that guys have to be the ones who initiate a conversation.

Making the first move can be quite intimidating due to the fact that many guys don’t know what to say or how to start talking to women.

Even worse, a lot of guys are unsure if a girl will be interested in them.

But if you become a master at reading the body language of women, you can avoid that initial uneasiness and have the confidence to approach women.

So what is body language?

Basically body language is the collection of traits and behavior that all people give off which indicates our conscious (and sub-conscious) feelings. By paying attention to the body language of a woman, you’ll be able to tell if she wants you to talk to her.

Having this knowledge will make approaching her that much easier. So when you locate a girl that you are interested in, take a look at her body language and pay attention to these three indicators of interest:

1) Eye Contact

Before even talking to a woman, try to make direct eye contact with her. Often you’ll see her looking away quickly and then glancing back at you. If she holds your eye contact, then that is a definite indicator that she has an interest in you.

In addition, when she knows that you’re looking at her, study how she interacts with her friends and environment. Try to find anything that indicates a level of nervousness. This shows that she is attracted to you and is having trouble composing herself.

2) Touching Her Hair

For some mysterious reason, women show their interest in a guy by playing with their hair. By watching how she touches her hair, you’ll find out her level of interest.

Once you make eye contact, study how she touches her hair. The first thing you should look for is if she flips her hair. If you see her toss her hair from one side to the other and then looks directly at you, this indicates that she has some level of desire for you and would like you to engage her in a conversation.

Some other hair indicators can include caressing her hair as she talks to her friends or twirling hair around her finger. If you see these actions coupled with looks in your direction, then you’re being sent a subtle message.

3) Pointing Her Body Towards You

A powerful way to find out if a woman likes you is to watch how she positions her body after making initial eye contact. If she positions her body in your general direction, then this shows she is attracted to you.

When studying her, you are basically looking for
certain indicators which demonstrate a subconscious desire for you to talk to her. Some gestures can include:

- Feet pointing towards you
- Exposing her wrists in your direction
- Widening her legs

If you see any maneuver from a woman which indicates an “opening up”, she is telling you that she is attracted and wants you to initiate a conversation.

By paying attention to the body language of women, you can find out their level of desire without even speaking a word. If you’re the shy type, then this is a great way to build confidence before making your first move.

So next time you’re looking for women, take some time to check out what they are saying to you without speaking a word.

By: Scott Patterson

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