Archive for March, 2007

Basic Kissing Tips

Saturday, March 31st, 2007

Be patient. There is no hurry for a kiss, especially the first kiss. Wait until the mood is right. Everyone prefers the romantic kiss - at a romantic movie, after or during an on-screen kiss, during an intimate conversation…

Have fresh breath. Floss and brush your teeth at least twice daily. During the day you should chew gum, or use breath mints or mouthwash. Don’t forget the breath freshener especially if you plan to kiss with your partner after eating. And of course, make sure you don’t have something stuck in your teeth.

Make sure that your lips are well moisturized and not chapped. Apply lip balm frequently and keep your lips soft.

Breathe. When you’re kissing for an extended period, it is easy to forget to breathe. Don’t hold your breath. It is awkward when you have to pull away gasping for air. Breathe through your nose, and keep a normal rhythm.

Use your hands. You should always use your hands to make the kiss more romantic. Embrace your partner, cup their face very gently in your hands. Run your hands through their hair. This is very stimulating. Whatever you do, don’t just let your hands hang at your sides.

Here’s what you should not do:

- Don’t approach with a mouth wide open
- Don’t stick out your tongue
- Don’t force your tongue down your partner’s throat
- Don’t bite – or you could easily hurt your partner
- Don’t force anything. If someone indicates that they don’t want to be kissed, don’t persist.
- Don’t make groaning noises
- Don’t make an awkward silence after the kiss - say something romantic

Good kissing requires practice. You’ll get better as you do it more. The more practice you have with one person, the more comfortable you will feel kissing him or her, and you’ll also develop a style that suits both you and your partner.

By: Pax Shumway

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How to Have an Affair with Your Girlfriend’s Best Friend

Friday, March 30th, 2007

You had a perfect relationship and a perfect life since a few days ago. You don’t know what happened but for some time your relationship is passing throw a bad episode, because you and your girlfriend were not getting along anymore.

In any relationship things change after some time, it is not all as beautiful as it was from the beginning. Appear a lot of problems, misunderstandings and also many argue. Even if you love your partner very much, if you are arguing every day, after a while you are enough of all this and you may find the consolation you need in other part.

What happen if in some day you are very upset because you and your girlfriend were arguing again, so you decided to go in a club with your friends at a beer to calm down a little? But there she is: your girlfriend’s best friend, a beautiful, sexy and available lady which sees you and get in talk with you.

You are talking with her about your girlfriend and how hard it is to understand with her in the last days, that you are not getting along anymore, that’s why she upsets you every day. You are enough of all of this, and you need someone who understands you, love you as the way you are. She understands you and offers her help to get throw this.

She was flirting with you until the day you met her, but now it was her chance to get you. Because she is very beautiful you couldn’t resist to her, and you spend that night with her, because she offered you the understanding you needed. You slept with her, but what’s next?

You still love your partner and don’t want to lose her. But the problem is that you don’t know how to act in front of your girlfriend to not find out. It is true that you were drunk but this is not a great excuse to forgive you if she finds out. You just slept with her best friend; you really think that she will forgive you? I don’t think so. So you’ve better speak with her friend and tell her that this was just an affair and it is all over now and she must keep the secret.

But what happens if she still uses all her seductive powers on you anytime she has the opportunity and tells you that she loves you from the day she saw you. She agrees with you that she wouldn’t tell to your girlfriend about you two if you still accept to meet with her too. Let’s say that you accept this, because you are too weak to end your relationship.

Here are some safety tips to follow if you want that your girlfriend to not find out about this: don’t permit to your new friend to call you on your cell phone, you may buy a new number just known by her, don’t tell at any friend of you about your affair, use always condoms to not have a bad surprise, and if your girlfriend has a suspicion about this, deny.

But you shouldn’t play with fire. You love your actual girlfriend but the other is much attractive and sensual. You better think which you like most and make a choice. If you choose to keep your actual relationship, the best thing you can do is to try to not spend much time in the presence of the other, and definitely not stay alone with her somewhere. It may get worse.

Also, you know your girlfriend’s best friend very well and it is common to discover that you and her have a lot in common as well, and the more time you spend together, the more attractive she becomes to you. If you discover that the feelings between you and her are very serious, you have a complicated situation in your hands.

The best thing you can do is to break up with your girlfriend, but not to tell her the real reason, say it that it doesn’t work anymore; it will be tragic for her anyway so it is better to not find out that you are having an affair with her best friend. This means that you don’t have to run in the other’s arms after that, it is better that not make public your new relationship for now.

Having an affair is not something plan, it just happens. People decided to have an affair for many reasons: disappointment in the relationship, misunderstanding, also attraction, curiosity, excitement, risk or challenge.

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Attraction - What Gives A Man Sex Appeal?

Wednesday, March 28th, 2007

There are many different things that women look for in a man and being attractive to women is not simply about your natural look – Its what you make of it and just as importantly, the way you conduct yourself.

So if you want to be more attractive to women then the following attraction tips are guaranteed to help you.

1. Making The Best Of What You Have

You have a natural look you’re born with and even if you don’t look like Tom Cruise or Tom Clooney you can make yourself look good.

There are a number of things you can do watch your weight and make your body the best you can. Pay attention to personal hygiene and make sure you have the following.

Good skin. A healthy complexion is a must and simple diet changes and supplements will help. Also exfoliate weekly and use moisturizer to give you a healthy glow

Teeth. All women love a great smile so make sure you have one that gets you noticed. Today, teeth bleaching can give you beautiful teeth for under $100 and is a great investment

Get a haircut! There is nothing more unappealing than a bad haircut. If in doubt ask for advice on the best style for you. Finally, if in doubt cut it short its masculine and appeals to most women

2. Style

Clothes can make you look slimmer, broader and the colours you choose need to complement your natural colouring.

One of the major attractions for women is a well turned out guy and keep in mind women adore men in suits so dont be afraid to wear them.

If you don’t know what style’s suit you, get an appointment with an image consultant. In a few hours they will get you sorted.

You will never be attractive to women if you don’t have style so make sure you do.

3. Confidence

Most women like a confident man. Make sure you walk tall and that your body language is right. A confident man smiles a lot retains eye contact and does fidget, he projects himself with confidence and you can to.

Women simply love a man who has confidence which should not be confused with arrogance. Most women simply hate boastful men who are full of themselves

4. Manners

Old fashioned maybe, but what women doesn’t like having a punctual and attentive man who will take her coat open car doors and send her flowers? Don’t believe me try it and you will see.

5. Conversation

Women need mental stimulation and this comes from conversation make sure you learn the art of conversation (there is not enough room in this article to go into it see our other articles in this series) women love a man who communicates with them.

The old saying what is on the inside is just as important as what’s on the outside could not be truer.

6. Have a Feminine Side!

We have said that women like a confident man but they also like a sensitive man. One who is open with his feelings and can communicate with them.

You can even cry women don’t mind it shows you as someone who really has feelings and emotions and is not cold.

You Need to Feel Good About Yourself

Aura is something that we cant quite define but it is the overall persona of you.

You will have a great aura if you feel good about yourself – Like yourself and have the above traits and you will project an aura that attracts women.

Attraction is hard to define exactly, but it is not just physical looks.

It’s the way you project, conduct yourself and your overall aura that is important to being attractive.

The above tips will help you become more attractive, confident and allow you to derive more from life.

By: Sacha Tarkovsky

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How to Win her Heart

Tuesday, March 27th, 2007

Dating with a woman can be very interesting and exciting. Let’s say that you met a woman for some time and you really like her and have a great time with her. You are very proud with your conquered because she is beautiful, smart and interesting but you feel that you need to do something to make your relationship stronger. All you have to do is to win her heart.

You will see that after you win her heart this beautiful lady will be only for you and you wouldn’t be worry to get dumped too early. But wining her heart is not an easy thing; it takes time, patience and also a little luck.

You don’t know how to do it? Here are some useful things that show you how to behave in order to get her heart.

- first and the most important is to prove her that you really love her; this doesn’t mean that you have to kiss her all the time, it is very important to talk with her, ask about herself, to see that you care about her

- give her the attention she deserves, always be nice to her and pay attention to her as much as she needs;

- be natural and sincere; arrange to be alone with her and tell her what you feel

- romantic dinners are always a sure thing to impress, but be creative and take her to a place she has never been before,  something special, to never forget

- make  her feel special and compliment her, women love this

- make her laugh a lot in order to have a great time with you, they don’t like guys which make them feel bored

- Surprise her with cooking for her; you haven’t done this before? no problem, she will be excited to see that you do this sacrifice for her;

- be interesting and choose unusual  things to do together, some fun is always welcome

- let her know that you desire her in the way you look at her and touch her

- don’t push it, if she says no, accept that

- be a gentleman and respect her, show her that she is special and unique

- be a good listener; when she is upset about something, ask her what is wrong, help her to get over it and tell her that it wasn’t necessarily her fault

- if she ask you for an advice, always be there for her and help if you can by giving her the advice which she is waiting for

- women are really emotional so you can win her heart with romance; the key of romance is spontaneity;

- you need to be inventive so she will never figure out what you plan, because if she can predict your next move your gestures will loose all the effect

- impress her family and friends, especially her mother, she may have a big influence on her daughter choices

- be a challenge; women love challenges, but don’t be inaccessible

- don’t cheat on her; this will definitely mean that you will lose her; if you want to win her heart you have to show her that she is the only girl for you

- call her in the middle of the night to see if she is sleeping; it is a sign that you care and you are thinking at her even night

- try to not use a foul language in presence of a woman and always excuse yourself if you just said a stupid thing

- be a good guy, understanding, clean and well dressed

- pay attention to her even in front of your friends, if she calls you when you are with your friends show the same interest in her, don’t be rude

- recognize the small things, men often don’t do this, but this usually mean most

- sometimes you may tease her about her clothes or jewelries and when  she starts too, respond with funny things

- give her some space; let her spend some time with her family and friends as much as she needs, to not feel like a prisoner in this relationship

- to not say that you are desperate, call her in some day to compliment her, and after that don’t give her any signs about two days, she will wonder if you are ok, so she will be thinking of you

- also you may show her that you are special too, so she will savoring every minute spend with you

Many relationships fail because after a while this is getting boring. In these days women love and need man as much as before, but they are looking for a relationship in which their emotional needs are met as well. But if you are able to win her heart and make your relationship always be interesting and funny, you will see that this will last for much time.

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5 Secrets To Date A Younger Woman

Monday, March 26th, 2007

Why do some guys want to date women who are much younger than them? The reason behind this is because a younger woman can bring an amazing energy, vibe, and a youthful atmosphere to a man.

I know that there will be people thinking that dating a woman who is 10 years younger than you is gross. But everyone has their own opinions. There will be some women who only date guys who are 10 years older than them! Therefore, do not let other people opinions distract you.

Younger girls prefer guys who are older than them, because they will feel that guys who are older than them are more mature. The traits that attract women are most probably being found in older men, for example traits like higher status, confidence, leadership, and many more.

Let me share with you 5 secrets when dating a younger woman:

1. Be cool. Do not act too serious. Be yourself, but shows the other side of you. Imagine that you are back to school again. Women will find that although you are mature in term of age, but you are actually fun to hang out with as you still got the “young touch”.

2. Let her come to you, do not chase her. Do make the move too early. Be laid back and play hard to get.

3. Be chivalrous. Open doors, walking on the outside of the curbs, and pulling out chairs for them will make a big impression in women. When you combine a powerful presence with chivalrous, you will make yourself very attractive to women.

4. Tease her, and make fun of her. Say all the things that you do not have the chance to say when you are a freshman. Call her on everything that she does, or says that it is immature.

5. Do not interfere or control their lives. Younger women do not like to be controlled, as they have just got away from the “claws” of their parents. Give them rooms, and let them come to you, do not force them.

Understand attraction and you are on your way to date your dream young woman.

By: Crid Lee

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