When we talk about women, we are talking about other human beings with relevant differences for us men. If you want to decode something or if you need to open a locked door you need a key (you could always try to blow the door down– but that is not the right way to do it).

Be aware of these 2 words; Differences and Decode both in the last paragraph, they hold some of the answers that you are looking for. Sometimes when you are able to see further or think outside the box, you can get any women that you want with ease… too good to be true?

Let’s start.

1. Inner Game, it’s what you are, your thoughts, it is what you believe about your self, this is the most important aspect that you have to consider, if you believe it, it will become real. How many times have a lot of races been lost without even starting, everything is in your mind, you need to believe that you are amazing, that you are someone who deserves all the best on this earth. If you could repeat that in your mind 10 times a day, like a song in your head, you will see some amazing changes. High Value is a concept that you should keep in mind, you are high value if you believe that you are high value, it is not about money or looks, High Value is a powerful concept, every time you are in any interaction think that you are the person with higher value.

2. Beliefs to project, if you can imagine yourself 5 years from now, how do you see yourself? The same?, Worse?, Better?, You need to close your eyes and picture yourself with the best car, the best woman, the best job, live the moment, enjoy it and then open your eyes, do this exercise every night for 3 weeks, you will see how things start changing. What you believe is what you are, you need to believe that you are the most confident guy on this planet, don’t look for excuses, maybe your brain will bring some negative thoughts to mind. Stop them. Believe that you are the best of the best, that your time is valuable, that you deserve an amazing woman, that people should respect you, believe it!, if you believe it, people will believe it.

3. Body Language, at the beginning you can try to change your posture, please take a sad posture, put your head down and try to smile and say “I am happy”, it is not good isn’t? now stand straight look up smile and say “I am very sad”, your state is affected by your body, and your body is affected by your state, try to change your posture, use more space when you sit, take all the space you can, open your legs, don’t cross your arms, change the gesture of your face, smile. If you mix your body language with your believes that will make a powerful combination that people will feel on you.

4. Personal Appearance, groom yourself, get the best clothes, the best haircut, cut your nails, try to look your best, it doesn’t matter what you look like, believe me, attraction is not based only in looks, it is based in attitude and confidence but an important factor is grooming, you will get more chances to get a quality woman if you improve your aspect a little bit, if you can go to the gym, if you have a hobby go for it, do it with passion, with the mindset of a winner, buy the best after shave ever, go and ask any woman what is the best after shave around, they will tell you, even if they are just random girls on the street. It is very important to have good shoes, go for the ones that you like or go and do shopping with a female friend, they are experts, remember improve your appearance, that will make you feel good and everybody around you will thank you for that.

By: James Demarco

James DeMarco is one of the Directors of The School of Seduction, they run Seminars, Bootcamps, and Workshops to improve male success with women. They also take their students on field and demonstrate how to approach women. The School is based in London, England but their expansion plans are Worldwide. For more information go to www.theschoolofseduction.com.