There is nothing as stressful and intimidating as having to meet the parents of your girlfriend for the first time. But, if you know how to handle this, you will see that can be a real interesting experience.

It comes a day in your life when you figure out that your relationship with your girlfriend is getting serious and she has to take you to meet her parents and family. This is a big step in your relationship and it is very important to make a good impression from the beginning, if you want that they agree to meet their girl anymore.

There are several occasions in which you can meet her parents, such as a holiday or birthday, picking her up for a date, or just a dinner in family prepared special for the meeting. No matter in which circumstances you meet, for impressing her parents you must be prepared.

First of all, dress to impress.  You must be presentable at your meeting, that’s why the best to wear is probably a suit. Your performance will be judged by the first impression you make in their eyes.

Before the big meeting make sure to find out from your girlfriend all the details about her family, so you will know what to talk with them. Ask where her parents work, about their personality if they are very serious or they have sense of humor, and if they like funny people or much reserved, to know how to act with them. It is important to know some details, to not refer to her grandparents if you don’t know if they are still alive.

Also asking questions about her family will show her that you really care, that you are interested, and ready to do all the sacrifices that are necessary to make their parents like you. Remember that in the first meeting you must make sure that they observe your good manners, to prove her parents that you deserve to be with their daughter.

If the meeting takes place at their home, don’t forget to bring a gift, such as flowers, a box of chocolate or a bottle of wine to show that you are polite. Be confident, give her father a firm handshake, and as a sign of respect call him Sir.

You have to make a good conversation, but also be prepared for many questions towards your family. Don’t panic, relax and look in them eyes and answer as nicely as you can. Be prepared to answer at the question about what do you want to do in the future. Speak about your job, family, sports, but don’t bring any discussion about money, politics or personal questions. Asking questions about their family will show your interest about them, as far as your aim is to get along with both partners, to get on their good sides.

Keep a smiled face to show you are friendly; be personable, polite and respectful. Flatters her mother’s look or clothing and compliment her cooking by finishing your plate. You may offer your help to clean up the dishes; this will certainly impress her mother.

Be yourself, to see from the beginning how you are, and don’t show too much affection towards your girlfriend in their presence, one kiss is enough, to not think her parents that you are over reacting.

Before you leave tell her parents that it was a pleasure meeting them and they have a very special daughter.

You will see that it will be harder with her father which wouldn’t accept easy that now it is another man in his daughter life except him, but if you conquered her mother you will see that she will be the one which will invite you for dinner and will defend you in front of her husband if she really likes you.

So, meeting her parents can’t be so bad, and if you really success with this meeting it will base a great friendship between you, which will have a big positive effect on your relationship.

By the way, you may find a beautiful woman at www.eBridex.com and you will see if you have to use these secrets in order to have success in meeting her parents.

Hey guys,

Have you ever heard someone say that women are really
emotional? Well, it’s true. And actually, everyone is very
emotional… whether we like to believe so or not. We make
emotional decisions and then justify our behavior with
logic. Let me share something with you that happens nearly
every time I’m out with my girlfriend…

Whenever I go out with my girlfriend, guys always try to
come up and hit on her. It’ll go really badly for them and
at some point my girlfriend will tell them that I can help
them get better success with women because I teach men how
to meet and date women.

The next thing I know, the guys are trying to convince my
girlfriend that she shouldn\\\’t be with me and that they are
much nicer guys that she should be with. Then, they ask me
for dating tips which they then try to use on my girlfriend.

It’s pretty funny. I get a good laugh from it every time.
And, it only makes them look like idiots and make her want
to be with me more.

This is why…

No matter how much you beg, whine, try to convince or
logically justify or rationalize to a woman why should she
be with you, it won’t ever change her mind. She won’t
ever
say, “Hey, that really makes sense, I think I’m
compatible
with you!”

This isn’t a cloning lab. You aren’t in a debate. You
can’t
say, “I have good breeding, a good job and high apparent
intellect… I think we’d make good natural companions”
and
expect anything but her to look at you funny before she
walks away creeped out.

It’ll never work. Just like no matter how much a fatty
tries to convince you that she’s hot and sexy, if you
don’t
have beer goggles on, she’ll still be nothing but a fatty.
So, STOP TRYING TO CONVINCE WOMEN TO BE ATTRACTED TO YOU!

So, how do you get a woman attracted to you if you can’t
do
it by convincing her logically?

You do it through emotions. She has to feel emotionally
drawn towards you. You have to do all the things that I\\\’ve
been talking about… be a challenge, tease her, be
unpredictable, be interesting. That’s the only way you’ll
make a woman feel attracted to you.

If you walk up and a woman isn’t instantly attracted to
you, you need to press her emotional buttons. You need to
be different than every other guy out there who tries to
convince her to be attracted to them.

Let’s talk about a few of these things that create
attraction so that you know what I’m talking about…

Be a Challenge and teasing

Hot women are used to men coming up to them, giving them
anything they want and then agreeing with everything that a
woman says. I’ve had girls crawling all over me just
because I disagreed with what they said and had an argument
with them.

Hot girls are so bored with their life of guys doing
anything for them that they want something new, some type
of substance in their lives. Give it to them. Tease them
about their clothes or their jewelry. Don’t be worried
about offending them.

Be Unpredictable

Women have the same things happen every single time they go
out. Before a guy even walks up, she knows exactly what the
guy is going to say.

And you know what? I do too! It’s probably going to be
some
compliment that she’s heard 7 times already tonight
followed by buying her a drink that he\\\’s going to force
her
to accept whether she wants one from him or not.

After that he’s either going to try to come on to her so
hard that she basically has to call security over or he’ll
be so unbelievably nice to her that she’ll have to come up
with an excuse like, “I have to go to the bathroom” in
order to get away from him without hurting his feelings.

Do something different. Be interesting, fun, exciting,
challenging, engaging, cool and indifferent. Don’t let her
know that you’re interested in her by busting her balls
and
showing her that her looks don’t impress you.

Be Interesting

Have you ever talked about your job, school, your car or
your family? Stop it! I’m getting bored just thinking
about
it!

Have something interesting to talk about at any time. Have
a good story that you can tell if your conversation dies
down.

Take her somewhere that always has interesting things going
on where you can talk about relevant things in the area. I
like to go to shopping malls with crazy shops in them and
try on really silly trendy clothing that you only see
people on runways in fashion shows wearing.

Read some books on comedy and have fun wherever you go. Do
anything you can to be different than most guys and have a
good time. A woman would rather be with a poor, funny,
interesting guy than a rich, handsome, predictable guy any
day of the week. Win their Hearts, Not their Minds.

Christian Doyles teaches men all across the world how to
meet and date women. He offers books, audio programs,
seminars and workshops where he takes people into social
venues and teaches them how to meet women live. Visit his
site at http://www.datethewomenofyourdreams.com/ and
download a free sample of his book as well as get other
great information about women and dating that will cut
years off of your learning process.
by Christian Doyles

http://www.datethewomenofyourdreams.com/

Flirting is a basic instinct, part of a human nature. It is a universal and essential aspect of human interaction. We see flirting as a fun thing; a man flirts with a woman in order to attract her, to ask her on a date.

There are two reasons why people flirt. Guys which are flirting for fun do this because they might seen a beautiful woman and flirt with her, in order to meet her better, to have fun with her,  but not to start a relationship. The others, which are flirting with intent, are more selective about their choice, and want to meet someone for a possible relationship.

The best places to flirt are parties, bars, clubs, disco, and at the workplace.  The first key to successful flirting is not an ability to show off and impress, but the knack of conveying that you like someone.

However, you are single and you decided to go to pick up some girls. You dressed up to impress, smell good and start to flirt with a beautiful woman from the club you are. After you use non verbal flirting like body language, eye contact, which indicates intense emotion, or gestures  which can signal interest, attraction and invitation, you see that the beautiful woman is responding you with a big smile and starts a conversation with you.

After you compliment her and make her feel special with you, she tells you that she is married. Is this a big problem for you? If not, if you want to approach her anyway you have to compliment her, show interest about her, and be sincere about it. Jerks hit all the time on married women. That is why you have to show her that she is interesting to you.

Married and flirting do not mix well. However, many people do not consider this wrong as far as it is just for fun. Flirting is like a game but sometimes when you return the flirt things go a little further. Often flirting is spontaneous, it just happens as a normal response to somebody you find appealing.

Dealing with married woman is very different from women that are dating and single; there is a huge amount of stigma applied by family, friends, society, in order to try to keep married people faithful.

Married women are usually looking to find someone with whom to talk about their problems, someone like a friend to understand them.  If she really wants to get into an extra- conjugal relationship means that she has problems in her marriage, she is bored of her husband, or she has a husband that travels a lot and that is why she feels lonely.

That is why she might be looking for someone to offer her what her husband cannot. She is looking for attention, love, understanding. She wants to get much attention, time and affection as possible without having to give up anything, so you will be in her eyes just a friend. You should tell her from the beginning that you will give her all your attention if she would give you what you want from her.

Usually married woman flirt, kiss and play guys all the time but without any intention of taking it further. If it happens to get with her in bed, remember that a woman who is willing to cheat is looking for excitement, drama. However, watch out not to become her toy.

There are married women that need to see if people are still interest in them. Therefore, they begin to flirt to find out if they are still attractive; they lose this feeling because their husbands do not make them feel attractive anymore.

There are people who consider that flirting with married people is harmless. Therefore, it is at your choice if you really want to flirt with a married woman and if you can handle it.

By the way, most married women entering chat rooms and internet to flirt. Therefore, you may find a beautiful woman at www.eBridex.com

When we talk about women, we are talking about other human beings with relevant differences for us men. If you want to decode something or if you need to open a locked door you need a key (you could always try to blow the door down– but that is not the right way to do it).

Be aware of these 2 words; Differences and Decode both in the last paragraph, they hold some of the answers that you are looking for. Sometimes when you are able to see further or think outside the box, you can get any women that you want with ease… too good to be true?

Let’s start.

1. Inner Game, it’s what you are, your thoughts, it is what you believe about your self, this is the most important aspect that you have to consider, if you believe it, it will become real. How many times have a lot of races been lost without even starting, everything is in your mind, you need to believe that you are amazing, that you are someone who deserves all the best on this earth. If you could repeat that in your mind 10 times a day, like a song in your head, you will see some amazing changes. High Value is a concept that you should keep in mind, you are high value if you believe that you are high value, it is not about money or looks, High Value is a powerful concept, every time you are in any interaction think that you are the person with higher value.

2. Beliefs to project, if you can imagine yourself 5 years from now, how do you see yourself? The same?, Worse?, Better?, You need to close your eyes and picture yourself with the best car, the best woman, the best job, live the moment, enjoy it and then open your eyes, do this exercise every night for 3 weeks, you will see how things start changing. What you believe is what you are, you need to believe that you are the most confident guy on this planet, don’t look for excuses, maybe your brain will bring some negative thoughts to mind. Stop them. Believe that you are the best of the best, that your time is valuable, that you deserve an amazing woman, that people should respect you, believe it!, if you believe it, people will believe it.

3. Body Language, at the beginning you can try to change your posture, please take a sad posture, put your head down and try to smile and say “I am happy”, it is not good isn’t? now stand straight look up smile and say “I am very sad”, your state is affected by your body, and your body is affected by your state, try to change your posture, use more space when you sit, take all the space you can, open your legs, don’t cross your arms, change the gesture of your face, smile. If you mix your body language with your believes that will make a powerful combination that people will feel on you.

4. Personal Appearance, groom yourself, get the best clothes, the best haircut, cut your nails, try to look your best, it doesn’t matter what you look like, believe me, attraction is not based only in looks, it is based in attitude and confidence but an important factor is grooming, you will get more chances to get a quality woman if you improve your aspect a little bit, if you can go to the gym, if you have a hobby go for it, do it with passion, with the mindset of a winner, buy the best after shave ever, go and ask any woman what is the best after shave around, they will tell you, even if they are just random girls on the street. It is very important to have good shoes, go for the ones that you like or go and do shopping with a female friend, they are experts, remember improve your appearance, that will make you feel good and everybody around you will thank you for that.

By: James Demarco

James DeMarco is one of the Directors of The School of Seduction, they run Seminars, Bootcamps, and Workshops to improve male success with women. They also take their students on field and demonstrate how to approach women. The School is based in London, England but their expansion plans are Worldwide. For more information go to www.theschoolofseduction.com.

Otherwise most guys won’t survive in the love scene – the fittest and the best of male species apply.

Like men, women also have physical and behavioral turn-ons as the other sex is concerned. They are turn on by man’s well developed shoulders and by sensitivity in a man. Attractive looks are also important for them as strong and sexually attractive body always goes with health and strong immune system.

Below are few lists of things women find it turn on in men
1. Wealth and Status
They want to feel secure that you could provide the best home, health, and the chances of surviving for both mother and their offspring.

2. Best Feature as a sexy gait
We don’t need to be look like Brat Pritt or a model. Pheww—Thanks God. It’s good news, isn’t it? How many Brad Pritt in this world, anyway.

They are often attracted to a man who has a single good feature that they think important. It is often the best feature as a sexy gait. They are turned on by the men who know how to walk in a sexy manner that gives out the fit-to-reproduce signal, for instances.

3. Muscle.
Women aren’t all turned on by big muscle like weightlifter or bodybuilder look but they are all like to see a well-toned arm, shoulder and chest muscle in their men. Women find big well developed shoulder a big turn on as to us, turned on by their cup-size. Do you know, those muscle are equivalent of their cleavage?

Oh, Boy. Let’s hit back to the gym!

4. Hygiene plays the role.
Smelly business plays important role. Watch our dragon breath. Sex with woman does not go well if our breath is foul.

By: Nei

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