Archive for April, 2007

How to propose her like a Gentleman

Monday, April 30th, 2007

It comes a moment in life when all of us, men, have to make the big step and ask the question; the proposal in marriage. This should be a memorable and delightful experience so you have to make it perfect. If you decided to ask the big question to your partner, you should know from the beginning how to make this perfect and create an unforgettable moment for both of you.

This is an important moment in our life and includes a lot of preparations. Before making the proposal make sure that this is something that you both want; so talk with her about the possibility of getting married but don’t show your plans. The proposal itself should still be a surprise, so find a moment and a way that she won’t be suspecting. You have to choose the right engagement ring, the right style for her and for this you may ask her mother or her best friend help, but if the bride wants to be part of the buying or designing process of her engagement ring you have to ask her opinion first. Also you have to know the right time to do it, she has to be relax, because if she is passing a bad time from her life it be all screwed up.

A brilliant proposal depends on knowing what makes her happy. If she is the romantic type, your proposal should take this account; if she prefers intimacy, you have to choose a place  only for you two; if she adore spot-light then a more public proposal will be perfect and if she has a certain passion in life, you can try something unusual and extravagant. Women love originality.

Knowing the type of your partner you can choose the perfect way and place to make the proposal. Here are some useful tips that might help you:

-everyone knows the traditional proposal which still works; the man gets down on one knee and gets out a box with a ring before asking her to spend the rest of her life by his side

-if she likes being the center of attention plan a surprise party with all her friends and family; decorate the place with white balloons and paper wedding bells; when she enter the door get on one knee and do your thing

- if she is hopeless romantic try spelling it out in rose petals, or do it in one of her favorite locations

-if she is the sport type you may ask her from the heights of the mountain after a day of rock climbing; also during a parachute jump, or scuba-diving session

-if she likes basketball and goes to all games, a big surprise will be to see on the big screen from the stadium your proposal in marriage; it’s a big gesture of love you transmit for her in front of so many people

-also Valentine’s Day it’s a good opportunity to ask her; in this special day she is expecting to receive flowers and chocolates so she will be definitely surprised if you go there with a ring and a proposal in marriage

-if you are a shy guy and don’t want to ask her directly, make her a video; try to make a personal video of yourself proposing to her and watch the tape together

-if you know that she listens to the radio at a certain time everyday, making a dedication will work charms with her; but is preferable to call her while the big question is being asked

-by writing it in the sky it’s an incredible declaration of love; have a plane fly a banner; do it on a clear day and plan a romantic outside date and she’ll be pleasantly surprised

-the beach is perfect for a proposal; barely dressed at the beach, kissed by the sun, that’s the setting for a marriage proposal that will be a sexy, sultry experience; arrive at the beach first and build a sand castle that symbolize your intentions

-on the back of a limousine is also a good choice; rent a limo for a few hours and direct the driver to take you two of you past locations that have been meaningful in your relationship; have a bottle of champagne too

These are only few suggestions you can choose but there are a lot more. Pick up a memorable place, song or occasion such as where you first met, or first kissed. Be creative, incorporate your personality and make this a special moment. Focus on the moment and on her; think about what you will say to her and express your proposal with love and sincerity. The focus should be on her and the special moment you’ll be sharing. Do tell her why you want to marry her, tell her why she is the one for you, what marriage means to you and what hopes for the future are.  If her answer is ”yes” announce and celebrate your engagement, but if she needs a time to think about it, be a gentleman and respect her.

By the way, a beautiful woman is waiting for you at www.eBridex.com

How To Find The Right Partner For A Lasting Relationship

Friday, April 27th, 2007

If you want to find the love of your life, make sure you know what you are looking for. If you do not know, you can end up settling for whoever comes along. Make list of the most important qualities in an “ideal person” you would like - for example sense of humor, honesty, and so on. Use this list as your guide when choosing a partner - the closer the person matches your “ideal man or woman” the better chance you have of finding the right one.

Of course, you do need to realize that there is no such thing as an “ideal person”. This means you’ll have to compromise on minor things, for example hair color, but it is not a good idea to compromise on major issues. For instance, if you don’t want children, don’t date a person who wants a family or has children. Bear in mind that your “ideal man or woman” is searching for their “ideal person” too. Therefore, if you want someone who is athletic, you must get into shape, because athletes like their partners to be in good physical condition as well.

Once you’ve found your perfect partner, take at least several months or a year to really get to know him or her inside and out. If you can’t picture yourself with this person in 20 or 30 years, then he or she is not the right person for you. It is important that you and your partner are compatible in all areas. This means having common interests and principles. You can’t spend your entire life with someone who doesn’t understand you.

Of course, no-one has a perfect relationship, and every relationship is different. So, don’t compare your relationship to anyone else’s - like your friend’s or parent’s relationship. Be yourself from the start of a relationship, create and develop the emotional aspect of your relationship, not just physical and work on your relationship every single day in every way possible. This way you and your partner will be able to enjoy a loving and lasting relationship.

By: Pax Shumway

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13 Types of Girls you should Avoid

Thursday, April 26th, 2007

In general, men are looking first for physical attraction at a woman. Many of them consider that if she is beautiful and well dressed, its the perfect partner they are looking for. But they don’t know that behind this appearance its hiding something worst.

Maybe this happened to you too. After you began a relationship with her you found out that she is not exactly what you want and what you expect. She hurt you and dumped you when you last expected. Many men are chasing after a woman who lied them and used them. But, in order to stop this, you should know from the beginning which types of girls you should avoid for to not be hurt again.

Desperate girl

-it is the type of the girl who spend all her life laid out, looking for a perfect life, and suddenly she discover that she gets old and she doesn’t get married yet because she hasn’t met the perfect man for her

-she wants desperately to get married no matter who the guy is or what he does

-she is pressed by the time and is ready to marry with a jerk as long as he has marriage material

-watch out because if you marry one of this, you have to spend  the rest of your life with her

Materialistic girl

-usually is good looking and well dressed

-is looking very well outside but inside it is a bunch of money hungry taker

-she is looking all the time after boys which are staying very well with their wallet

-she expects that a man should finance her entire life just because she is biologically female

-she is very friendly, nice at the beginning but after some time you’ll see that no matter how much you give her, she wants more

-she is greed personified

-she is interested only in what she wants and not others feelings

-stay away from this kind of girl because she will dumped you after she spend all your money

Angry girl

-she is the type of the girl which sees life like a battle

-anything   what is happening or is told to her is seen as a insult at her address

-has also a bad opinion about man, sees only the wrong sides of a man

-she is always upset and angry

-usually she likes to take out of context everything  what is said to her and to interpret the words like she wants

-you don’t have any future with her, she has a simmering anger at men which can explode at any moment

Insecure girl

-she is very nice and treats men very well

-but she suffers by frustration

-is wracked by anxiety about making the wrong decision

-she has to think twice about what to do, what to wear, where to go, what to eat

-she needs constant reassurance that she’s attractive and worries incessantly

Stupid girl

-this type of girl likes to speak a lot but she doesn’t say nothing smart

-she likes to say always gossips about the others, but when you want to talk something important with her, she is not able to make conversation

Uptown girl

-she is very rich

-everything she has is better than yours and she wants to make sure that you know it

-she only dates the best of best

-is entirely focused on herself

-she is very selfish, self-indulgent grown up as ” daddy’s little girl”

-needs to be constant center of attention no matter what she does or where she goes

Childish girl

-everything in life hurts this kind of girl

-is the type of girl who cries a lot, every innocent comment or criticism will upset her

-avoid this kind of girl because if you are dating one you will have to spend all the time apologizing even if you didn’t make any mistake

-avoid also long term relationship with her because she is capable of suicide if you want to leave her and all the blame will be thrown on yourself

Elusive girl

-is the type of girl who is  afraid to start a relationship

-she might be hurt in a past relationship and so subconsciously avoids or sabotages new relationships in the present

-she look interested at the beginning but after a while she runs away

-is the type of girl who likes to send mixed messages so you’ll never understand her

Talking girl

-it is a big difference between somebody who is able to make good conversation and have sense of humor , and somebody who always have to make a comment about everything

-it is the type which is very hard to please and always has to say something about everything is happening or speaking around her

Romantic girl

-this lives in her own world, of movies and romance novels

-she is very dreamy, imagining things, expecting Prince Charming to come after her

-she doesn’t know how the real world is

-she was grown with the idea that she is a princess

Dragger girl

-this kind of girl will always make you feel bad even there is no reason to feel that

-it is always worrying and she can never be happy, everything around her is a total drag

-even if a wonderful thing happen to you, she will make you feel like it was the worst thing that could happen ever

Controlling girl

-she likes to have the total control in your relationship and on you too

-wants to control  you in everything you do, you wear or eat

-if you try to control her too, she will get angry, cry, scream or use any deceptive female tactic until you give up

Flirting girl

-she flirts with anybody and flaunt her sexuality at every opportunity

-has a big power of attraction

-exist the risk to dump you in any moment if somebody better comes along

With all these types of girls you should avoid, it is now more easy for you to  make a good choice    about  your next girlfriend; but remember that not all the women are the same, maybe there is somewhere a good, carrying woman just for you.

By the way, a beautiful woman is waiting for you at www.eBridex.com

Get Rid Of Jealousy With Hypnosis

Wednesday, April 25th, 2007

Do you find yourself sneakily checking your partner’s phone or mail? Are you forever questioning your loved one on their whereabouts, even if they have just been to the local shop? Do you find yourself tormented by thoughts of your lover with someone else? Well if you do then you will understand just how savage your jealousy can be towards your relationship and how it can take its toll on your partner as well as yourself. Jealousy and insecurity are two massive problems facing our modern day culture and if you are a victim then you are not alone as they are two of the biggest reasons for relationship break-ups and divorce today!

Hello I am hypnotherapist and author of Self Change Hypnosis, Richard MacKenzie and for the past several years I have helped thousands of couples with overcoming jealousy, both through my private hypnotherapy practice and through my products and book. When I first approach the topic of using hypnosis to combat jealousy, people seem a bit puzzled; however it is the ‘common-sense’ approach – what with its speed and efficiency. In fact these same people are very often amazed when they get the results that they yearn for.

While in Hypnosis you will learn to ultimately re-program the part of the brain that is referred to as your sub- conscious or un-conscious mind. This is where the habit and behaviour of jealousy are, so therefore it is the best place to start. After this you can use hypnosis to begin to work on your overall confidence and self esteem levels which will really work for you to get you some great results. Just imagine what life would be like if your jealousy disappeared – How great would your relationship be? How much more secure would you feel, knowing your can accept the wholehearted love of your partner without being suspicious?

If you could achieve all this right now… would you?

Well if you really want help and you desire to get your jealousy sorted then hypnosis or hypnotherapy is just the right thing for you. I recommend that you start with a hypnosis download, recording or seek out your local hypnotherapist who will be more than happy to help you out.

Remember – you are not alone. Thousands of people out there today are in the same boat; however you’re the one reading this so you have a chance to escape your jealousy forever.

Best of luck!

By: Richard MacKenzie -

Richard is an expert in dealing with jealousy and helping couples and individuals in overcoming jealousy.

17 Seduction Tips

Tuesday, April 24th, 2007

Seduction is the most exciting thing in a relationship. It isn’t bad or wrong, it’s absolutely necessarily. The power of seduction is a gift. But not all of us have it, so we have to learn how to seduce the woman we want. Seduction can mean a couple of different things: it is a method that lets men have more success with women on a regular, repeatable basis and also it is a process   by which one person leads another to the beginning of a sexual relationship.

Choose very well your target. Maybe it is there a beautiful sexy lady after you look anytime you see her on the street, but you never think that you will have a chance with her. Why don’t you try to seduce her, maybe you’ll win. But before you start, you must know that there are a few steps in seducing a woman:

- you have to be ready so get over your past rejection, overcome your shyness and clear your mind and think about what about you are going to talk with her

- interrupt her and get her attention next time when you see her; initiate with women, it takes guts to ask her out, ask her phone number

-create a conversational connection with her and show that you are able to understand her, make her sees you as romantic partner; lots of women love this

Considering that you get your first date with her, here are some tips for seduction that might help you:

-first of all, train your mind and focus on your goal, and remember that your goal is to get that woman; so you must know which are the mistakes from the past, and not make them again

-choose the perfect place for effective seduction, a place with a comfortable atmosphere, avoid places too bright lights or too dull ambiance

-eliminate every possible obstacle; convince yourself from the beginning that you can seduce her, even if you never did this before

-be yourself, show that you are well groomed and watch out about the basis hygiene; no women like a man with dirty clothes, or with a smell breath

-relax and smile as often as you can but be controlled; you just have to please her

-eyes contact it is very important when seducing; eyes are capable of showing your deepest emotions but watch out to not stare at her

-let her know that you are interested; women like to make them feel good about themselves

-the first impression usually last: show her that you are not interested only for sex

-have the right attitude – fearless and not arrogant, convince her that you are confident in your own skin

-do not shutter or look nervous, a confident person has much more chance of seducing

-have self confidence, sense of humor and self control

-show her that you are a gentleman; not many men from our days are; treat her like a princess, respect her for what she is and compliment her

-do not touch her in an offensive way; touch her slightly on her hands and even shoulders and you will see what’s next

-tease her; a woman will be attracted to men who tease and challenge her; teasing raises frustration which starts her attraction; if you are wanted by other women, you will command her respect and attraction

-be creative; you may buy her a nice gift and be genuine when you give it to her

-learn to dance; nothing turns on a person more than dancing, as you can get intimidate with each other without feeling awkward

-prepare your conversation; indulge a conversation that interest her too; women like intellectual conversations; talking will break the ice and seduction becomes more easier since the woman is comfortable; best way to start a conversation is with a genuine compliment

Women are attracted to specific, confident traits in men and your behavior demonstrates them. So start watching what women actually respond to, not what they say they want.

By the way, a beautiful woman is waiting for you at www.eBridex.com