1. Trying to get a woman’s approval

Have you ever watched a movie or seen in real life where a
guy does everything for a girl… writes her poems, gives her
things, does things for her and kisses up to her all the
time and she completely isn’t interested in him? Well,
that’s real life.

Men seem to think that getting a woman’s approval is going
to make her attracted to him. The problem is that women
won’t respect you if you don’t have your own ideas and
beliefs. Women are not attracted to men who will change
their entire lives to fit hers or are always looking for her
approval.

If you’re trying too hard to win a girl over, you’ll do
exactly the opposite.

2. Talking about Boring Guy Topics

Most guys walk up to women and if they have anything to say
at all, they talk about cars, jobs, college degrees and
numerous other topics that women are completely not
interested in.

If you want to bore a woman to death, this is a great
technique. But, I think it might do you some good to learn
how to talk to a girl in a way that is interesting for the
both of you… not just you.

3. Trying to Convince a Woman that She Should Like Him

When guys realize that a woman doesn’t like him, he
typically will try to convince her that she should. The
problem is that no matter how hard he tries, it’s never
going to work.

A woman’s either going to be attracted to you or she isn’t.
No amount of whining, crying, pleading or begging is ever
going to change that.

You have to know how to work with a girl’s emotions so that
she naturally is attracted to you every time.

4. He Lets Her Lead Everything

Women hate it when guys don’t take the lead. It sends
shivers down my spine every time I hear a conversation where
the guy won’t make a decision and the girl is trying to get
him to. “Whatever you want to do” is a common horrifying
phrase that I seem to hear a lot of guys saying.

It’s okay for you to make the plans on where to go, what to
do and how to dress. Women enjoy being able to relax and
know that you’re going to be able to take care of
everything.

5. Giving Too Many Compliments Too Early

A really attractive woman will get approached a couple times
a day from different men. The reality of it is that most
men, although they think they’re being really clever and
saying something unique, all basically say the same thing to
her.

The guy walks up, pretending he’s not there to talk to her,
then stands there for a couple of minutes waiting to get the
courage to say something to her. Then, when he gets the
courage to say something, it’s probably at least half of the
time a compliment on some type of physical feature she has.

There’s nothing that is a bigger turnoff for women than
being like every single other guy out there. You need to be
different and unique. You need to be interesting…

6. Using Pick Up Lines

I don’t know where pickup lines came from or if they
actually worked at some point in time. However, I can tell
you that they don’t work anymore. I actually heard a guy
walk up to a girl the other day and say, “If you were a
sandwich at McDonald’s, you’d be a McGorgeous!”

Needless to say, that isn’t exactly the best thing to say to
a woman. Most girls will laugh you away if you approach
using pick up lines.

You can easily learn what will work when approaching women
so you don’t have to settle again for saying things that
aren’t going to work.

7. Trying to Impress a Woman

When a guy tries to impress a woman with money, clothes, and
cars, it shows that he doesn’t understand anything about
women and that he’s needy and materialistic.

I mean, there are definitely some women who are attracted to
money. But, is that the type of relationship that you want
anyway?

Honestly, I don’t really have enough money to be walking
around trying to buy women’s affection and attention anyway.

Women are much more interested in who you are than what type
of car you drive. And if you know what women are looking for
in men, you can easily convey that and you’ll attract women
like a magnet.

8. Waiting for Women to Approach Them

It takes a lot more for a guy to be rejected. A girl
actually has to tell him that she’s not interested or do
something else very obvious that shows she isn’t interested
in him.

Its completely different with girls. Girls don’t typically
approach men. They stand there and look at a man that they
like and might even smile. When the guy makes eye contact
back with the girl, she thinks her job is done.

If you don’t approach her, she feels rejected. That’s all it
takes!

Its not a woman’s job to approach men and its not very
likely that they will. Especially beautiful women who are
approached several times a day. Why would she ever approach
a guy? She already has enough guys coming up to her a day
telling her how beautiful she is and telling her she’s
“McGorgeous”

You need to approach women and learn how to do it the right
way.

9. Being Too Serious

I love going to bars and seeing guys staring at women from
across the room with a really serious look on their faces.
Or, when a girl is talking to him, he’s really serious and
doesn’t convey any humor or personality.

I also like seeing guys at the bar giving off some kind of
pose that I guess is supposed to attracted women to them. I
can tell you right now, this doesn’t work. Believe me, I’ve
tried it.

10. Continue Doing the Same Things that Don’t Work

I’ve heard a phrase a million times that goes, “If you
always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what
you’ve always got”

And what that really means is that if what you’re doing
right now isn’t getting you the success that you want, you
have to change something in order to get results that you do
want.

I remember sitting in bars and clubs nights after night
wishing that I could be with the women that I wanted in my
life. One day, I decided that nothing was going to stop me
and I was going to learn how to create successes with
meeting women.

Since then, I’ve gone through a lot of hard work, testing
things and doing stuff that doesn’t work over and over again
until I finally, one day, starting really seeing success
with women and figured it all out.

I’ve gone through a lot and it took me several years to
figure out. Luckily for you, you can learn the same things
that I did in a fraction of the time. The information is
there, you just have to go get it. Pick up a copy of my
book, Date the Women of Your Dreams and get on your path to
mastery with meeting and dating women.

by Christian Doyles

http://www.datethewomenofyourdreams.com/

Christian Doyles teaches men all across the world how to
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