Archive for May, 2007

How to Find an Honest Dating Site

Thursday, May 17th, 2007

In our days more and more people prefer to choose online dating for finding a partner. Online dating sites are used more by single people who are very busy with their work, and don’t have too much time to meet other singles. Choosing an online dating service from the many available it is a little difficult, because you don’t know which an honest one is.

The Internet affords singles great opportunities to find a partner than people have ever experienced before. With different kinds of online dating services littering the Internet, it is sometimes confusing where to sign up. All dating sites work basically the same, but not many of them are honest. Some sites are free, while others may require a fee for more advance services.

Although many online dating services say that is free, many of them have some ” traps”: while it is free to set up a profile and post photos at most sites, you have to pay for a membership if you want to contact others members. Some sites say from the beginning that they charge a fee for subscription, but there are others that will offer you either a free trial, or let you browse profiles without subscribing.

So, you have to choose from the beginning an honest dating site, to not have part of bad surprises after. But, how do you know which is an honest one? Finding an honest dating site it refers about finding the service that offers the features that are perfect for your needs, a place which will be always totally free, visitors will be able to search freely and see everything that a normal member can see, and also never lie about their member count to scam people to sign up.

Internet allows for greater communication so it is wise to always protect your personal information and only share it when you feel confident that you can trust in the person who you are talking to. Choosing a well-run, reputable online dating service will provide some additional safety; an honest dating site will protect your anonymity until you choose to reveal personal information.

A dating site must be a fun place where single people go to find dates, romantic partners and long term relationships. An honest dating site will provide a comfortable and intimate environment where you can safely and conveniently search to find your perfect soul mate. This should allow you to post free profile and photos, list others members, perform advanced search, show interest in others members for free and respond to their emails for free.

There are no restrictions on many sites you can sign in, but you should concentrate on few that you can trust in. To choose the best dating site it depends on your requirements and services that you find useful. Look for one that caters to the type of mate you are looking for. A lot of people feel better going into online dating with the idea of what they are looking to gain from online dating. So, decide what type of online dating site best suits the type of people you are looking to meet, but to be an honest one.

On the way of choosing an honest dating site, first take a look at what kind of people post there, and see if you feel comfortable with posting your profile on the site.  Also, check out how many people are active members in the dating site you are looking. Avoid the dating sites that offer a free trial but ask you enter details about your credit card.

I wish you good luck in making the right decision.

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4 Seduction Techniques You Must Use In A Conversation

Wednesday, May 16th, 2007

When does seduction start?

The reason I ask this question is because many guys make mistakes when it comes to seduction. They think seduction starts once they’re alone with a woman.

The truth is seduction starts long before you’re in private with a girl. In fact, it starts during your initial conversation. If you can be seductive from the moment you meet a woman, then you can quickly build attraction and rapport. The end result is you’ll find it easier to make things more intimate with a woman.

In this article, you’ll learn about 4 specific techniques you MUST use when you first meet a woman. By implementing these secrets, you’ll find it’ll be easy to put her under your seductive spell.

Seduction Technique #1- Use an interesting and funny opener

To be honest, the first thing you say to a woman sets the tone of the ENTIRE conversation. As a result, you need to use a funny and interesting opener that’ll attract her attention

Your goal when you first approach a woman is get a woman talking and make her interested in you. Typically you can accomplish this with an opener that asks her opinion on something. All you have to do is craft an opener which will pique her interest.

The opener can be anything from asking an opinion on your friend’s girlfriend trouble all the way to getting her opinion on which type of cologne you use. As long as you do this in a funny manner, you’ll at least get her talking.

Seduction Technique #2- Use the cocky/funny technique

Now once you’re getting her to talk, you should implement what’s widely known as the cocky/funny technique. The idea behind this attitude is act slightly arrogant while finding little things where you can tease her.

While it might seem counterintuitive, cocky/funny is a great technique because you’re using humor to establish yourself as an alpha male. And this is done in a non-aggressive way without acting like a jerk.

As long as she’s laughing at the things you’re saying, cocky/funny is a great way to quickly build attraction and put her under your seductive spell.

Seduction Technique #3- Use questions to find interesting things about her

Repeat after me…

“I will NOT ask her boring questions!”

The logic behind this statement is a lot of guys ask women specific questions which do nothing to build attraction. Typically these ‘interview like’ questions can include asking about her job or what she likes to do.

Instead of asking these questions, you should focus the conversation on talking about funny topics. You can accomplish by using provocative questions which make her think.

This can include:

“What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done”

“How would you spend a million dollars”

“How much money would it take for you to sleep with a random stranger”

While these questions may seem a bit childish, there are great for building attraction and getting to know her better.

Seduction Technique #4- Use sexual innuendos in your conversation

The best way to really seduce a woman during your conversation is to use sexual innuendos. Now I don’t mean you should start talking about how you want to have sex with this woman. Instead you should interject little comments into the conversation about the topic.

For instance, you can joke about how “she wants you”. Or you could mention comments about how she’s hitting on you and trying to pick you up for sexual favors.

If you can combine sexual innuendos with cocky/funny you’ll quickly steer the conversation towards this topic. Then once this happens, you’ll be freely talking about sex, while building physical chemistry.

As you know by now, seduction starts with the first thing you say to a woman. By using these 4 seduction techniques I described in this article, you’ll be able to build instant attraction. Then once this happens, you’ll find that it’s easy to steer the conversation towards becoming intimate.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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Dating a Co-worker – Good or Bad?

Tuesday, May 15th, 2007

In our days more and more people decide to start a relationship with a co-worker. The reason why this happens is that many young professional men and women are spending almost all their time at the office, so they have less time to go out and meet new people. So, it is natural to seek friendship and companionship from colleagues.

But for many times, this friendship transform into a relationship that in most of the cases fail. There are many risks that make this very difficult to maintain. But not many people know about this before they start a relationship. So, if you are a very busy man too and spend all your time in an office, and decided to date with a co-worker, you should take a closer look at all the potential benefits and disasters that could be associated with this new career move.

There are some aspects that you should take in consideration:

-Before you ask your co-worker for a possible date, check if your company has an employee dating policy; the company may have strict rules about any relationship that forum between you two; also think about how much you are wiling to risk your career for this relationship from the beginning

-If you didn’t ask her for a date already, and don’t know how to do it, you may organize a group outing or event and invite her; but if she refuse, you have to think at something else; suggest something casual like dinner or movie

-Before ask her for a date, make sure that you know as much as you can about her; so develop an office relationship before you develop a romantic one

-You must think about what happens if your relationship doesn’t work; will you be able to handle the situation to see your co-worker every day, to interact her daily? It may be very difficult to re-establish a professional demeanor with a person

-At final one of you have to leave this job because thing’s don’t work out or because it’s against the company policy to date fellow employees

-Or worst, you don’t know what your partner is capable to do if things don’t work between you two, it may be ruining your career

-Dating a co-worker can affect your work, if you are unable to differentiate between work and pleasure; so agree to not flirt at work, you have to set up relationship rules for the workplace

-Avoid signs of affection in public such as hand holding, kisses, flirting; you’d better meet off-site for lunch or after program hours

-It is true that you have a lot in common, that you will go with pleasure every morning at the office anxious to see her, and it is a person with who you will always have what to speak about;

-You have someone to confide in concerning your work problems; she may be a great help; but, there are more negatives aspects about this kinds of relationships

-Remember that you have to maintain a professional image, so don’t let your relationship affect your performance; if your romance is affecting your work, you may be asked to end your relationship or to find another job

-A relationship like this can create problems in your promotion; the boss may see that you are more preoccupied by your partner than your work

-Develop open communication, if you are dating with a co-worker think about the fact that you have to have two different types of relationships, business and romantic, with the same person;

-Never date with a subordinate because you may be accused for favoritism by the others employers; the others co-workers will exclude you now from certain conversations, will not discuss anymore with you about privacy

-If you spend more and more time with her during the office hours, the more and more you will distance yourself from your associates, those you’ve developed personal relationships with;

-If you start a relationship with a co-worker it is better to keep it secret; it will need a lot of discretion, energy and effort to keep your office romance just between you two; so don’t tell your colleagues about your romance because your both work will be definitely affected

-Also avoid sending electronic love messages or letters because some companies prohibit the use of company e-mails system for personal use,  others reserves the right to access or disclose electronic messages or files of an employee

-As a benefit, you get to have lunch together; so from a usual boring office lunch, you can have part of one full of flirting

As you see there are some benefits but most of them are downsides. I suggest you to think very well if you really want to get into a relationship that may affect your career and if you are ready to do this. As I said, it may be very difficult to make it work. But, it remains at your choice what you are going to do.

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How to Help your Friend in Her Difficult Times

Monday, May 14th, 2007

If there’s anything I can do for you, just let me know.” This is a phrase that we all use when someone is going through a rough lime. But here’s the catch - most people in the midst of a crisis can’t really gather the courage to tell you exactly how they feel. In such a situation how, do you help a friend who is having serious difficulties? How do you open a conversation in a sensitive manner? And what should you avoid saying at all costs? Read on and find out how to help a friend when she needs you the most.

Help A Friend Who’s Seriously Ill

- What you can do: If a friend is ill but mobile, you should take her out to eat every week or two, because sick people often feel isolated. If she’s house-bound, bring her some of her favourite dishes, movies, books and music. Don’t overstay your visit as she might feel uncomfortable. Acknowledge the illness and ask what the progress is, and then talk about activities of daily living. If she’s a close friend, volunteer to do her laundry or help her with house chores that she is unable to do herself. This will help her a lot and take off worries from her mind. Try to be sensitive to her mood swings.

- What you can say: Don’t blurt out that she looks awful, but don’t tell her she looks great if it’s clearly not true. Hug the person and tell her that she will get fine soon. Just be sensitive to her feelings and act accordingly. A sick person needs a lot of rest so let her sleep when she wants to.

- What to avoid: Never tell your friend, “I know how you feel.” The truth is that you don’t know how your friend feels, so the best approach is to invite her to tell you. Don’t make fun of her appearance.

Help A Friend Who’s In An Abusive Relationship

- What you can do: The most important thing would be to talk to her openly about the situation. If she is open with you then you can help her plan by telling her how she can escape tho situation. If she wants to break the relationship you can help her by telling her how and what she should talk to her partner. If nothing works out and she decides to run away from the relationship, you can get her spare car keys, cash, mobile phone and things she’ll need.

Understand the fear, pain and the chaos she is going through. Offer to let her call from your house, where she’ll be safer and give her privacy while she’s on the phone.

- What you can say: Privacy is very important in such a situation. Let your friend know that you will not tell anyone about her. if she senses that you’re sensitive to her feelings she will tell you all about her situation freely and you will be able to advice her better.

- What to avoid: Don’t ask her harsh questions like why she doesn’t leave her partner. She can only let go of the person when she’s ready. So be with her while she makes up her mind.

Help a Friend Who’s In A Financial Crisis

- What you can do: Avoid eating at and going to expensive places. And don’t treat her unless it’s a special occasion. If you keep paying for it she will feel embarrassed and less empowered. You have to be sensitive to her situation.

- What you can say: Talking about money is the last taboo. Never ask a direct question. Get her to open up by discussing your own financial challenges and money problems.

- What to avoid: Unless she’s a responsible person, who is facing an unexpected short-term crisis don’t lend her money. Offer emotional support and help her find a financial counsellor. She will feel better this way.

Author: Michael Douglas

About the Author:
Michael Douglas is a relationship expert and the webmaster of http://www.datersmanual.com where he provides dating and flirting tips for men. Visit his blog on relationships to get tips and advice on building healthy and successful relationships.

How To Make Women Laugh

Saturday, May 12th, 2007

Humor is one of the best weapons a man can use to win a woman’s heart. When you make a woman laugh you give the impression that you are a sociable, cheerful and attractive man. No woman wants to be around someone who is an uninteresting introvert, who is always in a bad mood and serious all the time. Laughter is the most important component in a successful relationship.

Here are some basic tips to make a woman laugh and fall for you:

- Start by making fun of yourself. This way you’ll show your woman that you are not arrogant, you can take criticism and - women will be more honest with you. If you have done something that you think is silly - make a great joke about it.

- Remember that it is not just what you say that makes women laugh, it’s also how you say it, and when you say it. Facial expressions and body language can always enhance any joke.

- Experiment on what makes your woman laugh. Try to find the type of humor that fits your personality. Don’t worry if you occasionally run into a woman who doesn’t get your humor.

- Use fresh material and new jokes. Being a good listener will give you enough material to have fun with.

- Don’t make fun with something that is important to her. Also, be sure she is in a laughing mood.

Being funny is a trial and error process and will take some time to learn, but it is interesting to try, even if you are not very talented.

By: Pax Shumway

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