Imagine this…

You’ve been talking to a woman for awhile. During the conversation, you’ve received a couple of Indicators of Interest (IOIs) and think she’s attracted to you. The problem is you have to leave soon and don’t know how to ask her out on a date.

So what do you do in this situation?

Well the natural instinct is to get her number and tell her you’d like to call her sometime. Unfortunately this is a huge mistake. If you want to date this woman, then you have to set up something which will make her REALLY excited about seeing you again.

Let me explain…

While getting a woman’s number is an important part of dating, it should be your last resort, not your first. Instead to getting her number, you should set up a date right away and plan a fun-filled night.

The problem is when you ONLY grab a woman’s number you do nothing to make her EXCITED about you calling her. Instead of getting a woman’s digits, you should use what I like to call “The Extra Ticket Close”. It works like this…

During your initial conversation with this woman, talk about the different (and exciting) things that you do in your life. Every so often, mention different activities that you like to do. And then give an example of something fun you’re doing in the next couple of days.

When you mention this event, discuss how excited you are about this activity. The idea behind this technique is to seed the conversation with a glimpse into your life, while NOT being obvious you’re trying to pick her up. Now once you’ve mentioned this activity, move on to other “attraction building” routines.

Finally when your interaction comes to a conclusion, you implement the second phase of “The Extra Ticket Close”. As you’re talking to her, make it seem like you suddenly had a thought…

You tell her that you just realized that you have an extra ticket to this awesome activity that you were talking about. Then tell her “it’ll be okay if she wanted to tag along”. At this point you get her number and let her know you’ll call her with more details.

What I like about this technique is you’re getting her on a date without coming across as a needy person. In addition, since you’re assuming the close, you’ll come across as a confident and fun guy.

So if you’re stuck with what to do at the end of a conversation, simply use “The Extra Ticket Close” to seal the deal.

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com

Meeting women is one of the biggest challenges to guys in the dating scene. Now matter how many positive qualities you display, you must learn to approach women and engage them in a conversation. If you know great conversation starters, then you’ll instantly create an engaging discussion.

So if you’re interested in attracting the women you see, then I recommend you use the following great conversation starters.

1- Use normal approach techniques

Let me emphasis ONE thing…

Pick-up lines NEVER work!

Instead of attempting to use a canned pick up line, it’s important to use a more natural approach. In fact, it’s often better to use a direct approach to start talking to women. This means if you’re interested in a woman and want to talk to her, all you have to do is simply introduce yourself. Then you allow the discussion to unfold.

What’s funny is many guys are looking for the perfect conversation starter. However the simple truth is a great way to talk to a woman is to just use a natural approach. If you have confidence and avoid the pickup lines used by other guys, then you’ll impress her with your straightforward manner.

2- Use the cocky/funny approach

Being humorous with a touch of arrogance is my personal favorite of these great conversation starters. Specifically this approach is often called “cocky/funny”.

Made famous by seduction guru David DeAngelo, the cocky/funny technique involves approaching a woman with a slightly arrogant manner while demonstrating a funny personality which gets her to laugh. The purpose behind this technique is to give yourself higher status and make HER work for YOUR attention.

Cocky/funny is a fun way to approach a woman because you come in with high energy and instantly provide her with excitement. Then all you have to do is let the conversation evolve into sexual banter.

3- Use a complimentary comment

Great conversation starters can often be initiated by simply complimenting a woman. Unlike corny pickup lines, a nice comment is well-thought out and shows tact.

Just remember one thing. When you compliment a woman, ALWAYS focus on something instead of her looks. The goal is to start a conversation by giving a genuine compliment on something she can control like the way she dresses or her personality. By doing this, you’re demonstrating that you pay attention and you like her UNIQUE personality.

4- Use a situational conversation starter

The final way to initiate a conversation is to use a ’situational opener’. This technique involves using specific incident as a reason to start talking to a woman. It involves seeing something interesting around you and then casually using it to parlay into a conversation with a woman.

For instance, say you witness a really drunk guy making a jerk of himself. You can use this incident to start talking to girls who are near this guy.

All four of these great conversation starters provide a wonderful way to start talking to a woman. Since each provides a natural to approach a girl, you won’t trigger her defense mechanisms like you would with a canned pick up line. Now all you have to is get out there and use them on women you’re interested in.

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com

I find it interesting what phrases men use when they’re asking me for advice on how to seduce women. They predominantly fall into the “how to seduce women” camp or the “how to seduce a woman” camp. Now you may feel that the difference between the two phrases comes down to nothing more than semantics BUT there is a subtle difference in the psychology behind each of the questions.

When a man asks how he can “seduce women” his thoughts are usually along the lines of how he can go about securing multiple partners whereas someone interested in securing “a woman” is usually interested in just one woman (or at least one woman to start with!) Once again, you may be thinking semantics, but the point is that women can differentiate between the vibe given off by a man who is interested in “women” as opposed to a man who is interested in her as “a woman”.

There are two major principles that you need to adhere to when seducing a woman:

1. Make her feel good (and specifically feel good about herself) when she is with you and;
2. Make her feel unique.

Regardless of what tactics and techniques you employ when engaging with a woman the end result you’re looking to achieve is that she feels good whenever she’s around you. If you achieve that, then she will want to continue being around you and will start looking to ways in which she can intensify those good feelings i.e. she will want to have things taken into the physical realm.

But the point of this article is to focus more on the second point – which is about making her feel “unique”. I’ve seen a lot of guys who consider themselves to be players whose high energy approach can certainly engage a woman (or a group of women) but they do it in such a way that women quickly cotton onto the fact that they’re being “played”. Does that mean that these guys go home empty handed? No, but their hit rate would pick up if they also made sure that the woman they were wooing also felt incredibly unique as well.

Everyone – regardless of whether they’re a man or a woman – suspects that they’re unique at the core of their being. Taken to its extremes, this “uniqueness” will manifest itself as either loneliness or high self regard. Common sense would suggest that whenever you’re interacting with someone else you can either pick up on a point of difference about them and make them feel bad about it (by judging them) or make them feel good about it – by commenting favourably on that point of difference.

Now let’s tie this all back in to the subject at hand: seducing a woman.

What you have to be doing is make a woman feel both good AND unique. You can achieve both aims by commenting on some aspect of her appearance or her being that you simply haven’t found in any other woman. It doesn’t matter if this is true or not. What matters is that she feels that here is a guy who is savvy enough to pick up some unique aspect about her that all the other guys are missing. And what’s more, if you’ve noticed that particular aspect about her, she’ll be wanting to know what other favourable things you’ve noticed about her … and if she’s thinking that way, then she’s definitely going to want you to stick around.

You could call it the “princess” phenomenon: that part of every woman’s psyche that believes she has so much to give if only the right man would “discover” her. Regardless of whether your seductive intentions are short or long term: play on this phenomenon and make her feel as she’s “a woman” – the likes of which you haven’t come across before – and the rewards will come thick and fast.

By: Scott Chalmers

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The tactic of playing hard to get during relationships has been existent and talked about more years. Women are usually associated more to this tactic when compared to men. So what exactly are the reasons behind women playing hard to get with men?

I always believed that relationships should not be so complicated, it is either “I love you”, or “I don’t love you”, that’s it. But it seems that it is not that simple after all. Some view it as a game, while the others treat it so seriously.

So when a woman plays hard to get with a man, does it means that she is being not serious into the relationship? I seriously doubt so, because not all women are like that. Yes, they may be just fooling around, but sometimes, they have their reasons doing it.

What is the sweetest thing a woman will like to hear from her lover? Most probably just by telling her that she’s been loved and missed every now and then?

Women will be touched to know that guys love and miss them more often than anything else. After all, being a woman, she will definitely enjoy the thought of someone loving her and missing her.

By playing hard to get, she can make this happen. The reason is because suitors out there will think of ways and means to make this woman happy.

But don’t think that by saying that you love or miss her, it will be sufficient to win her heart. It is because she will know whether what you said is what you really meant. She has what we normally call it, the ‘sixth sense’, especially when it comes to whether a man is telling a truth or a lie.

You can tell her verbally that you love and miss her. But the act of showing your love and that you really miss her definitely beats verbal speech hands down.

Actions can be done and a woman likes to see what kind of actions you will take to show that you really mean what you say. This is one thing that she will be particular about when it comes to choosing her ideal partner.

By: Crid Lee

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There is ONE universal truth to all guys…

EVERY guy gets nervous before he approaches a woman and initiates a conversation. In fact the fear of approaching is probably the biggest obstacle we face towards meeting and dating beautiful women. The true masters of seduction are the ones who can quickly deal with this fear and approach without hesitation.

In fact the ability to deal with nervousness separates the men from the boys! Unlike a lot of men, masters of seduction can quickly squash their nervousness and can confidently approach with confidence.

Now there are a number of tricks you can use to eliminate your nervousness. But in this tip, I want to focus on a simple technique you can use TODAY to reduce your nervousness.

Simply put, a great technique you can use is called “Visualization”. When you use this technique, you can imagine your success then go out and achieve it!

It’s actually a fairly easy concept to learn…

Just sit quietly for a few minutes each day and make a picture in your head about approaching women. In this “pre-scripted movie” you picture yourself approaching women confidently and instantly attracting them. Then you envision their positive reactions to everything you’re saying and how they’re interested in what you have to say.

Visualization works because you’re coaching yourself into being confident around women. Furthermore, the mind doesn’t remember the difference between reality or imagination. If you’re constantly using visualization, you’ll convince yourself that you’re a master at approaching women.

So if you’re having trouble or feeling nervous around women, try to use visualization to eliminate this condition. I guarantee you’ll quickly see a dramatic increase in your success with girls.

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com