Make your very first letter to your lady shine. This is your chance to make a new friend who could become an important part of your life. Remember that the very first impression about you will affect on your future communication and if this impression is capable of improvement this is not a good sign.

Follow our instructions and warning tips, based on many years of online dating experience and be sure that success will find you very soon.
Instructions
• STEP 1: Be friendly and polite. It’s so important to show your respect to your lady by using friendly and polite words in your letter. Avoid nicknames and phrases like: “Hey baby” or “My hot girl” in your very first introductory letter, it’s better to make a pleasant compliment for her instead. Don’t worry if you really like using these words you can do it a bit later. Just wait till lady opened up for you.
• STEP 2: Keep your tone upbeat. Your letter should reflect your great mood and optimism. Never share your problems, difficulties and complaints in your first letter this will scare her away. Show her how happy and cheerful you are. Understand that negativity is a major turnoff in your introduction letter. In the contrary, being positive is like a magnet. Here’s how one person actually began his letter: “To be quite honest, I have been putting this off as long as possible. I have friends who use dating web sites and have had some terrible dates.” This begs to ask, “What are you doing here?” Now contrast that to this introductory letter: “I’ve heard online dating is a great way to meet awesome people and that’s why I want to meet you.” Which one of these letter intros is more attractive? The one who wants to date “losers” or the one that wants to date “winners”? Psychologically everyone wants to be a winner. Therefore in your first letter, avoid anything negative. Be positive.
• STEP 3: Share information about yourself that you think others will find interesting. Check her profile, find out about her hobbies and interests. Remember that it’s so great if she finds out that you two have so much in common.
• STEP 4: Tell the person who you are and what you are about. Avoid speaking about your disadvantages in the very first letter. In the contrary tell her how great and wonderful you are, but it’s important to know where to stop, otherwise your story will turn into boasting and this won’t have any positive results. Here are some phrases that will help you to describe you in a best way:
1 My best friend describes me as…
2 I’m happiest when I’m…
3 Here’s what you’d find if you looked around my place…
4 A great day in my life would include…
5 The last great book I read was…
6 The last great movie I saw in a cinema was…
7 My favorite season is…
8 The color I wear most is…
9 If you asked me what I’m wearing, I’d say…
10 My favorite on-screen love scene is…
11 The music that moves me most is…
12 Today in my car I was listening to…
13 Last Saturday night I…
14 The last vacation I went on was…
15 The most adventurous thing I’ve ever done was…
16 I’m happiest when I’m with someone who…
• STEP 5: Include information about your age, education and career. In accordance with statistics these three things are the most important to learn about for 80 % of ladies.
• STEP 6: Mention your favorite hobbies, pets, children or anything else that might unearth a shared interest with in your new friend.
• STEP 7: Avoid talking about controversial topics. Not in a first letter. Discussions and debates can be really interesting thing to share in letters, but only when you feel that lady became closer to you and opened up.
• STEP 8: Take care not to overwhelm the reader with too much information. Revealing a little bit at a time will pique the reader’s interest. Remember that there must be a little secret not only in a lady but in a man as well. You’ll reach great results if you make your lady wait for the next chapter of our story impatiently.
• STEP 9: Ask her questions so she can respond. If you speak only about yourself in your letter this won’t help you at all. Remember that it’s so important to have a dialog instead of monologue.
• STEP 10: Let your personality show by your choice of words and the descriptions you use.
Tips & Warnings
• Remember not to share too much too soon. Wait until someone knows you before you air your family problems and secrets.
• Use careful judgment when deciding how much information to share with a stranger. Always be cautious when it comes to revealing personal information.
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Love is more than words. It is more than an occasional gift. Love is a commitment to another person that shows itself in our willingness to adapt to and cooperate with another person. It is hard work.

As the years pass, it requires more than any-old-gift to show genuine love. But, if we have been paying attention, we know more about what is important to our partner. We are better at loving.
Loving is the most rewarding thing a person can do. It is rewarding not only in that it provides us companionship with another person, it is also rewarding because, in the process of coming to understand and work with another person, we become more sensitive, more tender, and more unselfish. It makes us into better humans.
Love can give great satisfaction and enjoyment forever. For that to happen, you have to understand more about what love, your own expectations is and how to get the partner with whom you can live in love.

All of the Languages

Some people may think that the great evidence of love is the oft-repeated words: “I love you.” But love is more than words. It requires us to notice what is important to our partners. For example, if you were to give a very expensive dog to your partner as a gift, it would only be an effective evidence of love if your partner wanted a dog. For many partners such a gift would be a sign of insensitivity.

People like to be shown love in different ways. These different ways might be thought of as different languages of love. When we really love another person we study what is important to him or her. We customize our messages of love to fit our partner‘s preferences.

Words of Affection

One language of love is telling. Some people love to hear words of affection. “I love you.” “I enjoy being with you.” “You mean so much to me.” Some people want to hear such words every day, maybe even several times every day. Yet some people think that words are not enough or not a meaningful demonstration of love.

Love in Action

Another language is showing. Some people want to see love in action. “If you love me, help me around the house.” “If you love me, make time to be with me.” “Show me your love by the way you help with the children.” For some people, actions speak much louder than words.

Feeling of touch

Another language is touching. Some people love to hug and cuddle. They appreciate a partner who holds his or her hand. They may like to sit close. Physical closeness is important to them.

Other Languages of Love

There are other powerful languages of love: taking time and showing understanding. These two languages are so important that a separate unit is dedicated to each of them. Since languages of love are also important in our relationships with our children, there are units on that subject in this series.

Gladly accept your partner‘s efforts to show you love while sending clear messages about your preferences. Sometimes we become impatient with our partner‘s efforts to show us love. Sometimes our languages are so different from each other that it is hard for either of us to get the message through. We can choose to appreciate our partner’s best efforts and we can keep trying to be more effective in our own efforts to show love.

Loving takes effort. That is good news! Real love requires a real commitment and it leads to real growth. You can never show love perfectly but you can keep trying. The willingness to keep trying is part of the message of love.

By: David Rolin-5744

Your woman just got home from shopping and is modelling her new dress for you. She circles the room and looks at you expectantly, waiting for your opinion. Naturally, you are confused. Is she asking for your honest opinion or is she fishing for a compliment?

Sometimes, determining what your woman is asking you can be a challenge, especially in the early stages of a relationship. This communication barrier is no one’s fault. Rather, it can be attributed to the fact that men and women speak very different languages. While men are used to being more direct with one another, women tend to be more subtle, often using hints.

So don’t be surprised when you and your woman have such misunderstandings. There are some common phrases that women use, try to understand them to bridge the gap between what she says and what she means.

She says: “I’m not angry.”

What she means: I’m angry.

If she’s pursing her lips and not speaking to you, but claims she’s not angry, she’s probably bluffing. She could simply be bottling up her anger or she may think that her man should just know why she’s upset, without her having to tell him.

What you should do: Try to figure out why she’s upset and talk about it. The issue is not going to go away. In fact, if you don’t deal with it, she’ll just have bottled-up anger towards you and it’ll come back to bite you later.

She says: “I think of you as a brother.”

What she means: I’m not attracted to you.

It means she’s letting you know that she’s not into you, and may be it’s kinder than telling you the truth.

What you should do: In this case, just don’t make a move on her.

She says: “I like your friends, but…”

What she means: I don’t like your friends.

She doesn’t want to insult you or your friends, so she’s not telling you outright how much she dislikes them. She probably thinks they’re a bad company and wants you to hang out with them less.

What you should do: If she has a valid reason to dislike them, then you might take her concerns into consideration. Otherwise, simply tell her that your friends are equally important to you.

She says: “You don’t communicate enough.”

What she means: How do you feel about our relationship?

She wants to know what you feel where the relationship is going, but doesn’t want to come off as needy.

What you should do: Put her mind at ease and tell her what you think about the relationship.

She says: “Why don’t you try to kiss me like this?”

What she means: I don’t like the way you do it.

She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. But this is not all bad, she likes you enough to want to work at it and make it better.

What you should do: Try it her way and see how it goes.

She says: “I really like that guy’s hair.”

What she means: I don’t like yours.

She figures that it’s a lot nicer to hint at this than to tell you outright.

What you should do: Get a second opinion on your hair. She may be right. But, if your second opinion tells you otherwise, feel free to stick to your guns and your hairstyle. In that case, just pretend that you didn’t get her hint.

By: Michael Douglas

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As you probably know by now, women are attracted to men who act like MEN. In fact, the one thing women find really attractive in men is their strength. Now when I say strength, I don’t mean physical prowess and a large muscular body.

Instead I’m talking about strength as a personality trait which can magnetically draw women to you. A strong guy can be someone a woman can look to for protection or advice. In essence, his personality can protect her from her concerns.

So how do cultivate this personality trait?

Well it’s simple…

All you have to do is work on your ability to become a competent guy in every activity or thing incorporate into your life.

Instead of acting unsure about your life, you should eliminate all the wishy-washy behaviors you have. In addition, it’s important to stop displaying the body language traits which projects an unsure attitude.

For instance some wussy behaviors could include:

• Stuttering or stammering when nervous

• Being indecisive about what you want to do

• Look to others for cues about what to do

• Following not leading your friends

In addition to your body language there are certain phrases which demonstrate a lack of competence. When you say weak phrases you’re showing a lack of confidence in your personality. So ditch all the phrases you say like:

• “I don’t know”

• “I’m not sure”

• “Maybe” or “Probably”

Your ultimate goal is to be perceived as a strong person who can make instant decisions with force and conviction. And once you’ve cultivated this personality, you’ll instantly become a strong and attractive guy.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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Women are an essential part of our life. No man can live without a woman. She is as important as the air you breathe. All the men out there will agree to it unless you’ve had a very bad experience. The fault could have been yours. So here are some tips for the men to keep the woman they love happy and have a successful relationship. When we talk about women we also talk about beauty. They are synonyms. To make a woman feel good always remind her that she is beautiful. Each and every woman loves to hear that. Always make it a point to tell your love that she looks beautiful. If you are not into the habit of making such remarks then learn to make it. It will enhance her beauty, make her feel more beautiful. She will know that you love her. After all, men love beautiful women. Learn to compliment your wife for her different skills. If she is a good cook then make sure to constantly appreciate the food cooked by her. Praise her for the special dishes she cooks for you and tell her that nobody can make the dish as good and delicious as her. It will make her happy and learn more about cooking. If she is an artist, a dancer, a writer or a very influencing person whatever the quality, just appreciate and compliment her on that. Make it a point to praise her when you both are with friends and relatives. It will only make her feel very close to you. “I love you”, “I care for you”, “I cannot live without you” are not just words spoken to your lover but words that make a difference. Constantly remind you mate that you care for her and how much she means to you. Never feel shy to portray your feelings. If you love your wife say it, she will love you even more. Such reminders are a relationship booster. They strengthen the relationship. Good lovers are first and foremost best friends. Let the woman in your life know that she your best friend. Share your feelings and problems like a friend to her and find her always by your side like a true friend. Any woman would like to be in friendly terms with the husband. Women like their husbands to be their friends to whom they can open up. The friendship between a man and woman helps them to have a transparent relationship and solve their problems immediately without hiding anything. Affection showed in front of friends and relatives assures a woman that you honestly love her. She knows that you love her; otherwise you would not have showed it in public. A woman feels very secure when her man does not feel shy to show his affection for her in front of friends as she knows that all the women out there are watching. There is a kind of possessiveness in such action and possessiveness is an indication of love. She is aware that you love her. Sexy is the word that gets excitement in a relationship. Tell your woman, she is sexy and she will always make it a point to be the sexiest looking. You are going to love that for sure and she will enjoy it. If your find your mate to be sexy then she knows that you are still attracted towards her.

Author: Emily Miller

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