Many people are confused between lust and love. A relationship which is built solely on lust only will not last long. When choosing the right mate for your relationship, physical attraction is not the most important factor that you need to consider.

Love and lust are easily confused because they are so much alike. Couples, who are in a relationship, where they do not share common interest at all other than an overwhelming physical desire for one another, may be just lust.

If a couple does not enjoy one another company unless they are having sex, it may also be lust after all. True love does consist more than all these things.

A couple who is truly in love will not care about the activity they are having, because they simply enjoy each other company. They share common interest and have similar ethics and morals. They will find it easy to talk to one another about anything under the sun and are able to discuss any conflicts openly without losing their tempers.

Most long-term relationships are built on a strong friendship which turns into love over a period of time. Sex is not the main driving force behind a long lasting relationship, although having it just makes the whole deal sweeter.

There are a few questions that you can ask yourself, be it whether you are a man or woman, to determine whether your feeling towards the other person is actually love or just lust. Read them slowly and answer each one of them truthfully:

1. Do you share common interests, moral and ethics?

2. Do you really care for his or her safety and happiness?

3. When in a conflict, are you able to talk to the other person in a very open, calm, and frank discussion, without losing your temper?

4. Can you talk to him or her about anything under the sun? Or is it just always sweet talk and things about sex?

5. Do you enjoy each other company, regardless of the activity?

6. Are you able to accept the other person when he or she is not at his or her best physical condition or appearance?

7. Are you willing to spend time with the other person even without having sex?

8. Do you have a mutual respect for the other person?

These are just some of the questions that you can ask yourself to solve the dilemma in you. Lust and love is just separated by a very thin line. Therefore, it is important for you to be able to tell the difference in order to save you from wasting your time perusing a relationship that is destined to fail.

By: Crid Lee

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Men are always out for new seduction tips to get started on the highway of seduction. Some seduction tips and secrets are definitely worth your time while other seduction tips don’t seem to work well for you at all. The best seduction tips are those that will take into consideration the basic differences between men and women. Some seduction tips will just not work because though women are of the same specie and of the same gender, individuals differ from each other. There are however some basic seduction tips that are universal and will apply in most cases. It will be good then to take a look at these common seduction tips before looking at more unique ore specific methods.

Check Your Inhibitions

Each man has his own unique set of inhibitions. Many seduction tips will focus on particular inhibitions. Whatever your inhibitions are however, you should leave them at home or with your mother. Most seduction tips will tell you that the number one hindrance to the success of male seducers is some common fear or inhibition. Common fears included in usual seduction tips are fear of rejection and fear of not being good enough. If you start off with this fear on your back pocket, you will never be successful at seduction at all.

Get Techniques That Work You

It’s important to be a natural at what you do. Otherwise you will look like a complete jerk even if you have the best techniques on hand. There are so many seduction tips and techniques available in the internet these days. Some of these seduction tips even include strategies on how to hypnotize women into getting attracted to you. The important thing is to look for seduction tips and techniques that you can use comfortably. One way to find out if a strategy will work for you is to test it. You may have read how effective a certain strategy is with some men so why do you fail so miserably at it? It may be because the technique is not for you.

Get The Look That Works For You

Just as some seduction tips and strategies will not work for you, so will some appearances. It’s true that a lot of women may get attracted to clean but rugged types. If you are tall and lanky though, then there is no sense in pretending that you can carry a rugged and manly look – unless you’re a world-renowned musician in clean laid-back clothes. Investigate on the right look for you that will both fit you and work well with women.

Fix Your Speech Deficiency

Most seduction tips will point out that speech is an important factor in the art of seduction. Some men however may be able to communicate well under normal circumstances but find themselves unable to do so with attractive girls around. The best solution is to practice, listen to other guys talk and look for interesting conversation cues to use.

Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

The best among all seduction tips is the one which says that you don’t need to hide under a rock when you get rejected. Don’t sweat it. Stand up. Walk away and don’t stop feeling good about yourself just because some chick lied about having a boyfriend already.

By: Jack Rock

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A BIG mistake men make is to brag about their accomplishments when they’re around women. While it’s important to be confident about yourself, it’s crucial that you never appear TOO full of yourself.

Here’s why…

Guys think women will be impressed by anybody who has lots of money or has a powerful job. Unfortunately if you brag about yourself, you’ll turn her off with your arrogant behavior. The problem is mentioning how “great and wonderful you are” does nothing to build attraction. Instead it’ll just end up annoying the women you’re trying to impress.

Women are intuitive about men and will quickly pick up on a braggart. Furthermore they’ll know if a guy is bragging simply to cover up any feelings of insecurity. While they want a confident guy, women get annoyed by men who seem full of themselves.

Now instead of bragging, try using this “action speaks louder then words” technique…

If you want to demonstrate higher status to a woman, simply start acting that way. Be confident about yourself without showing arrogance. If you can have pride in your accomplishments while not constantly talking about yourself, women will pick up on this vibe.

So instead of talking about yourself, learn to tell great stories.

Any guy who can tell a story that is both interesting and exciting will have a much better chance then the guy who constantly brags about his accomplishments. Simply take a few hours one day and craft a few stories which will make women laugh.

So if ditch the arrogant behavior and learn how to be an interesting guy, you’ll find that it’s easy to attract women you’ve just met.

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com

We have to recognize that many of us, men, would like to have a beautiful, sexy lady as a partner, the woman of our dreams. But, in the same time, it’s not a secret for many of us that usually these beautiful women are not too available, most of them being into a relationship.

What happens if you fall in love with a beautiful girl that has already a boyfriend? Let’s say that you have met a fantastic girl, you really like her, but she already has a relationship. What you should do? You have two choices: or you take action to get her, or you let her go. This depends on how much you care about her, if you are ready to make all is necessary to get her.

Even it is a frustrating situation, you shouldn’t be discouraged. Even if she has already a boyfriend she may be pretty curious about you and wouldn’t want the existence of a boyfriend to scare you away. She might be even considering dumping him in favor of you, if she considers you the best for her. So, you should start your plan to get her.

First, you have to establish a method of constant contact, like getting into her group of friends, or maybe you know her already because is your neighbor; anyway, you have to try to become her friend. After you become friends, acquire a private method of contact like telephone number, email address. Also, you should take a look at her relationship. She may have a great relationship with him and love him very much, then your chances to get her are minimum, she may have problems in her relationship and want to end it anyway, or she may get rid already of her boyfriend, and this is the easiest situation to get her .If she sees you already as a friend, the next step for you is to make her sees you as a potential partner.

If you are friends for some time, when you are alone with her, you may start flirting with her. Also you have to have a lot of patience, until she sees your good points. You have to cover up your bad points, and show only good points, even if you don’t really posses. So, do romantic stuff to make her think that’s the kind of guy you are. Let her know that you are interested and wiling to give her everything she is lacking in her actual relationship.

As an advice for you, do not bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend when you are with her. You’d better wait until she begins to talk about him, in this way you can find out her actual level of interest in him. All you have to do is to keep up your flirting skills and work on how attractive you are to her. Remember that you purpose is to turn her interest away from him and to make her be interested in you more. So, intrigue her and make her curios, to make her start see in you all that is missing in dating with the other.

If she starts talking about him, you need to take a different approach, and go ahead and talk about him by asking a lot of questions. In this way you may find out what is missing her in that relationship and assure her that you can offer her all she doesn’t get from the other. But never talk negatively about him; it is not in your advantage.
Your job is to get rid of her boyfriend and turn all her attention to you, but in a nice and positive way, without critics and lies.

So, after all, bird dogging is not such bad idea to get the woman you like, if you really love that girl. Bird dogging is definite as a situation when another guy steals a girl from her boyfriend; it is used as a nasty, unethical and immoral tactic. But we all know that there are no rules in love and war.

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Here’s an interesting story which illustrates the importance of making a good first impression.

The other day I was at my friend’s house where he was describing his troubles with filling a slot for a summer rental. During the process of interviewing new tenants, he brings them out for a night of drinking. Now this is done in an attempt to see what the people “are really like”.

What’s interesting was my friend was talking about this one guy who proceeded to get drunk and insult every single female roommate. Needless to say he was NOT asked to move in.

So what’s the moral behind this story?

Well this guy made a BAD first impression. Whenever you meet people (especially women) you literally have a few minutes to give people an opportunity to judge you. If you do a poor job, then it’ll be hard to overcome this first impression.

And this is especially true when it comes to women.

If you meet a woman and do something to offend her, then you can say goodbye to ANY chance of attracting or dating her.

Now before I discuss how to recover from a bad first impression, let me quickly mention something. There are some women who have no sense of humor. If you’re just making a few jokes and she gets really offended, then you’ve learned a valuable lesson. Perhaps this woman has no sense of humor. By quickly identifying this trait, you’ve learned that she probably won’t make a good dating partner.

But there will be times when you might go overboard and say something to offend her. If that’s the case, then you need to rectify things. The important thing to remember is to maintain your higher status while giving her an apology.

If you want to date this woman, then an apology must be issued. However if you want to act like a man you must avoid giving the apology in a supplicating or pleading tone.

Instead you need to talk to her privately and explain things in a calm and rational tone. Just explain that you were trying to joke with her and see if she has a sense of humor. You were going for a laugh, but she didn’t find it funny. Then say you’re sorry that you hurt her feelings.

The important thing about this method is it directly confronts the bad first impression and shows that you can admit you’re wrong without losing any power. Now if this woman doesn’t accept your apology then she isn’t really worth dating. Simply move on and find a woman who has a better sense of humor.

If you find yourself in a situation where you’ve accidentally offended a woman, then you might owe her an apology. Just use the technique I’ve described in this article and you’ll quickly identify the problem, address it, and then continue on with the conversation. From there you can continue with other attraction build techniques.

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com