Women are rather fascinating don’t you think? They can be our greatest pleasure and also our greatest pain.

Women want to be lead by a man in life, if the women in your life are leading you and the relationship, it is destined for failure. Women will continually test you and this is to ensure you that you are that man they want in their life and you don’t turn into a WUSS bag.

Have you ever heard the words “just friends” or heard of someone who has this label? I know I am guilty of this, liking a girl so much and hanging around to find out there is no attraction there and to her we are “JUST FRIENDS”.

What about when you like a girl so much that if you don’t get what you want from her or she does not act the way you want her to, you sabotage the relationship and all your insecurities and frustration come out and to find that the girl is gone, but you have never done this of course.

Women like to be surprised and experience spontaneous acts in their lives, have you ever surprised a woman you were attracted to, to find the attraction built and built? If a woman ever asks you “what do you want to do” never say “I don’t know, what do you think”, this has destroyed the attraction you had towards her.

Notice how when you seem to become comfortable the attraction dies between you and the female, so a rule of thumb is to never get comfortable in a relationship.

I used to seek approval from women thinking that if I gave them what it is they wanted, I would attract them and get what I wanted and boy I was wrong. Women are not logical so stop thinking they are.

You want to get the woman to be seeking your approval and you do this by having higher status and social status, by not giving your power away to her, by being a man.

To attract women you need to push those buttons inside of her and build attraction and as long as you are building attraction she will be seeking your approval and want more from you.

You must NOT go into a relationship to get something for yourself or an emotion to serve your needs, you must go into a relationship to give and what you give you get 10 folds back.

By: Dean Barnard

www.datingcoresecrets.com

Have you ever spent years and years dating women and realized that you know even less now than when you were younger? If so, you can count yourself among the majority of males in the world who suffer from this same problem. In fact, this is so common that an entire industry has resulted. Millions of dollars are made from the annual sale of books, DVDs and radio programs that have the same goal in mind - providing relationship advice for men. If you want to know where to get all the relationship advice a man needs, read on.

A great place to find relationship advice for men is the internet. The internet contains sites and forums on every topic available and relationships are no exception. In fact, a recent subculture has formed called the seduction community.

Basically, the seduction community consists of men who are looking to achieve greater romantic success with women. In addition to internet forums, there are currently more than 100 local clubs which are referred to as “lairs”. This community is gaining more media exposure and it’s a great place to start if you are looking for valuable relationship advice.

Relationship advice for men is also available from many traditional books. Many books contain traditional ideas that just don’t work like the new methods so be careful which ones you choose. Start off by picking up a copy of The Game, written by self-proclaimed “pickup artist” and journalist, Neil Strauss. His book has reached the bestseller list of the New York Times and discusses techniques commonly used within the community.

Another great way to find relationship advice for men can be found in e-books - the electronic books that can be found in every corner of the internet. Almost everyone is producing their own e-book, but that doesn’t mean some of them aren’t very informative. Just conduct a search in Google to find books focusing on topics you want to explore. Use the tips and techniques shared by other men and women to avoid some of the pitfalls they have experienced. Start by reading books like David DeAngelo’s Double Your Dating or Ross Jeffries’ acclaimed Speed Seduction home study courses.

The bottom line is relationship advice for men is now widely available in many different forms. You can learn about members of the opposite sex by connecting with the online seduction community, pick up some new or classic books such as The Game or start reading some of the many valuable e-books that are available. If you have a lot to learn about women, then regardless of how you obtain the advice, make sure you start now.

By: James Lockwood

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Contemplating of a steady relationship, but getting confused over the current one and asking ‘is she serious about it?’

Here are some signs that can help you to get an idea regarding her level of involvement in your relationship:

She misses you too much and often calls you over the phone for no reason at all. She can’t stop talking to you. If conversation over the phone is not always possible, she insists you to sign into your messenger for chatting purpose.

She gives you undivided attention. When you are in front of her, she becomes least aware of the surrounding and its people. For that time being, you become her prime concern.

She is eager to take you to her friends and introduce you as her boyfriend. And to your utter surprise…you realize, they know every details of you! It’s all because whenever she converses with her friends, she keeps on giving your references. In her absence, her friends tell you how much she is in love with you and request you to never dump her, otherwise she might get heartbroken.

Terms like ‘Fidelity’, ‘Trust’ come quite often in your discussions. She tries to remind you the importance of being faithful to one’s lover. She tells you about the happiness and satisfaction a long-term relationship can give to a person.

She is trying her level best to be closer to you. If you notice that she is putting in an extra effort to develop an interest in your likes and dislikes, you can be rest assured that she is serious about you. Let us suppose that she is not much of a sports lover. But, as you show tremendous interest in sports and other outdoor activities, she is willing to accompany you to the sports stadium and striving to get the essence of the game. On the other hand, it is also possible that she is not showing much interest in the game, but enjoying every bit of your company, because nothing is more precious to her than you.

‘Let’s go and meet our respective parents’ – she says this to you repeatedly. It is a clear indication that she has marriage in mind. When you take her to your parents, she behaves like an ideal daughter-in-law. She talks about all your positive aspects when you meet her parents. Keep in mind; a serious type girl looks for such a person who is the perfect marriage material and whom she can take home to her mom.

If you ask her to meet your friends, she says ‘yes’ immediately. She is extremely cordial to your friends and even suggests you to throw a party inviting all the friends of both of you.

She never forgets to ask for your opinion regarding almost everything she does. It is a sign that she respects you and has full faith on your judgments. All her activities are indicators of her reliance on you.

Your presence makes her feel most comfortable. She even reveals all her secrets to you. ‘I have been ditched a few times in the past, now I don’t want to loose you!’ – she conveys all her fear and anxieties to you.

Instead of getting physically intimate, she prefers to talk about her desires and future plans and you are there in all her actions. She just cannot think anything without you.

She considers you two as a single unit and refers each other as ‘we’. Words like ‘I’ and ‘you’ aren’t there anymore in your discussions.

‘I cannot imagine life without you’ – she utters these sentences every now and then. To her, your importance is next to nobody.

She keeps no stone unturned to bring a big smile in your face. She just wants to make you happy at any cost.

‘I want to grow older with you’ – she takes utmost care of you and treats you with motherly affection.

She gets emotional imagining your children and grandchildren and the house where all of you are going to spend your lives in each other’s company.

Whenever you decide to spend a lavish amount of money on a date or on a trip together, she gets annoyed and tells you to save something for your future together. She is very much concerned about your security in the coming days.

Most of her talking centers on your wedding plans. She is dying to see herself in the wedding gown more than anything else.

She gives you sermons on importance of family life.

She never gives a second thought before canceling prior commitments just to be with you.

Whether it’s good news or something bad, she shares everything with you.

…Hope, you have got adequate information on the topic and these will help you immensely in understanding the nature of your gal friend. So, ALL THE BEST!

By: Jason Sands

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Shifting from talking to a woman and becoming intimate can sometimes be a difficult transition. It may be easy to engage her in conversation, but it is another thing to transition into the bedroom and become more intimate.

Don’t sit around and wait on that rare woman to approach you. Rather, you need to learn the art of seduction. So, if you find it difficult to get to the bedroom with a girl, do not worry. To seduce a woman you simply need the right technique and some practice.

Here are five seduction tips you can use. Take some time to learn each one, implement them and practice. Soon, you will find that it really isn’t that difficult to transition from conversation to intimacy.

Tip 1: Make Sure She is Attracted To You

Before you can even begin to seduce her, you need to be sure she is attracted to you. Otherwise, the tips below will be useless.

The best way to accomplish this is to flirt heavily while you are talking to her and slightly introduce the topic of sex into the discussion. You should definitely not be afraid to tease her. This keeps the conversation light and fun. The more relaxed she is with you, the easier it will be to take things to the next level and seduce her.

Tip 2: Initiate Physical Contact During the Conversation

This is one of the more important seduction tips. During the conversation, it is essential that you slightly touch her when you want to make a point about a comment you made or even in reaction to one of her comments. Of course, do not go overboard with this tip.

Seduction is a process. It is about building chemistry, rapport and attraction. It is not about whipping your clothes off and jumping directly into bed.

However, initiating physical contact while you are talking helps her become more comfortable with you. Now, if you notice her shying away when you touch her, she is probably not interested in you as a potential sexual partner. This tip is a good way to evaluate her interest level also so you do not waste too much time, only to find out in the end she really isn’t interested.

Tip 3: Take Things to a Private Spot

This third tip is another important step in the seduction process. The final two tips cannot work without it, though it really is just the next logical move. Basically, you need to be in a location where you can actually have sex whether it is back to your place or her place.

To make this happen, though, she needs to trust you. So, when you are talking to her and flirting, work on building that trust and being trustworthy. Do not say anything to make her “think twice” or question you. The more she trusts you, the easier it will be to seduce her and move things to a private spot.

Tip 4: Kiss Her the Right Way

Once you have made it to a private location, it is time to begin working on the physical side.
Once you have been touching her and know that she is attracted to you, you can go ahead and kiss her. But, how you kiss her is very important at this stage.

Do you ram your tongue down her throat, but rather go slowly and lightly. You want to kiss her passionately. Once you notice her responding to this, you can increase the intensity.

Tip 5: Increase the Intensity

In the final tip, you can move from kissing to sex. After you have kissed her for awhile, begin to tease her. Kiss or lightly nibble her neck, or pull her hair. The goal is to turn her on, but take you time doing it. Focus on pleasuring her, not you.

After a little teasing, you can move on to other foreplay. If you have followed the relationship advice above, you should find that it is not a difficult transition to move into sex. Always remember to take your time and let things gradually build in intensity.

Ultimately, following these five tips above can make having sex with a woman a lot easier. Always remember that the seduction process is just that – a process. You must build the attraction and develop trust. So, learn these tips above, implement them and practice them. You will be glad you did!

By: Chick Magnet 101

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If you find that you become shy around women, I bring you good news. Shyness around women can be cured with little effort.

Shyness is the main reason many guys never try to attract a woman or approach them. Their shyness virtually paralyzes them to the point that they never make a move while other guys leave with the attractive women.

But, this can change for the better. Here are three tips to cure shyness around women and help you become that confident guy any woman wants:

Tip 1: Eliminate Your Expectations

One reason guys become nervous around women is because they focus too much on the outcome of the interaction. They place too many expectations on what they hope to achieve, whether it is getting her phone number or going on a date.

Rather than focus on the outcome, just enjoy the conversation and company. Relax. Do not worry about whether or not she is into you. Just appreciate that you are talking to her and have a good time.

When you feel yourself becoming nervous, just repeat in your mind that you really do not care what happens. It would be great if you got her number, but it would not be the worst thing ever if you didn’t. Like I said, just have fun. The last thing you want her to see is how nervous you are.

Tip 2: Know What You Want

I really am not contradicting myself. Yes, I told you in the first tip to remove all expectations and now I am suggesting you figure out exactly what you want.

The difference is that you need a plan of action. This is far different from removing your expectations of the outcome. Always know what outcome you want to occur, just do not dwell on it during the conversations.

Ask yourself: What do I want to come from talking to her? Do I just want to have a good time? Do I want to secure a date? Or become intimate with her? The better you can answer these questions and know what you want, the more comfortable you will feel at shifting the conversation to make it happen.

Tip 3: Just Go For It!

Practice is the best way to cure shyness around women. Knowing what you want, as I recommended above, makes it a lot easier to go for it when you have the opportunity.

If you still find that you are nervous when talking to women, my advice is to just keep practicing. With practice, you will eventually feel more comfortable and less nervous around women.

As with any skill, learning to become comfortable approaching women is something that must be practiced. Practice your conversation skills so you can determine what works and what does not work. You will gradually build your confidence and soon wonder why you were ever shy around women. Once women start picking up on your new confident personality, they will find you even more attractive.

Paying attention to these three tips will, eventually, reduce your shyness. With a little effort, you can be that guy taking home the beautiful woman!

By: Chick Magnet 101

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