Archive for August, 2007

Romantic Sayings – Lighting Up The Romantic Flame

Tuesday, August 14th, 2007

For all the hopelessly incurable romantics out there, there’s no better way to say “I love you” than romantic sayings that tug on your heartstrings and simply refuse to let go. These romantic sayings are legion, so if you have trouble coming up with your own, you can always take your pick from the vast array made available to you courtesy of fellow romantics of yore.

Even more remarkable, these sayings have quite a long shelf life and—depending, of course, on how you say them—are sure to melt your significant other’s heart all the way to the altar and beyond.

• “I love you, not only for what you are but for what I am when I am with you.”
- Roy Croft

Simply put, it’s that “You bring out the best in me” line, only more romantic and catchy. Honestly, love isn’t just about hugs and kisses, dates and dinners. It’s about give and take, and you’ll be surprised how much you’d be willing to give (and give up) all for the sake of love. In a way, you take as well, because the love you get only makes you want to give even more of it, and you become a better person as a result.

• “Your words are my food, your breath my wine. You are everything to me.”
- Sarah Bernhardt

These sincere words will absolutely melt your woman’s heart. Saying ‘You are everything to me’ just goes to show how important she is to your life and expresses how much you treasure her. It is quite difficult to express your feelings in just a few words, but using a romantic saying like this may just be exactly what you are looking for.

• “Love me without fear, trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding, want me without restrictions
Accept me without change, desire me without inhibitions…”
- Dick Sutphen

A poem about love and passion is probably one of the most romantic gifts that you can give to your loved one. Go through the pages of old books, look for verses from a collection of love poems, and present it as a gift to her, in your own handwriting. Men often forget that presents like this are even more precious than any material thing that you can think of.

Romantic sayings aren’t just for the poetic. They are for absolutely anyone who’s ever been smitten, enamored, and lovelorn in their life—meaning every single one of us. So have a go at any one of these and watch as your own romance blooms, indeed.

By: Lee, Michael

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How To Talk To Sexy Women

Monday, August 13th, 2007

If you want to learn how to talk to sexy women in a way that makes them attracted to you, read on.

In this article I will discuss how chatting with a gorgeous woman is different than an average one, how to approach and talk to sexy women the right way, and give you specific strategies you can use right away to be prepared to start up a conversation next time a sexy woman goes by. After reading this, you should have more than enough information to talk to sexy women and make all your male friends jealous.

to understand how to talk to sexy women, you must first understand a little about them. I want you to imagine how many times a day one of these babes gets approached by men. I would guess at least five times a day. If you are at a more social scene, it can get to over 20. So you have some stiff competition when you talk to sexy women.

I’m going to show you how to use that to your advantage in a second. First, what do you think most guys do when they approach a hot women? I can tell you by experience, most of them will give her a compliment about her beauty, or something equally unoriginal. Boring.

Also, most men who approach these women are in fact intimidated by their beauty. Let me give you a hint. Women do not find men who are wussies to be attractive.

One more important thing to know: sexy women are used to getting their ways in everything. People rarely challenge them.

Okay, so how does this help you talk to sexy women. Simple. In order for a sexy woman to feel attraction towards you, you have be able to instantly communicate four things. What are they? You have to show her you are confident, intelligent, powerful and interesting. Giving her compliments or being nice and friendly with her won’t cut it. You need a better approach.

Here’s a secret: You can get away with saying almost anything to a woman… provided you do it in a humorous way. That means you can sound almost downright arrogant… but if you can get her to laugh, you will not only show her you are interesting and intelligent, but in fact confident and powerful.

Let’s get into examples. You walk up to a woman and say, “Wow that’s a nice dress. Did you buy that new?”. Do you think any other man has the guts to say something like that to a woman? To rib her on how she’s dressed? No… but you did, because you did it in a way that’s funny.

Now here’s what this kind of talk to sexy women does. It is like a challenge. Since sexy women are so used to getting what they want, this will immediately knock them off balance. They will think something like, “wow, he’s different and interesting. Kind of cocky, but is he serious? Let me see if I can get him to like me, then I’ll tell him to hit the road.”

Here’s what you did… you now made her fight to win your approval, when all other men have been fighting to win hers.

Want some more ways to talk to sexy women? Say you asked her if she bought her dress new and she laugh and replies saying, “Wow aren’t you funny? But just so you know, I’m not going to have sex with you, so don’t want waste your time.”

Here is what’s happening. She is challenging you back to see if really are as confident as you act. Don’t flinch. Instead say something like, “Settle down there. Why are you bringing up sex so early in the conversation… frustrated?”

Do you see the mixture here? You are being a bit arrogant… but you doing it in a way that makes her laugh. It’s called charm. You need to be charming when you talk to sexy women.

So here’s what you should do in order to really get all this. Take out a piece of paper and make a list of five common scenarios you find yourself in with women. Now come up with ways to approach them by saying something arrogant. Now that you got your arrogant statements, add a touch of humor on the end of them. Then, learn how to deliver them with total confidence.

If you do this, you will go a long ways with your talk to sexy women.

By: Kurt Dight

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How The Law Of Attraction Can Help Your Dating Success

Friday, August 10th, 2007

According to popular literature, ‘The Law of Attraction’ can help you get ANYTHING you desire. This includes the woman of your dreams! From what many “experts” have said, if you simply wish for (and imagine) your ideal mate, she’ll magically appear.

But can this really be done? Well that’s a pretty important question to ask.
The other day I was reading the popular book “The Secret”. While I think this book contains a lot of useless information, there are a few principles listed which can help your dating life. What the author discussed was how The Law of Attraction can help achieve you want out of life, including meet your dream woman.

Now if you’re not familiar with The Law of Attraction, then let me to provide the text book definition:

Basically it stats that a person’s thoughts (conscious and unconscious), emotions, beliefs and actions are said to attract corresponding positive and negative experiences “through the resonance of their energetic vibration.”

In other words it means that if you believe in attraction you can get what you think about. Ultimately your thoughts determine your outcome.

Furthermore you can implement The Law of Attraction by following these 4 rules:

1) Know what you desire and ask the universe for it. (The “universe” is mentioned broadly, stating that it can be anything from God to an unknown source of energy.)

2) Focus your thoughts upon the thing desired with great feeling such as enthusiasm or gratitude.

3) Feel and behave as if the object of your desire is on its way.

4) Be open to receiving it.

Now the question is how can you apply The Law of Attraction to your own dating life? Well it’s simple. All you have to change around the basic tenants and make them apply to your own dating life.

So if you take the above 4 rules, your own personal Law of Dating Attraction would look like this:

1) Formulate your idea of your perfect woman

2) Think about this perfect woman and describe her perfectly

3) Use visualization to see yourself meeting her, attracting her and ultimately seducing her

4) Go to specific places and look for opportunities where you can meet her

While I personally believe The Law of Attraction doesn’t work in the real world, it’s important to clearly identify your ideal woman. If you can create a perfect image of what she’s like and her personality, then you’ll discover it’s actually pretty easy to meet her.

So if you’re having trouble finding your dream woman, then I recommend that you follow this simple exercise. You might be surprised and meet her!

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com

Undeniable Male Seduction Techniques

Thursday, August 9th, 2007

Male seduction techniques are a requirement if you want to improve your dating life. In this article I will discuss three male seduction techniques I have found to be most successful. Specifically we will talk about techniques on how to approach a woman, how to get women to approach you, and what to say specifically in each situation. At the end of this article you should have a good repertoire of different male seduction techniques to use in order to attract more beautiful women.

There is a specific attitude needed when you approach a woman to ensure you’re most successful. All mail seduction techniques when approaching women boils down to one thing: attitude. Most men when they approach women have an attitude of scarcity. In other words they think that they need this woman or that they must have acceptance from the woman they are approaching.

I urge you to think along these lines: there are so many women out there with so many different personalities, most of which you won’t even find attractive, that you must not approach women worried about whether you will be able to get a date with them or not. You need to have the attitude of a selector. What this means is that it is you who chooses which women you would like to spend time with, date, and seduce.

So how does this work in practice? Say for example you want to find out if a woman is single. One way you could ask her would be, “do you have a boyfriend?” This is the most common way men ask women. Instead, with a selector attitude you ask, “are you single?”, with the tone of voice that implies if she’s not you don’t want to talk to her.

Next, simply look at how she reacts and then act accordingly. If she slyly smiles and says “well…”, simply say, “I’ll take that as a yes. Do you have e-mail?”

Now let’s deal with mail seduction techniques on how to get women to approach you. I have a friend with a collection of cool T-shirts he wears. If you ever go out with him when you he wears one of these T-shirts you will notice he can’t stop women from approaching him. These T-shirts are props. You can use all kinds of props to get women to approach you such as astrology charts, puppies, your friend’s baby, etc. Use your imagination.

Another one of my favorite male seduction techniques has to do with learning handwriting analysis. Just learn the basic information about how to interpret handwriting. Next time You’re at a restaurant, when the waitress writes the order down, look at the order pad. Then say, “interesting. Your writing says a lot about you.”

She can’t resist. She’ll ask you what you mean. Tell her to write a few lines in cursive, and also write her phone number down because you need to see numbers as well. Then, with the basic information on handwriting analysis that you learned, tell her what it means. If you can take it from there, and there’s no hope for you.

These are just some of the mail seduction techniques that I teach my students. It is important to know that all the technique in the world won’t help if you don’t have the right attitude towards seducing women. To get that attitude I urge you to constantly practice and study the art of seducing women.

By: Kurt Dight

Kurt Dight has created a free 5 day mini course in “how to seduce any women”. It is available for instant access only for a limited time at www.dating-secrets2.com/

5 Ways You Can Make Women Pursue You

Wednesday, August 8th, 2007

If you’re like me, then you have moments where just want to lazy. And this is especially true when it comes time to trying to attract a woman. Instead of making an effort to think of a clever pickup line, you simply want attractive women to come to you.

As you know by now, approaching girls and initiating a conversation is pretty hard work. Not only do you have think of something clever to say, you also have to ensure that you build instant attraction.

What’s the interesting is there are a small number of guys who know the secret to getting women to pursue us. Once you understand these techniques, you can sit back and let women vie for your attention. And in this article, I’ll discuss 5 of the best ways you can make women WANT to pursue you. Let’s get started…

1- Qualify her

One of the biggest mistakes guys make to try to “prove themselves” when talking to a woman. Instead of giving away all the power, you should shift focus and make the girl qualify herself.

You can do this by describing how you have specific standards in your life. Then just sit back and watch how she’ll do her best to conform to your guidelines.

2- Act like an alpha male

Women are drawn to guys who display a powerful presence. By acting like a higher status male, you’ll display positive traits like confidence, initiate and leadership.

So during your initial conversation (or before even talking to her) you need to show that you’re “a leader of men” and you’re not afraid to go after what you want.

3- Demonstrate higher value

On the heels of acting like an alpha male, it’s equally important to show that you’re an interesting guy. When you demonstrate specific traits which makes you stand out from the crowd, women will easily notice you.

An easy way to demonstrate higher value is to have an exciting hobby, a fun skill or know how you talk to her in a seductive manner. Just remember that being a high status guy is one of the best ways to build instant attraction in a girl.

4- Be aloof

While it might seem counterintuitive, you can make a woman become attracted to you by acting in an aloof manner. Since females are used to being pursued by guys, you’ll become more mysterious if you show an “I don’t care” attitude. In fact, by displaying a lack of desire, you’ll become a prize which she must work hard to attain.

5- Have your own life

As you’re probably realizing, the best way to attract women is to display a higher status personality. So the final way to get a woman to pursue you is to show an exciting lifestyle.

When you’re talking to a woman, let her know that you have a LOT going on in your life and you don’t NEED to date women. If you can show that you’re happy with your life, she’ll be impressed by the fact that you have a lot of exciting things going on. What’s interesting is when you demonstrate this attitude, women will want work hard to become part of your life.

Getting women to pursue isn’t that hard to do. If you can show that you’re an interesting guy who is worth their time, you’ll discover that women will start to make the first move. Just display the five traits I discussed in this article and you’ll be on your way to making girls chase after you.

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com