Have you ever been in a romantic love & then broken hearted? Broken hearts make you afraid & trauma to build a new relationship? So, how to heal your broken heart? A broken heart (or heartbreak) is a common metaphor used when a human being suffers an emotional or physical loss, to the extent that it begins to cause them physical or physiological pain. Your heart was breaking because you ever been in love & happy in your love, but now you are meeting situation that someone you love has changed & not suitable for you. Don’t worry about that. A broken heart actually can get up, leave this bad history, & build a new relationship.

A relationship is a connection between people. Relationship is about giving each other 50/50. No one can always right. Someday they will get wrong too. You have to understand about it. You give your strength to fulfill your couple weakness. Your couple gives the strength to fulfill your weakness too. That is a good relationship.

“Get up after broke”. It’s easy to say but hard to practice it. Many people feel hard to get up after they fell because they always look beneath; they always feel about their falls & solve the problems emotionally & angry each other. You can’t solve the problems if you use your emotion to think & your brain to follow your emotion. If you get broken heart, just take a longer breath & blow slowly. Do it 3 times. You can also take some cool water to refresh your face. It will help you to muffle your anger. If you do it, you will feel fresh. If you feel fresh, you can think & make the right decision.

If you have a traumatic experience about your broken relationship, think that everybody is not same. You have to consort with many people to understand that everybody have unique behaviors. Some are good person, and the others are bad people.

If you feel something wrong with your partnership, solve the problem as soon as possible. If you wait to solve until next time the problem will be bigger. And it will be a time bomb that can blew out at any time. You will get the serious broken heart. You and your couple will accuse each other. So, it’s easier for you to realize & solve the problem now than you will get hurt tomorrow.

If you think it’s not good to continue your relationship, discontinue your relationship soon. Discontinue doesn’t mean that you stop/broke your relationship. It prefers you avoid building deeper relationship with him/her. Just be a friend without deep relationship. Maybe you will feel hurt to discontinue, but a little hurt is better than you will broken heart tomorrow.

By: Mark Su

Mark Su, is a happy couples therapist. He also provides free MySpace love graphics for you to warm up your relationship.

If you’ve got the guts to approach an attractive woman, that is GREAT. Most guys can never muster the courage to put themselves out there, so you are already halfway ahead of the rest of the competition.
However, even with the supreme intestinal fortitude you possess, you will still go home alone if you make certain crucial mistakes when creating your first interaction with a woman. Once you have been around with her for a while and shown you’re a cool guy, you can relax and let loose a little more, but for now, these are two mistakes you need to watch out for.
Let’s get straight to it…

Mistake #1 - “Starting things off with a bunch of questions!”

If you are like most guys I know, including myself, you intuitively want to start a conversation off with a question…

This might be, “Hey, what is your name?” or “You come here often?”

This type of questioning is problematic. In fact, it’s an instant turnoff for her!

Here’s why…

Starting off with a question makes her have to work for you immediately after meeting you. She has to spend time and energy coming up with an answer before you have demonstrated that you can add anything to her night.

Both men and women are unlikely to answer any question posed to them unless it’s a functional question or the person asking them is someone of value. Think about this: if a bum off the street asked you what kind of house you grew up in, would you bother answering?

Here is the good news:

All you have to do to start a good conversation is say things that indicate that you are a FUN person. Don’t start things off with a bunch of questions! Make fun statements instead.

For example, try saying, “You guys are the hottest … space aliens … I’ve met all night.”

No guy is saying stuff like this to her at the bar. Once you have shown her that you are fun… she will be far more likely to answer a question you pose to her later on.

Now that was easy, wasn’t it?

The next problem we’re talking about is a big “No-No”, and yet you have probably been guilty of this one at least once in your life!

Here it is…

Mistake #2 - “Trying to Use Pick-up Lines as if You’re Serious”

I don’t get why this happens, but there are guys out there who still try to use “lines.”
Lines are lame… and they just don’t work.

Some guys will actually go up to a girl and say, “Do you have a mirror in your pocket? …Because I can see myself in your pants.”

This horrible, horrible line will get you rejected quickly, if not slapped.

Girls aren’t idiots when it comes to being approached, and these lines INSTANTLY convey that you want her and are TRYING to get her. Your attempt is a massive turn off for her and makes you look desperate.

What women REALLY want is a guy that doesn’t have to “try” at all, that has all the women in the world, and will make her fight for his affection.

So by trying too hard, you automatically disqualify yourself as her ideal man and her attraction for you never gets a chance to develop.

Of course, there is a saying that “everything will work, and nothing will work.” What this means is that I could give you greatest line ever invented, and you could say it in a way that would make a girl walk away from you as quickly as possible.
At the same time, the line I just dismissed as terrible could legitimately work if you have very playful, unserious delivery. Don’t get me wrong, the line is TERRIBLE, but I have an experiment for you. This will show you that it isn’t really the line that messes you up in the above example, but the subcommunications and delivery. Delivery changes everything.

Try this …

Go out tonight and see what happens if you attempt to seriously deliver the above line.

Then go up to a different girl and do the exact same “line” but deliver it like you are messing with her head. NOW you are showing her that you are FUN… and things will go far better! And remember … don’t lean in!

By: Mehow Powers

Mehow is an internationally known dating coach featured on MTV and YoungHollywood. He has developed a 3 minute attraction method for nightlife, and has led thousands of men to greater dating success. He publishes a free seduction newsletter which you can get by emailing gtg_nightlife@getresponse.com. His website is www.mehowgetthegirl.com

Most men have been physically or emotionally abused by women. They are more likely to be hurt by women then injured in any other way. But due to the mindset of influential people this fact is ignored and seldom discussed in the media. A victimized male who registers a complaint is called a wimp and is treated with disrespect. A man is supposed to stand his ground and be in a more powerful position than a woman but this has proven to be impossible. Women have obtained so much power that most men have become their slaves.

The most common method used by women to abuse a man a man is by enslaving him. They do this best by having his child. He is forced by law to support that child or go to prison. In most cases the man chooses to live with the women and tries to become a good father and provider. If the man does not meet her expectations she will punish him severely. Many men have been beaten with weapons and are constantly being verbally abused. A man has little choice but to accept that punishment and try to meet her demands. In most cases he cannot afford to leave because he has the legal responsibility to continue supporting her and the child.

The free dinner obtained by single women paid for by lonely men is the most popular form of abuse. Many women use dating services and personal advertisements for the purpose of getting a free full course dinner in an expensive restaurant. They are called: “Dinner Hookers” by men who have dated them. I have heard women comparing notes about the way they have bilked men out of everything from jewelry to expensive vacations. They laugh and are proud of their accomplishments. The victim of this type of abuse is usually an honest and lonely man that is trying to make a romantic connection. The predator salivates at a naïve mans vulnerability and does everything in her power to empty his pockets. Not all women should be condemned for the faults of the greedy ones. There are good women available. Also there is nothing wrong with a man picking up the tab for a sincere woman, but not for a woman that is interested in nothing but a free ride.

There are many that defend the cunning, shrewd, and selfish woman. They say that nature designed her to be that way so she can provide for her children. But the main goal of the average women is her pleasure and security. She is forced by the law to feed, clothe, and educate her children. Some are only interested in drugs and alcohol or desert their families and are unfit mothers. They waste money needed for the children on fancy clothing and expensive cosmetics. An honest and reliable husband that objects to such wanton behavior will often be physically abused by this kind of woman and if he complains to anyone about his treatment he will be called a wimp.

The only defense a man has against an abusive woman is by keeping his distance. The law and public opinion are on her side. A women’s word is believed no matter what her background is. She can abuse you in any way she desires and get away with it. Nobody will believe your side of the story. A woman can get caught cheating on her husband and little is said, but if a man gets caught he will never hear the end of it. If a man forgets to get a birthday gift for his women all hell will break loose. A mans birthday is celebrated by a fifty cent card if he is lucky. The restaurants are packed on mother’s day and empty on father’s day. If a man wants to stay home and watch a ball game on his day off he is called a couch potato. His love making is criticized as being too cold or too hot. He is sure to develop an inferiority complex. These are only a few of the ways men are being abused by women.

There is no advantage for a man to have children. Life is full of a million other things to do. Men have a right to devote as much time as they likes in the pursuit of pleasure. The company of women is one of those pleasures but it can also become a painful experience. But there are ways to help you get the most out of your relationships and avoid the pain. Getting a vasectomy is one of them. It will guarantee that you will remain childless. The procedure only takes thirty minutes. After a vasectomy, a man still has erections and ejaculates. The amount of fluid in his ejaculations is not different, except there is no sperm. The fluid looks and smells the same. A man’s hormones, beard, and voice do not change. His sex drive and ability to have sex do not change. The only change is that he cannot make a woman pregnant. No women will be able to claim that you are the father of her child and hold you hostage for child support. The money you earn will be all yours.

Men as well as women are self seeking and once you understand that you will less likely be a victim of abuse. Never give more than you get in a relationship because your kindness will be understood as weakness or naivety. Always remember that you are both entitled to respect. If you don’t get any it is time to break off. Self acceptance is the greatest defense against a partner that tries to degrade or humiliate you. If you are not comfortable with yourself you will be open for abuse and you will get it. A good relationship is always possible and if you get one hold on tight.
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By: melpol

Retired and single recluse

This is an age-old problem men have always had. What to do when she won’t break away from her pack of friends.

If she has made eye contact with you and smiled. You must move in immediately. Don’t wait for her to break from the pack. I know you want to refrain from any embarrassment from her friends. Remember, women look for confidence in a man. If you wait, you will lower her interest in you and risk the chance of someone else moving in on your target and you will look like wimp in her eyes.

So how do you introduce yourself without looking like a complete idiot?

If she’s in a group with more then one women. Bring a friend with you. The friend can be a lifesaver and will take a lot of pressure off the initial contact. You might want to want to train your friend in advance.

Another approach is very low risk. If your at a pub, have a waiter deliver a note with a quick message saying something like ” Hey, I know you’re with friends, but if you’d like to make another friend, step away for a second. (Don’t make me come over and start singing to you.)”

More then likely she will come over unless she is totally not interested or is extremely shy. When she gets to your table. “You might want to say something like “I don’t normally interrupt people during lunch, but I just had to give you the pleasure of meeting me.” (Give her a playful smile.) “What’s your name?”

It’s always best to tease a bit and also to be a little cocky. It shows the women your strong and confident. Women tend to be a little turned off by the “nice guy” who can’t get the courage to go after what he wants.

Typically, women want a dominant man in a relationship. And when I say dominant. What I mean is a guy who takes control of the relationship and is a source of strength for the woman he’s with. A man who makes her feel safe and eliminates uncertainty from her life.

So when you see a girl in public that catches your eye. And she seems to be interested in you. Go up to her. Introduce yourself and Bam! You have a chance of meeting the girl of your dreams.

By: BrianD

How To Meet Any Women Out There Without Rejection. View My Blog For Frequently Updated Tips To Explode Your Dating Life: datingsecrets4men.blogspot.com/ - Brian D

Okay I have to say it…

There are some REALLY dumb girls out there. I know this sounds harsh, but the truth was revealed to me a few weeks ago.

In a recent Ms. Teen America competition, the contestant from South Carolina proved how stupid SOME women can be. After being asked a simple question, she managed to prove to the ENTIRE world how dumb some of the citizens of the U.S. can sound.

Anyway her sub standard response led to an interesting conversation with a female friend of mine. In this discussion my friend stated that the contestant doesn’t NEED to be smart since she’s really good looking. While I found my friends statement to be pretty shocking, it made me think…

Most guys are willing to put up with an unintelligent woman as long as she’s good looking. The problem is trying to “pick up” a not-so-smart girl has a few inherent dangers. If you don’t know what you’re doing, you could find yourself in a disastrous situation.

So in honor of Ms. South Carolina, I’m going to cover five tips to help you attract the next unintelligent woman you encounter:

#1- Understand the Pitfalls

We’ve all had those moments. You walk up to a woman and start talking. Then within 2 minutes you come to the sudden realization that you’re NOT talking to the sharpest tool in the shed.

Trust me, this can be quite shocking!

A lot of attraction routines are designed to engage a girl in a fun conversation. But when you’re dealing with a woman of lesser intelligence, a LOT of your techniques won’t be as effective.

What I recommend is fairly simple. Once you realize you’re in a conversation with this type of girl, you HAVE to shift tactics. In other words, you have to be willing to try out different routines which will get her to talk and have fun.

#2- Treat her with respect

Probably from the beginning of this article you’ve thought I’m an arrogant jerk from what I’ve written. However before you run out and compose a hate letter to me, let me explain something.

Even if you’re dealing with the dumbest woman in the world, she STILL needs to be treated with respect. If you’re talking to an unintelligent girl, you have to remember that she’s still a person. Nobody deserves to mocked or ridiculed.

#3- Fit her style

From my own experience, the way to get along with somebody and build rapport is to talk about the things THEY like. When you’re in a conversation with an unintelligent woman, it’s better if you focus on the type of conversation SHE wants to discuss. If you bring up challenging topics, you’ll end up boring her.

In a social setting, the best conversations are lighthearted and fun. So don’t be boring. Instead show the energetic and interesting side of your personality. If you show her a good time, then she’ll be more receptive to your advances.

#4- Control the interaction

The best way to pick up an attractive, but dumb girl is to be in COMPLETE control of the interaction. I know this sounds brutal, but some woman have NO attention spans. If she sees a “brighter, shinier” guy, then you’ll be met with failure.

As a result, it’s absolutely vital that you control the conversation and lead it towards topics which demonstrate your high status.

What’s interesting is you should STILL do all the routines and techniques for building attraction. But when you’re talking to an unintelligent woman, it’s REALLY important to increase the intensity of these routines.

#5- Build Attraction

There is one final thing you have to remember: Dumber girls STILL have a bit of social intelligence. In other words, they won’t be attracted to you unless you can prove your worthiness.

So if you want to successfully “pick up” this woman, you have to understand how attraction works. Primarily, ALL women are attracted to guys who can demonstrate:

• Confidence

• Social value

• Initiative

• Excitement

• Energy

• Leadership

If you want an attractive woman to find you interesting you MUST learn how to display these qualities during every interaction. When you demonstrate these traits, you’ll show that you’re a high status guy.

Remember that unintelligent women STILL have the same desires and dreams as the rest of us. If you can show that you’re an interesting guy, WITHOUT insulting her intelligence you’ll dramatically increase your chances of success!

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com