People are forever asking me how to figure out how to read women’s minds to find out what they really want, what they desire from a man.

Now, what most people do is try to figure it out by guessing. They’ll have watched a few cheesy commercials where a dashing young man runs after a beautiful woman (who has recently sprayed herself with an expensive new perfume being marketed by the ad), grabs her by the arm and thrusts a load of freshly purloined flowers under her nose.

Now in real life, if you ran up to a woman in a city street and unexpectedly grabbed her by the arm, the least you’d expect to get would be a kick in the nether regions and a spot of pepper spray in the face.

However, in the wonderful world of advertising the woman in the advert turns to her assailant, swoons, smiles and wanders off with him into the sunset. Ahhh.

OK, I’ll rein my sarcasm in for a second. But seriously, many men I know will try gifts of flowers, chocolates, theater tickets, offers of romantic breaks to get their intended female to like them.
All very nice. All very expensive. All not very effective.

I have a very effective way of getting a woman to like me that doesn’t cost any money, and is supremely effective. And longer lasting than any scent on a daft commercial.

What is this magic of which I speak? It’s called self-referencing and it is really easy and very, very effective.

All you need to do is ask a question that will help you find out what your intended lady considers to be attractive and then associate yourself to all the good things she says.

How can you do this without causing suspicion? I’ll explain all in Part 2.

By: Peter France

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Unfaithfulness is just like a plague that ruined many relationships and infected so many committed women and men for generations. Infidelity is traditionally committed by men. But nowadays, there are wives and girlfriends who are having unlawful affair.

When trying to hide a big secret, such as hiding her illicit relationship from a significant other, your girlfriend can be very shrewd. Sometimes, even her very best friend does not even notice what’s happening to her. However, even the smartest woman can leave signs of unusual activity. You just need to learn and determine the signs of a cheating girlfriend.

If you are planning to find out whether your girlfriend is two-timing you, then you need to be sensitive and observant enough to what is going on around you. You have to be familiar of these telltale signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you:

1. Disinterest in the things you liked doing together before.

2. All of a sudden, her gas mileage and monthly expenses increase.

3. Unexplained flaunting of guilt.

- She starts to avoid you by not calling you or not being with you in an event that you used to enjoy so much.

- She looks nervous when being questioned about her activities on that day.

- She charges you of being niggling and controlling.

- She may even accuse you of cheating on her to justify her infidelity.

4. Looks and dresses differently

- She spends much on new clothes and cosmetics than usual.

- She suddenly becomes conscious of her weight as well as her hairstyle.

- She is worried with how she smells.

- She totally changed her nail polish, perfume, type of clothing like from conservative to revealing clothes.

- She starts wearing sexy clothes and lingerie

5. Increased night out and overtime

- She often spends extra time for work even during Sundays, but it doesn’t show in her paycheck.

- She is now spending more night out with her “friends” than with you.

6.Sudden change in Behavior

- She becomes mean to you particularly in public

- She gets nasty and makes fun of you.

- She will start unusual conversations.

- She begins to act like a teenager.

7. Loss of Intimacy

- She no longer kisses you or holds your hand especially in public.

- She isn’t as romantic and as affectionate as before.

8. Uses internet and phone more frequent than what she used to.

- She conceals several calls and deletes all the messages in her cell phone.

- She tries to hide conversations.

- She does not allow you to use or look at her cell phone.

- Her cell phone is non-reachable

If you found out that your partner is showing some of the signs of a cheating girlfriend, then better be wary. Start gathering more proof and clues. Do not confront or ask your girlfriend about her unfaithfulness unless you are really certain about it. Be sure that you have all the proof before accusing her of infidelity. Maybe, she’s just going through some changes in her personal and social life and you’re just not aware of it.

One good thing you can do when you found out that there’s something wrong is to think about your relationship. Through the years that you’ve been together, have you been an ideal partner? Did you try hard to make her happy? Are you aware of her emotions as well as her needs? Analyze what’s wrong about your relationship and if you still wish to continue, talk to your girlfriend and find ways on how you can revive the warmth of your relationship.

By: Albert Lee

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It is a dream of every man who is an eligible bachelor to seduce women. It can be a complicated task of seducing women if you do not follow some basics. People who have gained popularity for being womanizers have vouched for the fact that woman can be seduced if you follow a step by step process.

Here are few tips as a step by step process to seduce women

• Ensure that you carry yourself in the best way possible. More often than not, your attitude and your attire would be the biggest winner in this deal.

• Do not interrupt the person when she is talking. It is human tendency to feel upset when he or she is interrupted while talking. Allow her to talk and make her point completely and then you can make your point.

• Most importantly, you could do well to present the woman with gifts if you can. Please note that you would need to understand the mentality of the woman. In some cases, the woman would not want to get gifts.

• Remember, seduction is never by force. A woman would get seduced only if she wants to. A woman gets seduced by a man’s characteristics and personal traits. That is why it is so important that a man carries himself in a dignified manner. Should you go to a freaked out place like discotheques, bars and aiming to seduce women, you can do that by maintaining poise and calm.

By: Soli Katir

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A woman’s eyes can reveal a LOT about her personality. And this is especially true when it shows her levels of attraction.

The truth is women DO display specific body language cues through their eyes which indicate when they find a guy attractive. The trick is being able to detect these signals and interpret their meaning. When you know you’re being given specific “attraction signals”, you can use this information to increase your chances of success with women.

In this article, I’m going to reveal four of the most common eye contact signals you can receive from a woman and what they mean. Let’s get started…

#1- The Vertical Look

The Vertical Look is the classic “checking you out” signal. This is when a woman will give look at your face then literally run her eyes up and down your body. It’s VERY similar to the look that guys give when we notice an attractive girl (Except they’re more subtle about it)

The idea behind The Vertical Scan is that this woman saw something she liked about your face and wanted to “find out more” about you. That’s why she gives a look from your face all the way down your body. When you get a look like this, you know that she is at LEAST somewhat attracted you. So you can use this look to initiate a conversation.

#2- The Approach Look

There are some LUCKY moments when you’ll receive a direct look from a woman. Usually when you receive ‘The Approach Look’ from a woman, you’re being given a signal which shows she wants to be approached.

It’s a simple look. Whenever you’re scanning a room, if a woman holds eye contact with you or smiles at your glance, then you’re being given a subtle invitation to walk over and talk to her. So obviously whenever you see this sign you should use it to approach a woman.

#3- The ‘I Like You’ Look

Now when you’re talking to a woman, you’ll experience some moments when her eyes will reveal high levels of attraction. The first of them is when you’ll see that she has pupil dilation.

What’s interesting is all human beings have an unconscious reflex to dilate their pupils whenever we’re talking to a persona we find attractive. This means when you’re in a conversation and you notice that her pupil (the black center of her eye) is dilated then you know that she’s attracted to you.

So when you get a sign like this, then you know that your attraction building techniques are working.

#4- The ‘Kiss Me’ Look

Now the final eye contact signal you’ll receive from a woman is when she wants to be kissed. During certain moments of a conversation a woman will look directly at you and send a clear indicator that she wants you to initiate a kiss.

Here’s how it works. During a conversation, you might notice that a woman will look directly into your eyes, then down to your lips. In fact, she might give this look a few times.

When you receive this signal, immediately take action. Just KISS her. Yes, it’s that simple. Since she has sent you signals, then it’s important to take advantage of this opportunity!

Making (and interpreting) eye contact with a woman is a great way to detect her attraction signals. When you know you’re being given clear indicators of interest, then it’ll become easy to increase your success!

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com

It’s probably the dream fantasy for ALL guys…
You have an attractive woman in your life whose only there for sex. When you get bored, you can make ONE phone call and a willing partner will show up at your doorstep.
The best part is the sex comes with “no strings attached”. You can get it without being in a relationship or showing any level of commitment.

Sound like a dream come true? Well like I said, lots of guys fantasize about finding a woman like this, but they have no clue about how to locate her.

Whether it’s called “friends with benefits” or a “booty call”, there will be times in your life when you want a woman for just ONE thing. Now there are a LOT of positives of being in a committed relationship. But sometimes there will be moments when you want a woman who is there just for sex.

The question is: How can I find a “friend with benefits”?

Well in this article, I’ll reveal my simple plan for locating a woman like this. If you follow this five step system, you’ll increase your chances of locating this type of woman.

Step 1- Find a suitable woman

You might think that only “promiscuous” girls have casual sex. The truth is MOST women go through phases in their lives when they’re not looking for a boyfriend. During this period all they want to do is have FUN.

Your goal is simple. When you’re out meeting women, look for the ones who openly talk about devoting time to their careers or how they’re not looking for boyfriends. Obviously the girls who are NOT looking for a relationship will make a great “friend with benefits”.

Step 2- Openly discuss sex

If you’re looking for a temporary thing, you want to focus on the girls who show an indication that they don’t want a commitment. When you’re talking to them, you want to display an open sexuality about your personality.

This means engaging women in conversations which concentrate on sexual topics and playfully bantering with them. However you want to avoid being perceived as a “creep”. So when I say sexual, I don’t mean you should make “perverted” comments about her. Instead simply bring up the topic in a non-specific manner.

Step 3- Build attraction

No woman will jump in the sack with you unless she finds you attractive. So when you discuss sex, make sure you’re talking to her in a flirtatious manner which she’ll find attractive.

The only way this plan will work is if she is attracted to you. As a result, it’s important that you know how to create that spark of chemistry. So don’t act like her buddy, instead behave like a guy who can trigger her emotional and sexual desire.

Step 4- Set boundaries

When a woman meets a guy for the fist time, she’ll place him in two categories: Boyfriend or Not-Boyfriend material.

You probably think being placed in the boyfriend category is a good thing. However this is not the case. Women typically hold off on having sex with guys they consider “boyfriend material”.

Your goal is to be perceived as a fun guy, but NOT a guy she’d want as a boyfriend. This will easily increase your chances of having a sexual relationship with her.

The important thing is always emphasize your sexuality, but never act like a boyfriend. One way to do this is SPECIFALLY mention that you’re not looking for a girlfriend.

By acting in this manner, you’ll set a clear boundary that indicates the nature of your relationship. You’re basically telling this woman that you enjoy her company, but you’re both free to pursue OTHER relationships.

Step 5- Keep it Casual

If everything goes right, you’ll develop a pattern where you’re steadily having sex with a woman. While this is great thing for many guys, there are a few pitfalls which can complicate your life.

In order to have a stress-free “friend with benefits” relationship you should make sure that you NEVER develop a girlfriend/boyfriend dynamic. So here are a few simple rules for keeping things casual:

* Reinforce your boundaries while treating her with RESPECT

* Understand that she’s probably dating other men

* Only “hang out” once or twice a week

* Don’t demonstrate classic “courting” signals

* Never hurt her feelings by flaunting other relationships in your life

* Make it worth her time by being an exciting AND interesting guy

A “friend with benefits” can be a fun experience. If you know how to find her and create the right kind of dynamic, then you’ll have “no strings attached” sex.

Simply follow the five step plan I discussed in this article, and you’ll discover it’s actually quite easy to discover a woman like this!

By: Chick Magnet 101

Scott Patterson can help YOU meet, attract and seduce ANY woman! In his free resource, Attraction Mastery, Scott provides over 50 TIPS you can use to get instant results with girls. To claim your free copy of this incredible resource, visit his site right now: www.ChickMagnet101.com