Finding a person online that intrigues you enough to pursue an online relationship is difficult. Once you have found that person you need to revisit the age old issues of developing that relationship. In many respects, some may say that online relationships are easier then in person relationships. But, in reality it is pretty much the same, just a little bit more removed. Dating tips are essentially the same, but they are a little more subtle then if you are face-to-face.

Safety

Even if the person sounds fantastic online you must be aware that there are some people out there that are being all you want them to be, but with ulterior motives. The very first piece of online dating advise is to not to give the person on the other end any numbers like telephone or PIN numbers regardless of how good they sound.

Be honest with yourself

Relationship advice is always a bit suspect because we are all a bit different. Dating advice from one person to another only reflects that one person giving the dating advice and not necessarily how it applies to you. Always take advice on dating and apply it, with modification, to who you are. Don’t fudge about who you truly are, it will only come back to haunt you later on.

Slow and steady

One dating tip for a quality online relationship is to take it slow. Some might more aptly call this dating tip the restriction of to-much-information (TMI.) You do not need to have an online relationship develop 100 percent in one or two weeks. Let the personal information out slowly. A little mystery will go a long way to building the relationship.

Inflection

This particular piece of online dating advice is one item that requires a bit of work. Voice inflection when online is lost. Inflection is one of those things that we really take for granted. Quite a bit of meaning is lost without it. If you are sarcastic (like me) you can quickly lose somebody on the other end if they don’t know how the words are intended. This is one of the reasons that the LOL and smile face type notations have come about. The problem is, many people find these notations a bit “cutesy.” The online dating advice here is to use words to explain your inflection rather then symbols. So, if sarcastic, simply insert (sarcasm) into the text or use uppercase (OH BOY!!!) for very happy or (OH BOY) for can you believe what he did.

Conversation

Most people say that the art of conversation is dead. In a certain sense this also applies to online dating. Using text abbreviations and assumptions make online relationship building even more impersonal then it already is. This particular piece of online dating advice could be applied to regular relationship building as well. Use simple but descriptive whole worlds to describe what you are discussing. The right word will say quite a bit about who you are. For example: I like kayaking because of the way the paddle slips into the calm water works better then paddling is relaxing. You will come off as a bit more refined rather then just another person online.

Don’t impose

This is perhaps the hardest piece of advice for dating online to get used to. It is so easy to use a word that imposes a thought, belief or need onto another person without even knowing that you are doing it. If there is one thing that will stop an online relationship dead in its tracks it is imposing yourself on another. Once your online relationship progresses a bit you may loosen up a bit with this piece of relationship advice but until then always defer to the other person in the way you phrase a sentence. Make sure you make it known how you feel, but be sure that the wording reflects the other person’s ability to disagree or agree.

Be positive

Nobody likes a “gloomy Gus” when they get online. They really don’t want to be in an ongoing relationship with such a person, unless they happen to be a gloomy Gus. Stay up beat when you are writing with your online friend. Sure, everybody has their down days, and that is fine to share. It shows that you are becoming comfortable with that person. If there starts to be a pattern, however, you may want to assess what is going on with yourself personally or with a friend but there is really no need to share it online. If your assessment leads to a life change for the better…well, that is a great thing to share. Relationship advice or not, good news is a turn on for most.

Be open ended

Just about everybody has heard the phrase “leave them wanting more.” This holds true for online dating. You might think about your daily online conversations or your longer term relationships as a multi-course dinner. Always leave the person salivating for the next course. One of the better ways to do this is ask a question or two that requires a little thought or research. This will let them have something to bring to the table for your next conversation. This would also apply to you. Indicate that you will look into something and let them know what you find the next time you write.

Meeting for the first time

The big piece of online dating advice here is to meet in a busy place. All the online chat in the world won’t substitute for the first meeting and a true assessment. Try to stay relaxed. Listen, but be able to carry the conversation. Stick to areas where you can find help quickly. Call me a bit of a cynic but safety first.

Most importantly be yourself

How many times have you heard that one? Fortunately or not, the statement does ring particularly true for online relationships. A certain amount of “you” will seep into the online relationship whether you like it or not but try for being true to yourself all the time. Faking who you are will doom the relationship, unless you really didn’t want an online relationship in the first place. If you swear quite a bit in life, go for it (just use symbols so as to not offend to much.), if you happen to be one of those folks that dots their “I’s” with a heart go for that as well. Be who you are and the need for online relationship advice will go away fairly fast.

By: Roberto Bell

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Before you even think about asking a woman on a date, you need to find out what kinds of things are fun for women. Many men think the only activities women enjoy are shopping and talking on the phone, but there is an entire world of fun for women that don’t include either of those. Before you ask that special woman to spend time with you, spend some time getting know what kind of activities she will like. You can find subtle clues by simply paying attention. If you look closely, finding clues is as simple as looking closely at photos or awards on her desk or in her office.

Contrary to popular belief, there is a wide variety of activities that don’t involve shopping that are fun for women. If the woman you have your eye on loves the great outdoors, pack a picnic and opt for a day in the sun hiking or rock climbing. Finding an activity that is specific to your date will definitely score points with your lady of interest, and maybe even increase chances for a prolonged good night kiss. Finding activities that are fun for women shows that you care and have taken the time to get to know her.

Don’t assume that because your potential date has a hot body that she’s a work out fanatic and plan an outdoorsy date. Or don’t assume that because she likes sports, means she will enjoy a day of bowling. This is a surefire way to guarantee your date has zero fun. Listen to the things she raves about and be sure to actually listen and ask if you have questions about what she really likes or doesn’t. If you’re looking for clues for what’s fun for women, consider these helpful hints;

- If your dream girl’s nails look well-manicured, she’s an indoor kind of girl
- If your potential date brings a gym bag to work, she might enjoy a hiking date or something adventurous
- If you always spot your girl buried in a book, try a book or poetry reading date
- If your date is constantly glued to her IPod, a concert is the way to go

Finding activities that are fun for women isn’t so hard, as long as you know what to look for. Before you ask for the date, check with female friends about what kinds of date activities are fun for women and in casual conversation ask your date what she finds fun. Planning a fun date can easily be more than just dinner and a movie. If you really want to impress your date you have to make it memorable. Think about additional ways to make it special, not just the places you go as well. Indoor rock climbing or rollerblading on the beach are activities that are not fun for all women. Try really concentrating on their interests and not only will it show you care about them as a person; it will also increase the chances of a second date!

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A lot of people playing the dating game will ask me this question over and over again. “Where Do I Meet Women?” Many people’s usual response is single’s bars and clubs. The people who usually ask me this already know of those places and those places aren’t really their scene. So, when a man is faced with this dilemma, I usually give him this piece of advice.

Just about anywhere! That’s right, you don’t have to limit yourself to singles bars and nightclubs to get your dose of dating. Location is not really that important. Sure, those singles bars and clubs will have more available women, but those places usually have much more fierce competition if your pick up skills are not up to par. It is these skills you must practice and master before you break out of the idea that bars and clubs are the only place to meet women. It is these skills that are your real assets.

How do I master these skills? Just like anything else. You have to practice at them before you master them. Sometimes that takes a lot of trial and error. Be prepared for this. Approach women and start a conversation. Don’t be afraid to get rejected. It is these rejections that will improve your approach and finally break you out of the location restrictions that are holding you back.

Bars and clubs are good places to practice. When you start out, go to those places as a way of practicing or honing your pick up skills. Be sure to try new things. Never stop learning. It is these skills that are the key to picking up women, not the location you are in. You can see what responses you get from your pick up maneuvers in these places.

As far as other places, as I said, anywhere you find a woman that attracts you is a great opportunity to say something new. A few choice places are places that YOU have an interest in. Enjoy sports? How about your local Gym or YMCA? These places have women that share the same interest. Restaurants, parks, and other public places. I have even heard of men that pick up women at the grocery store!

Now, once you have found a good place to find and approach women, hang out there on a semi-frequent basis. Do not be a lurker! These men are the ones who give off the creepy vibe. Trust me, women can see these men a mile away. They are the men at the grocery store who have been there for two hours and don’t have a single item in their basket. It is best to be natural. Actually enjoy yourself at these places and women will be more receptive to what you have to say instead of putting up their defensive gates.

The key is not where you approach women, it is how you approach women. Every time you approach a woman, study the responses you get. Then, after awhile, adjust your responses from past results. Eventually you will see that women can be met anywhere. They real golden ticket is attracting them once you find them.

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About every man wanted to be more successful dealing with woman. But most of the men, when it comes to woman, they probably make some mistakes that make them fail. There are five big common mistakes that most man do and make them fail with woman. Here are the five mistakes and how to avoid it:

The first mistake is being too much of a nice guy. Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted “nice” guys? Here is the reason; Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose a man because they feel a powerful gut level attraction for them. Being nice guy doesn’t make a woman feel that powerful attraction. And if you don’t have a powerful attraction, woman won’t choose you.

The second mistake is trying to convince her to like you. When a guy meets a woman that they really like (but she’s just not interested) most guys try to “convince” the woman to feel differently. But here is the fact “You will never change how a woman feels when it comes to attraction!” Never. Sometimes, when a woman just not interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. And guess what? That will never work.

The third mistake is looking to her for approval or permission. In our desire to please women (which we mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys are always doing things to get a woman’s “approval” or “permission”. But here is the fact “Women are never attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them”. I don’t mean you have to treat women badly for them to like you, but you will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get annoyed at men who seek their approval.

The fourth mistake is trying to “buy” her affection with food and gifts. When you take a woman out for a nice dinner, bought her gifts and flowers these things, you send a clear message: “I don’t think you’ll like me for who I am, so I’m going to try to buy your attention and affection”. Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. And woman don’t attracted to a man like this.

The fifth mistake is sharing “how you feel” too early in the relationship with her. Attractive women are rare and they get a lot of attention from men. They are being approached in one way or another all the time. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you’re just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast and can’t control themselves.

By: Ricko

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You may never have thought you’d see the day, but it’s finally here. You’ve decided to throw away your bachelor hood and make the big jump to life as a married man. Deciding your going to ask your girlfriend to marry you is an exciting time in your life and is undoubtedly filling you tons of stress an emotion. (Believe is or not, we are aware that every now and then you get emotional.) You most likely have a list of questions ranging from what kind of ring to buy, to where to propose to her. While most of these answers are based solely your relationship and the women you love, there are a few guidelines that can help you find the answers and make your proposal something she’ll remember and cherish for a lifetime.

1. Talk to Her:

We all know that engagements are something that are should be a surprise event in a women’s life but it shouldn’t be something she never would expect. It’s important to talk to your girlfriend about marriage before you get down on one knee with a ring in hand. Talking about marriage will give you the chance to show her you are prepared for this next venture in your relationship. It will also help you decide if she is ready to make this huge commitment to you. If she’s less than interested or runs for the hills when you bring up the topic of marriage, you may want to hold off a bit.

2. Window Shop:

If you’ve talked about marriage and your girlfriend is as excited as you are, then you should start to check out the local jewelry stores. Women are often picky about the jewelry they wear and looking around with your girlfriend on your arm will make sure you get a feel for what type of ring she prefers. You will need to find out what style ring she likes, what type of diamond cut she prefers, and whether she likes gold, white gold, or silver. Some women even like to design their own ring, so make sure to take a few trips to the jewelry store so she can more or less pick out a ring she likes.

3. Be Creative:

Sure, you can have the waiter slip the ring into her dessert after dinner, or you can propose to her on valentines day, but those methods are so used and abuse it’s like taking the easy way out. When you propose to your girlfriend you will want to do something that shows you put a lot of thought into the situation. Don’t forget…she will remember that day for years to come and will be telling the story over and over. Don’t let her story be one that was already written and told. Think about places, songs, events, and other things that helped to bond you as a couple. Use the past to help you prepare for the future. It’s also helpful to remember that being creative doesn’t need to be expensive, so use your imagination and see where it takes you.

4. Keep Some Tradition:

Even though you may not be the conventional couple, every girl likes a little tradition deep down. What does that mean for you? You definitely should speak to her parents first. It may seem “old school” and unnecessary, but they will be your in-laws and they will see you asking for their daughters hand as a respectful gesture. If her parents see you are willing to speak to them they will be more likely to find you a suitable match for their daughter. When it comes to the actual proposal, please if it’s possible, get down on your knee. Many women wait for the day a man takes a knee and she will appreciate the adherence to tradition.

By: Jen Wasilewski

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