So you think a woman in your office is hot? Not sure if you can ask her out? Well I must admit that there in lies a lot of trouble my friend so be prepared. But like all problems, a solution can be found to the eternal dilemma of dating in the workplace.

If you read other advice columns, dating in the workplace is a big no-no. Let me tell you why. Workplace romance can greatly endanger your professional reputation. Imagine going out with a girl from work and it doesn’t work out? The whole office will probably know about it. You’d have to deal with them every day. And what’s more, you’d have to stand your ex every single time you walk through the office door. Imagine the awkwardness that you will constantly feel.

If you are dating a superior, there will also be these rumors that you have your own agenda and are only using the boss to your advantage. If you’re dating a subordinate on the other hand, you can’t be sure if the attraction is genuine or if what you’re getting is mere deference.

More serious than that is the fact that some companies actually include not having a romantic relationship with a colleague part of their company policy. Dating someone could result to serious reprimands even job termination. That’s putting a lot on the line buddy.

But if you are serious about dating in the workplace, then there are a few reminders that you can keep in mind.

Try keeping it secret from everybody else in the office. This way, there will be no pressure of gossips from your rumor-hungry colleagues. Especially if you just started dating, it will greatly protect your and your date’s reputation. You won’t have to feel like you’re being judged every time (a very common reaction trust me). Just keep it a secret for a while.

Also give your woman time to breathe. I mean this in the sense that you are together almost all the time. In these kinds of relationships, it would do well to have regular breaks from each other as opposed to ones where you don’t see each other often. Being together could take its toll on your relationship so make sure you avoid that.

Also be careful of having sexual encounters inside the office! Stay professional. The urge may be overwhelming I know but you’re only risking yourself. Business is for business. You can have all the pleasure outside. Don’t act like lovers when in the workplace. It demeans your professionalism. If you show that you can stay professional despite having an office affair, then it tells a lot about your dedication to your career. Once people know that, then they won’t mind you dating a co-worker that much anymore. Besides getting caught having sex in the office could most certainly get you fired.
So there. Like all dating relationships, dating in the workplace requires a lot of effort, probably more so. The risks are great but if you do it right, then the rewards will be greater.
Just remember that workplace dating may just be the riskiest form of dating. To your best interest, you could look for women outside the office. There’s a lot of them out there, women who won’t wave an impending doom over your career. Or if you can’t find anyone, you could always try online dating sites. Online dating services have great potential nowadays. Just a word of advice…as if that whole article wasn’t one!

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You may have read or heard from your friends about ways to pick up girls. It doesn’t always sound easy, though some guys make it look like it is. How does it work? How to make a girl fall in love with you? Well, if you haven’t had any luck you had better read on.

For some getting a girl of their dreams is like getting the car of their dreams. While the analogy may seem to work the process is in no way similar. You can’t bargain or haggle, she is a human being! If you are in love you’ll find that only the words that come from your heart can work – ordinary words stand no chance. Also you need to be big and strong-hearted. Whether you yourself are big or strong doesn’t necessarily have a bearing at all. A faint heart is always going to get you nowhere in your search for love.

Let’s take it easy and slow. What is the first step? Making an impression, right? The first step in any exercise of romance is making the best possible first impression. If this fails then you’ve possibly had it with that girl – unless you can afford plastic surgery or something. So what can you do to make a good first impression? Should you worry about it a lot? After all, you now know how important it is. Okay, don’t sweat. This is not Mission Impossible. You’ve seen guys and their ways to pick up girls. You may notice that not all of them are proper Toms. As in its not necessary for you to talk, dress, and act in a loud and brash manner to get a decent girl’s attention.

You need to know how to make a girl fall in love with you. Try being unique, it’s not that hard seeing how every human being is unique. Here are some pointers to go along with the uniqueness thing:

* Dress decently. Don’t dress in such a way as to look arrogant. Don’t become a wallflower either. Be a man of taste.
* Mind you language in front of her. Don’t be obscene. You’ll just end up looking churlish, immature and cheap. Be a man of culture.
* Avoid bad habits like smoking and excessive drinking. You’ll just look like a loser.

Take it easy. Don’t rush things and try to respect her as a human being. Romance will happen for sure then. Good luck!

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Every guy has wondered why a woman has not called them back whether they had been on a date with the woman or whether they had just met her the night before. Let me start of by saying if you met a woman at a night club and she was intoxicated that more than likely she won’t even remember who you are. Don’t take it to heart because think about how many guys would approach them and ask for her number?

Then WHY on earth would a woman give you their details if they were not going to call back? That is the simple part and women will give their details out to look “better” and significant in front of all their friends. Women will give you their number so you leave them the hell alone.

A lot of men seem to fail after the first meeting with the woman, they never message them back or they do and the woman says I am busy and show no interest at all what so ever. There was a reason they went out with you otherwise they would not have even wasted their time. The reason they did not call back is because you did not push those buttons inside of a woman to create the attraction. Most men convey too much interest too early on and talk about boring subjects. Also most men take a woman on a DATE after meeting them at a club or at a social even. Do not do this please it will safe you the awkwardness and pressure.

Most men fail to go out and know why they are going out with the woman. To have FUN and enjoy themselves, women don’t want a serious guy straight away they are not comfortable with you. This is the mistake that all men make they try to impress the woman with everything that they have and do in their life instead of focusing on the woman. It is not about you guys when you ask a woman out to meet you.

Women get extremely frustrated when they go out and meet a guy and all they talk about is work, what they are studying, BORING topics. You cannot bore a woman into feeling attraction for you it simply won’t work. You must create that attraction straight away with the woman. I have seen it over and over again women going out with men and not enjoying themselves and men trying to be someone who they are not. If you want to know the best way for her to call you back and message you straight after the encounter you had with her then go out to have fun, enjoy yourself. Don’t be too serious too early on in the starting stages of the relationship because you are only going to hurt yourself.

Don’t get upset if a woman does not call you back, MOVE ON. There are plenty of woman out there more than you could ever handle in a lifetime. So don’t be surprised if you meet a woman out at a club and you get her details and she does not call back.

Trying to impress a woman does not work, it shows that you are needy and clingy and most men convey this when they first meet a woman. Don’t brag about your life to a woman because if you want her to put you in that category of “loser men” she just did.

Don’t call a woman 5 times if she does not answer and hope she is going to answer. Call once and leave a message if she does not pick up and leave it at that. If you want to you can send a text message a couple of days after.

Do you call or send a text message? If you call and she does not pick up then it’s a safe bet that she does not remember you, think about it, an attractive woman gives her number out to 15 guys in one night and the chances of her remembering who you are slim depending on where you meet her of course.

Push those buttons inside of a woman and build the attraction and you won’t need to worry about whether or not the woman is going to call you back or message you because it will definitely happen. Make that first meeting fun and enjoyable and build the trust and then there will be no reason for second thought if she is going to call you back or not.

By: Dating Articles

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It’s no secret that modern life is fast-paced and getting faster every day. In this world, relationships—and all the work they require—can easily be seen as inefficient, time-consuming and simply not gratifying enough. For your relationship to have a healthy chance at survival, you must take steps to nurture the simple, loving aspects of your union.

5 actions that are essential for your relationship:

1. Hellos and good-byes

Greeting your partner and saying good-bye are quick and easy to do but often overlooked in the chaos of hectic schedules. A warm, expressive greeting can set the stage for the entire day. An affectionate “good-bye” allows you and your partner to emotionally hold on to loving feelings while separated from each other. You’d be surprised how often couples skip this simple way to book-end their days. It may seem easier to put all your morning energies into catching the 7:15 train and overlook taking the time to stop, make eye contact with your partner and genuinely wish him/her a good day. Don’t fall into this trap.

2. Share the trivialities of life

Think back to a time when your relationship was new. What did you and your partner talk about? Probably anything and everything. The excitement of new love propels us to share even the smallest details of our day. Unfortunately that level of sharing often dwindles as relationships mature and responsibilities mount. Focus on the act of sharing to refuel intimacy. The simple act itself is more important than the specifics of what is shared. So make it a habit to share the trivialities of your day with your partner.

3. Learn to laugh together

Shared laughter is a surefire way to keep the connection with your partner vibrant. When you laugh, you’re tapping into the playful energy that transcends life’s stresses. When you and your partner make each other laugh, this energy feeds intimacy and life becomes a little less daunting. Make time for mutual playfulness and make fun of life’s absurdities —this will help you both cope with stress, develop perspective and achieve a greater sense of togetherness.

4. Communicate through Touch

Touch is a powerful way to communicate affection and foster intimacy. Whether you’re sitting across from each other at the dinner table or next to your partner on the sofa, make the effort to increase the amount you touch one another. Touch also has a calming effect on our bodies, so if you want to create a relaxed, loving atmosphere and make your partner feel special, lean into each other the next time you’re at the movies or watching TV.

5. Show your appreciation

It’s human nature to want to be recognized for the things we do. When you express gratitude, your partner receives the message that you are thankful and are not taking him/her for granted. An atmosphere of appreciation will create positive feelings and deepen your connection. Don’t fall prey to the expectation-mindset, where you start to believe that your partner is supposed to do all the things s/he does and therefore doesn’t need to be thanked for them—this mindset creates a dangerous atmosphere of complacency that erodes intimacy.

These five loving acts don’t take much time and don’t cost a dime—but the payoff is huge. You will be taking steps to protect your marriage or relationship from the fast-paced tempo of life.

By: Richard Nicastro, Ph.D.

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Tonight’s the night! You’ve met a cute girl and she’s coming back to yours. You’ve kissed in the club, had a tangle in the taxi, and now you’re standing outside your apartment, keys in the lock, about to invite her inside.

From here on in it should all be easy. You both plan on ending up in bed together so everything you say, do or drink in the mean time is nothing but a fancy form of foreplay.

But what if you’ve already spoiled things for yourself?

You see, while most men appreciate the importance of grooming themselves before they go out, very few realize that they should also be grooming their home. But if there’s one thing guaranteed to make a woman turn on her stiletto heel and leave, it’s an uninviting apartment.

Let’s start with the basics: no matter how dirty they intend to be with you, girls expect a certain level of cleanliness.

If your bed linen is crusty, crumpled and doesn’t smell like it’s been washed in a while, she’s not going to want to lie down upon it. Make sure that your sheets are clean and your bed is made before you head into town.

Keep your kitchen clean or coffee will seem unappealing. Get your bathroom shining or she won’t feel like freshening up. Crack your windows open to get rid of stale smells, hide your clutter and chuck out bulging bin bags.

Now let’s set the mood.

Be prepared. If you’re going to invite her up for coffee, make sure there’s some in your cupboard. Stock up on female-friendly drinks (girls tend not to go for beer) and ensure you have a selection of snacks and tasty breakfast goods to hand.

Think about mood lighting. The flicker of a scented candle is much more flattering to both of you than the glare of an overhead light. Installing a dimmer switch or investing in some lamps can allow you to change the whole feel of a room with just the flick of a switch.

Select seductive fabrics. Choose cushions and bed linen in velvet, silk and suede (or convincing equivalents). Not only will you seem like a more sensual man for having chosen them, but comfortable fabrics help to relax nervous girls. Also invest in a really comfy bath robe for her to borrow the morning after.

And finally, let’s set the scene. Because while comfort and cleanliness are enough to get a girl into bed, impressing her with your taste and style is always a pleasure – and can be the deciding factor if you choose to ask her back.

Perhaps you’re not in a position to buy a whole new set of furniture, but even men on a budget can create a stylish pad. Give the place a lick of paint, ditch any student-style posters and choose some striking artwork or vintage film posters to frame.

Distinguish between personality and clutter. Fill your shelves with books you do read, films you do watch and music you do listen to, not with things you think she’ll find impressive. Mountains of magazines should be hidden away, but display quirky and unusual items proudly. Your apartment should suggest the man you really are – albeit a slightly less messy version of him.

Nobody can live in a show home all the time, but unless you want her to fake an emergency phone call within minutes of walking through the door, keep your home clean, comfortable and fairly uncluttered and there’s absolutely no reason why you can’t find yourself waking up beside her tomorrow morning.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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