Is your man a bad husband? Are you a bad husband? What constitutes a bad husband? The majority of women complain to their friends about how inept their husband is at this or that, or at how uncaring of un-emotional he is. Are they over-reacting, I often wonder, are they just moaning for moanings sake? I am hoping that this article will help the husbands out there to improve and that it will also help some women to realise that their man actually be better than they first thought.

In my humble opinion trust is one of the biggest factors in any relationship. A husband that is always checking up on his wife, perhaps by reading through her phone messages when she is unaware or by searching through her draws, or by not allowing her to socialise with her friends, is a husband that certainly has issues with trust. One question however that the wife may need to ask, is why has he developed these issues with trust? It could be time for an honest chat about things.

Now it goes without saying that a husband who is a wife beater or who rapes his wife, would be classed as a bad husband, however for the purpose of this exercise I am going to be concentrating on your more average husband!

A husband needs to make his wife feel like a million dollars, when she is down and depressed he should listen and support her. A wife who feels loved is normally a happy wife. I often here men who say that they find it impossible to show their wife any form of love or affection as the woman in question gives them no reason to.

A husband needs to be able to communicate to his wife. In the example above the man should be explaining to his wife that he wants to show her more love but that there are a number of reasons as to why he is unable to. Lets face it guys, women love to chat and have these in depth discussions.

A bad husband is the type of man who is unable to say sorry even though it is obvious he is in the wrong. Come on people, it such a little word which can go a long way to putting things right - flowers do not always work.

A bad husband is the type of man who goes out drinking alcohol most evenings or who shows no care for his kids.

A bad husband is somebody who would rather go on holiday with his friends than his family.

By: blueboy

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