As I sit here and prepare to write, I already know this is going to be a controversial article, but what is life without a little bit of controversy? During a lifetime, many people wonder why a lot of their relationships don’t work out long-term. They gave their all, and put their heart and soul into it, just to wind up all alone, exhausted, and having to start all over yet again. The truth of the matter is that’s how it’s supposed to be, because 99 percent of all relationships will fail. However… they all will succeed.

I can only imagine the look on your face as you read that. Yes, 99 percent of all relationships fail…. By me stating that doesn’t mean that I am shallow and don’t think a relationship can work, because it can, but the question is… For how long?

Relationships are not designed to be a lifetime love nest where you live happily ever after. They are designed to teach you something. In the process of learning, love may come, love may stay, and love may go. But regardless of how it turns out, the odds are already stacked against you. When you meet someone, there’s a 99 percent that the relationship will fail.

Think back to that first love. For some, those were good memories. Now my question is: Where is that person now? Let’s be honest. How many people do you know that is with the very first person they fell in love with? Most people have been with quite a few people since then. However, there are the few who are still with that same person, which leaves me to my previous question: For how long? There have been many people who have been married for over 25 years and yes, that is a special thing, but that doesn’t mean that they were meant be together. It could mean that over the years, they just got used to one another and just accepted the things for what they were. If that’s the case, that relationship is not a success. Neither one of them are really happy, they just conformed to something they accepted. There are also been people who’ve been married over 25 years, and divorced. But on the flip side, there is that 1 percent of those who are happy and deeply in love, and will live happily ever after.

When you are older, you are usually tired of the games and are ready to settle down and meet that special someone, but that’s not going to always happen. You go on date after date and wonder why you haven’t met “the one” and start to wonder if something is wrong with you. That’s when the prayers to God start to happen. And it will seem, the more you pray, the more failures you have.

If you are in a bad relationship now, ask yourself why? How long have you been in the relationship? Lastly, why are you still there? If someone else asks you this, and when you answer and get the “deer in the headlight” look, it’s usually because your answers only make sense to you and no one else. You are trying to make something work that’s not supposed to work.

Every person that you meet and establish a relationship with is not someone you should be with for the long-term. Every person comes into your lives for a particular reason. The problem arises when you try to take that temporary person and make him or her permanent. One person you come in contact with only purpose may be just to teach you one thing and when you are taught, his job is done. However, a problem occurs you keep him around and go through unnecessary pain and stress because now you don’t want to let him go realizing you have developed that damn thing called love, but not realizing you will meet other people who will teach you other things. Some will teach you how to love, how to feel pain, how to recover, and how to be strong, just to name a few. You will also meet people who are not meant for you, but are meant for your child, your friend, or some other loved one. Regardless of the reason, everyone has their own special purpose in your life, but you alter it when you ignore all the negative signs, and try to make it more than what it is meant to be.

Life will take you though many twists and turns. On some of those turns, you should go left instead of right, which will take you down a different path that may not have been intended for you at that moment. But, regardless of where it leads you, it will definitely lead you to a relationship. And, 99 percent of the time, the relationship will fail, but… the purpose of the relationship will always succeed.

By: Darnell E. Patton

In today’s society, it is not uncommon for you to date a single mom at some time in your life. This can be a problem for some men. They may not want to date someone that has children.

However, this cannot be controlled if they feel a special bond to them. The one thing to remember is that you are dating the person and the role of the person. A woman will want to be noticed and appreciated for every one of her qualities and not judged by a role that she is in.

Sometimes having children was not a situation that she wanted to be in but just one that happened and now it is her responsibility.

1) Exploring the Relationship

If you really like a woman and you want to go on and explore the relationship further, you will have to concentrate on the one on one part first. There will be a time and place to meet her child or children later on in the relationship.

It is first going to about getting to know her better and learn how to start trust each other. You need to move past the fact that she is a mom and worry about that a little bit later on. First, see where the relationship is going and what you are both feeling.

2) Accept the children’s needs

You will eventually have to realize and accept that the children’s needs are a going to be a priority at times. She does not really want to cancel an important date with you but if her child is sick or she cannot get a babysitter this is something that you have to deal with.

As a man, you will have to come to the realization that her children come first and they are the most important part of her life. You need to be prepared for any last minute changes or cancellations that can happen because she has other obligations at home.

Do not take it out on her when she does have to cancel for these reasons. It is not her fault or the fault of the child. It happens and it is best to be flexible and understanding when these things come up.

You need to make sure that you do not give her the guilt trip when she has to cancel plans or if something would come up. You need to make sure that give her a change to explain and make other arrangements for a next time.

3) Meet the children on her terms

When it does come time to meet her children, you have to do it on her terms and her schedule. Make sure that you are putting yourself in the shoes of the children for a minute. They have probably had a hard time with the separation of their parents.

This is usually a hard time to see his or her mom go out with someone else. You need to be patient and understanding. Try to be their friend but do not push them or expect too much at all. You have to be able to accept them for who they are and how they feel.

Give it time and you will see that things should work themselves out and everyone will get along eventually.

4) Never expect too much

You should not expect to be welcomed in by her children or other family members right away. You need to be patient and have understanding about what is going on. This is going to be a difficult transaction and one that needs to be dealt with care and devotion.

Having a good method of understanding with everyone is going to be the best way to get through this time. You cannot push anyone to like you and never act cocky or arrogant in any way.

Having common sense. Think about how you would feel if you were put in the same situation. You want to make sure that you are giving everyone space and time. Never push a woman into making her kids do something or giving her a guilt trip when she cannot go out with you. You do not want to make this a hard situation.

In fact, you can make sure that you are giving her support when it comes to this situation. She will appreciate you more because you are being so supportive and understanding with her and her children.

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We all want to be adored. Wouldn’t it be great to have a gorgeous girl gazing at you lovingly, listening to you with rapt attention, and leaning in for yet another kiss?

Well, you can have.

Getting a woman to fall for you is not as hard as it may seem. It doesn’t require expensive gifts, extravagant gestures or rock hard abs. In fact, all it requires is a little charm and a few good manners – and I’m about to explain exactly how to develop them.

Self-conscious men have a habit of putting women on pedestals. To some extent, this can work in your favor; there’s no better way of getting a girl to like you than showing that you like her. But if you’ve managed to convince yourself that every hot chick you see is too pretty to pay any attention to you, it’s time to do some re-thinking.

Start by reminding yourself that most single girls are looking for love. This means that no matter how you see yourself, she sees you as an available male – and she is not going to reject you unless you give her good reason to.

Remember also that girls are just as nervous as guys are. She might seem like a goddess to you, but when a girl looks in the mirror all she sees are her flaws. She is just as anxious about her appearance and just as nervous about making conversation as any man could be.

Girls want to impress you. They want you to like them. They want to feel sexy. All you need to know is a few simple tricks for getting and keeping their attention.

Start by making sure you look the part. Keep yourself clean and well groomed. Wear smart clothes which suit you. Stand up straight with your shoulders back and your head held high. Take pride in your appearance and develop a confident stance and you will instantly seem more attractive.

Don’t be afraid to approach women. Making eye contact and smiling over at her are a good start but, as very few women are prepared to make the first move, if you want something to happen you’re going to have to go over and introduce yourself. It may seem daunting at first, but remember that chicks find attention flattering – offer her a drink and she will take the time to respond.

When you get talking, listen to what she’s saying and ask leading questions. Girls are so used to men speaking to their chest that if you can maintain eye contact and show an interest in her opinions she will be thrilled to have met you.

When you talk about yourself, be confident without bragging. Don’t boast about your achievements and never bemoan your bad luck. Instead, talk passionately about your hobbies and interests or switch the topic of conversation back to her by paying her genuine compliments.

Do bear in mind that every man she speaks to will be telling her she’s hot. Make your compliments stand out by tailoring them to fit. Admire her quirky outfit, her tinkling laugh or her incredible stories – figure out what’s unique about her, then tell her why it’s great.

Take the time to get to know her properly. If you come on strong early on you may appear to be either needy or sleazy, so don’t put her under sexual pressure. By letting her control the pace you will make her feel respected, appreciated and more able to trust you. And the more she trusts you, the more into you that girl is going to be.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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So you are the knight in shining armor? The problem is, you don’t have a princess to defend with. Let me share you something that is sitting right there, under your nose: “Women are everywhere and the right woman is one you can see strolling at the mall, bookstore, coffee bar, internet dating sites, work, clubs, etc.” Now that you know that you realize that you don’t to be somewhere special to meet the right women, the next thing your should learn is the art of the actually meeting her.

Here are the ways:

First, show confidence! You may not be aware of this but women are shyer then you are. Most women, especially those who are looking for the right man, love to be approached as well. So better get on your knees, approach someone and initiate a good conversation. Easier said that done right? One word my friend: “confidence!” Shaking knees and a mumbling mouth are things you should never have. Opportunity knocks only once so better grab it. If you see someone you like, approach her. With a right timing and proper approach, you will end up seating with her at a coffee bar all the way to a dinner table. Also, women love to see men who bear confidence. While this may not be an overnight success, you can always have your confidence developed. As they say, “right practice makes perfect”, so practice, practice, and practice more. Start at your office and talk to women colleagues. Then initiate a conversation with the waitress at a restaurant or the cashier at the grocery. As you build confidence through casual conversations with people, you let go your shaking knees and mumbling mouth.

Second, master the art of conversation. Now that you have finally had the guts to approach women, you should know how to initiate a conversation. Your first words will really make the difference between a “yes” to a dinner or a something like this: “Hi, what’s your name” and she replies “Hi, I’m leaving”. Pick up lines like, “Gee, that’s a nice set of legs, what time do they open?” or “Am I dead, Angel? Cause this must be heaven!” are something that will definitely end a conversation that hasn’t begun at all. Make good at this by being sincere, being spontaneous, and not sounding so desperate. Again, it takes practice so if your first approach to a woman at the mall is not successful, do not stop trying. A good sense of humor is always a winner to good women so have them on your reserve and take them out when necessary.

An approach and conversation is not enough. You still need the follow up. So the third thing you should do is to know how to keep a woman wanting. A first date can only have a take two if the woman finds that you are interesting so keep her guessing. Do not tell everything about yourself during the first date. Not only you will dominate the whole conversation and piss your date off, you will also have nothing to say on your second date if ever it will happen. Keep her wanting like the “Arabian Nights”.

Most men think that pampering their lady will keep her wanting him. The fact is, it is entirely the exact opposite. Did you ever wonder why many women love “bad boys”? It is because “bad boys” give no regard with women in the way they treat them. Women who are often pampered by men feel that they have the need to get everything they want so they are on a hot pursuit to “bad boys” who keep on playing hard to get.

Finally, meeting the right men does not end up on having the right confidence, knowing the proper way approach, and keeping women wanting because a meeting the right women may not end on a single try. You may have dated a woman and have successfully done all these 3 but still, she does not fit to the definition of “the one” for you. Meeting the right woman is a never-ending process until you are finally convinced that she is “the one”.

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Chloe is a marketing executive with Meet2Go.com. She graduated from the UK’s leading university and has over 8 years experience working at the largest ad firms in NYC and London. She is currently in charge of marketing and promotions for Meet2Go.com. Meet2Go is an activity based dating website that allows you post activities, or browse posted activities, and make new friends through common interests.

How to attract a beautiful woman is a skill set few men ever attain. They desire a good looking woman and want to sexually attract women, but really have not applied the correct methods. Some of these tips may seem wrong, but the truly will work.

1. Smell Sexy - A first impression will last forever and they remember exactly what you smell like. They do not want a man who stinks plain and simple. Women have a keen sense of smell and want a man who smells incredible.
2. Polished Shoes - Women will look at your feet and the types of shoes you wear. Your shoes better look great when you are out on the town. How to attract beautiful woman will rely on your shoes.
3. The Un-Secure Feeling - It’s edgy but this method works. Make women feel unsecure by paying more attention to their friends. Go as far as talking to their friends with your back turned to them. If they want to butt into the converstion, you will know your edgy plan is working.
4. Loud Shirts - Hey if you plan to sexually attract women when out on the town you need to wear loud shirts and be the center of attention. Woman love out going men and want a guy who knows how to have fun. Go and look at the bar and see for yourself, guys who exude confidence by wearing loud shirts will have beautiful woman around them.
5. Drinking Smart - Woman hate guys who get sloppy drunk. It’s a reflection of your personality. Remember they believe you will be the father of their children and showing irresponsibility is a sure way to lose their interest.

How to attract a beautiful woman is a skill set all men should attain. Our desires will be met and we can live life as we have envisioned.

By: RT Bucher

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