While it may help to look like Brad Pitt if you want to score the hot girl, it really is not necessary. All that you actually need is an excellent smile, and a small handful of sure fire tips for flirting to make the girls go absolutely gaga over you. The secret to flirting for men is to showcase your masculinity, but there is a lot more to this than scratching yourself in public or belching loud enough for the folks outside to hear.

- Keep eye contact - You should strive to lock eyes with the woman that you are flirting with for at least five or six seconds before smiling. Once you’ve caught her attention you can drop your gaze. This lets the woman you are interested in know that it is her that you are looking at. Eye contact is a universal sign signifying openness, and lets the woman know that you are intentionally flirting with her.

- Keep smiling! - Lets say you have a flirting tool box. Do you know what your most important tool would be? Simple, your smile! Experts in body language and psychology both agree that one of the absolutely most important things that you could possibly do to make you appear more approachable, and more attractive, is to smile. Offer her a smile that says you are having an excellent time, and are happy to be where you are at. The smile, according to body language experts, is the international sign that you are friendly. Lock eyes and trade smiles with a woman at least three times in a single evening, and you have found the sign you needed that says she’s interested in being approached by you.

- Square your Shoulders - Biologically, women tend to be attracted to men who are more dominant. You can give off this specific air simply by standing tall and pressing your shoulders back. The more assertive you are when flirting with a woman from across the room, the more readily she will be able to respond. Hold your head up, and change your gestures to appear more assertive to her, and she will get the picture.

- Do not be afraid to mimic - People tend to mirror one another’s body languages when they are attracted, using similar gestures, and similar volume of voice and so on. Try to subtly mimic her behavior. Lean forward when she does, scratch your head when she does. When you and she begin to mirror one another’s behaviors, it can create the feeling that the two of you are connected.

- Focus! - Once you and your target have begun to talk, make sure that you smile and maintain your eye contact while they speak. Focus all of your attention on what is being said. The most attractive person is someone who finds you fascinating, so return the favor to her.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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Are you one of those people who is lucky enough to live in a city where there are beautiful women absolutely everywhere? Every time you turn a corner, you can feel the estrogen level around you. So why are you still struggling to find a lover? If your city is as filled with beautiful single women as you believe it to be, why are you having so much trouble finding them? Where are they hiding?

They are hiding right under your nose! One of the most common questions that people turn to the experts about is where the best single women are hiding. The amusing thing about this question is that it is absolutely the wrong one to be asking, because women are everywhere. The question that you should be asking instead is when is the best time for you to approach a woman? After all, at this point you should already be well aware of where the women are, you just need to figure out how to go about approaching them.

Let’s look at one of three situations where you can approach women, known as the POT, or Pickup One Time. Unfortunately, many men get burned here because they are absolutely unaware of how to approach. There are a number of different ways you can approach women here, including: Walking in the street, waiting in lines, restaurants, concerts or bars, elevators, shopping and at movie theaters.

In all eight of these cases, your absolute best bet is going to be to approach in a way that addresses three things: Her security, her availability, and her limited amount of chatting time. You need to utilize a approach that is sincere and polite, and that allows her to know that you are absolutely harmless, that you find her absolutely attractive, and that you are interested in knowing if she is available. Start with something like:

“Hi there. I couldn’t help walking by without talking to you. But before I say anything more, are you single?”

Here she is either going to say, no, or yes. If she says no, the game is over. Thank her, wish her a nice day or evening, and move on. If she says yes, you can follow up with something like this:

“I’m single too. My name is John, and I hope to get to know you. Would you like to go out for a drink sometime?”

It has been recommended in the past that you outright ask for her phone number, but this is sloppy. Don’t be pushy. If she’s interested, she’ll find a way to let you get in touch with her - You should not need to ask expressly for it.

While you may get a cold shoulder from some women, most will be flattered that you were bold and brave enough to approach them. Do not give up if you get the brush off, just keep practicing and sharpening your flirting skills, and you will get it right.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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Love sometimes has a funny way to deal with the hearts of people. Even if love seems to be so strong between a man and woman, there are still a number of things that undermine this love and eventually, the lovers do break up. Break up is almost always a sad sight. The emotional investments that each person has put into the relationship, the sleepless nights over quarrels that were smoothed out the next day; or the precious moments that these two lovers have spent together—these are all worth preserving.

Yet, breakups happen. If you have been in one recently, take heart, there are ways for you to win back her heart. Guys do make a lot of mistakes when they are trying to win back the heart of their beloved. They do this because they feel desperate and they panic that they might lose their beloved forever. On the other hand, a number of men feel that they are engaged in a competition where the girl is the “prize” and they have to “win” her back at all cost. Such a mode of thinking rarely works.

Ironically, in order to win back her heart, you need to start thinking of her as the “prize.” Instead, start thinking that you love her and you want the best for her. Do not consider her as the “prize”, you are the prize. With this kind of thinking, you can muster enough courage and creativity to pursue her and win back her heart.

This might sound like conceit to other people or perhaps downright condescension, yet it is not! The people who think this way feel that their girlfriend should be treated like a princess or a queen and do every single thing for them. This is not right! The woman is not your boss. She is your girlfriend and your partner in the activities that you do in life. If you prostrate yourself before her and become like a servant, she might simply look your way and ignore you for the rest of your life. You will not be able to win her heart back in this case.

Try to brush yourself up and take a look at your assets and your good qualities. Enhance them and work on your weak points. Display confidence in pursuing your girl and if she realizes who you really are, then she might be swayed to reciprocate your pursuit of her.

Winning back her heart will no longer be your effort if this happens, she will also put her own efforts on the line and before you knew it you did win back her heart and she will be in your arms once more.

By: TeeceeGo

Teecee Go is the owner and webmaster of www.BreakupCures com helping anyone get back their ex and treasure any relationship dearer. Did you find this article useful? You can get further information and learn a lot more on how to win back her heart here at www.ExGirlfriendback.com

Everyone has their own unique opinion about the best ways to seduce women. If you ask a man, he will have a few tricks up his sleeve, but many will not be that effective. If you ask a woman, they may be able to offer you a unique set of advice, but is this advice universal for all women? If you are looking for 5 ways to seduce a woman, you have come to the right place. Every woman is different, though, and you cannot expect that these will work on all of them. Still, arm your flirting and seduction arsenal with these tips and tricks, and expand your tool box as you learn and practice.

1. Talk dirty to her - It has been said that getting a woman thinking about sex is enough to get her thinking about having sex with you. This may not be spot on, but it is still possible to use cues to urge her into bed. You do not necessarily have to be talking explicitly about sex in order to get her in the mood, but if the time is right and your conversation begins to take on some sexual undertones, you should have a very real picture of whether or not she wants to sleep with you fairly easily.

2. Ask gentle questions about her sexual history. Don’t ask her “How many times have you had sex?” But you may feel comfortable enough to ask her if she’s ever done it in daring places, or on a dare, or with someone who’s name she didn’t know. This only really works on women who are open, and if you find your partner withdrawing at the sight of your questions, you need to stop. If she seems responsive, on the other hand, keep probing gently, and get her talking. She can actually lead herself into a flurry of sexual feelings just by recounting some of her wilder experiences, which is the perfect time for you to swoop in.

3. Entice her to bring up her fantasies. Let her tell you what she is into, without directly asking. Probe her fantasies a bit, and get her to tell you what she’d be interested in doing. You can ask what she would do if her favorite movie star walked in, and if she’s willing, she’ll tell you everything she’d do to get him to be with her. Don’t take advantage of her fantasies, but you should still feel open to using them ease her into bed.

4. Show her that you’re in control. We’re not talking about trying to be the alpha male, or trying to be cocky in any way. Still, show her that you are in control by offering to order her meal, opening doors for her; basically just leading the way. Don’t be an asshole, just be assertive and show her that you are concerned about providing her with a good experience. This may not cause her to rip her clothes off and jump you, but it will relax her a great deal more and may help her gain interest in a nightcap.

5. Fascinate her. If she’s bored, or seems disinterested, find some way to fascinate her. No cards, magic tricks, personality tests or surveys, please. Talk to her about your hobbies, ask her about hers. Getting her to open up about her life and personality is a great way not only to learn a lot about her, but also to rekindle her interest in the date.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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Every good romance derives from a good romantic partner. One that’s willing to know you well enough to keep you swept off your feet with their displays of affection. That doesn’t mean that you need to go out there and buy your sweetheart anything and everything constantly to gain their undying love…just the opposite. Usually it’s the small things that you do out of love that stick in their mind as precious…as romantic.

Especially where men are concerned, they are putty in your hands when they know that you’ve taken the time to listen to them…really listen to what their likes and dislikes are, what drives them.

Romance is where both sexes feel the same. Both men and women alike love to feel special and cared for by their partner. Romancing your man can be work but it also can be very rewarding. In the long run, there can be many dividends to taking the time out to study your partner’s wants, needs, and desires. Especially since there are many ways to hit your partner’s “hot button” when it comes to feeling loved.

Several years ago Gary Chapman wrote a book called The Five Love Languages and in it he discussed the five categories we fall into when it comes to feeling loved. Most of us feel like someone loves us in one way or another although on the average, it’s usually a couple of things that go hand in hand with each other. For instance, if you feel loved by words of affirmation it is most likely you will also feel loved by affirming touch. That doesn’t mean that the touch has to be of a sexual nature but more in the way of hand holding, hugging or an arm placed around the shoulder or looped through your partner’s arm.

There is soo much more to wooing your man than giving him a good romp in the sack. In fact, although men hunger for sexual gratification to feel loved, they also enjoy being shown that you think they are the best in other ways. Here is an idea or two to show your mate how much you care:

Next time there is a big game on TV and you know that he‘d enjoy watching it, create a little “picnic“ of his favorite foods and the two of you enjoy them together on the living room floor, blanket and all. Or, if you’d rather not, then invite some of his best buddies over (without him knowing about it) and fix enough food for them all…

Can you imagine how he will feel in front of the guys? Like a million dollars that’s how! He’ll feel like a king and you will reap the rewards. Especially if he’s used to getting a negative response to his Sunday afternoons tuned into the TV versus you. It will make him feel that you understand his needs and that you care enough about him to fulfill them and that’s all it will take to get him to respond in favor when you need some love.

Remember, it‘s not what you do that matters as much as how it makes him feel. If after you do whatever it is you think will make him feel loved, he acts like he’s on top of the world then you know you were successful, and when a man feels like he’s loved and appreciated by his mate then he’s willing to reciprocate by being “hooked into you” for a lifetime! So go out there and romance your mate and knock him off of his feet!

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Internationally known Contemporary Women’s Fiction Author and Public Speaker, Karen Farrell Jaworski, inspires women to a better life through her three powerful real-to-life dramas as well as her personal appearances nationwide. www.kfjbooks.com