It is very common for men to have difficulty approaching women especially the ones they consider attractive. Whether it is because they are shy, nervous, out of their element (comfort zone) or anything else, most men at some time have issues approaching women .But with a little work before hand, and some confidence you will quickly be able to approach women with ease.

The first and most important thing you absolutely have to do is to be confident and remember that women, no matter where and when are people just like you. You have to be able to approach them as such, no matter how good looking she might be. It is best to be happy and comfortable with who you are and where you are in life before you go about approaching women. If you aren’t you certainly won’t feel confident approaching someone new.

The next tip to follow is when you approach a woman do so as if you are looking to get to know the person she is. Don’t use pick up lines, women are so conditioned against them anyways it won’t help you at all. She could be the most beautiful woman alive, but if she is rude and does not treat you well, that won’t matter. So approach her with an air of trying to see if she is compatible with who you are.

You might find it difficult to start a conversation with a woman who you think is better looking than you, or just very good looking. You just might have no idea what in the world to say to such a beautiful creature. So, let’s work on that.

Think about your surroundings. Are you in a store, if so, what kind? If it is a book store you could mention something about the book she is looking at, or ask her if she knows where a section of the bookstore is. Usually once you crack the ice it is a lot easier to continue talking. Even if she tells you right away where that section is you might act like you don’t know where that is, or ask her to help you find a certain book in that section the way she responds would tell you whether she is open to talking to you. There are many options, so use them.

One last tip is it is usually easier to approach a woman who is by herself, instead of with a group, not only is it easier on you, but it is just easier to get her talking when she isn’t already with a bunch of friends who are doing that. So, give it a shot, you will never know what can happen, unless you do.

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If you mastered the art of touch, you would be able to comfortably and confidently lead a girl from the first date, to hand holding, to kissing, and to the bedroom with the finesse that she will adore you for.

When you are touching a girl in a way that she really enjoys, she will be showing you by the way she looks at you, by the way she smiles, and by the way she opens up. You can then lead her further to her sensual opening.

If she is tensing up, crossing her arms, or moving away, then you know that she is not yet ready for that level of touch intimacy.

If you are not with a girl right now, get a piece of fabric and practice touching it in the ways that I will go over.

If you are dating or in a relationship, put these distinctions into practice this week!

Think of it as practicing your kicks in martial arts, foul shots in basketball, serves in tennis, and driving in golf. In beginning to learn how to touch a girl, you will have to dedicate yourself to the art of touch.

If you are uncomfortable with touch in general, start to get comfortable and touch everyone and everything around you.

When I say touch, I don’t mean grope, I don’t mean just walking up and directly and grabbing someone.

While learning how to touch a woman, everything needs to be smooth and progressive rather than rough and abrupt. This means your initial touch might be a light brush that lasts half a second.

The art of touch is vast, so I won’t time to get into some finer step-by-step guidance of exactly how to go from the first date to holding a girls hand, to kissing her, to first contacting her breasts, and so on which I cover in several chapters in my book.

I will start you off with some mindsets you need to have as you begin to get comfortable with touching girls.

How to touch a girl tip #1: Stroke her as you would a cat

When you touch or stroke your woman, approach slowly, gently, softly, and with no sudden movements. Be present and gentle as you touch a girl. Feel into what parts of her is relaxing into you and whether to use broad or short strokes.

Notice the speed of your touch, the rhythm of your touch, and how to use your body as part of the touch. If you are not sensitive in your touch, a cat will run away or even scratch you.

Same thing with a woman, so practice your ability to touch women with delicate artistry

How to touch a girl tip #2: Touch her as if you have all the time in the world

Most guys mess up with girls and make them feel creeped out because they’re in a hurry. The girl can tell that the guy is after something - sex.

Even if the touch is brief, the sense of timelessness can linger with her if you touch her with presence.

If you can use your touch to lead her out of her mind, the busy day, and the stress and tension of life into a realm of timeless pleasure, then you will become a haven for her.

How you touch a girl will show her how extraordinary you will be in bed, so make you touch last seemingly forever.

Girls will be wishing they could be with you and stay with you long after you’re gone if you can create these kinds of feelings and moments.

How to touch a girl tip #3: Touch her as much as you can

Girls love being touched. They crave it actually. Of course, they don’t want to be touched by just any man, or in any way.

A woman has to be feeling some kind of existing connection to you before she’s ready to be touched sensually and often by you.

Create that readiness in her through your words and attitude first.

Playfulness and humor are always a great place to come from to get a woman to open up to you on a more sensual level.

When a girl says something funny, touch her as a way to connect.

You’ll notice that when you say something funny, women will often touch you as they laugh. When she does something incredible, or shows a part of her personality that you really enjoy, touch her as a sign of your approval.

When she is tense, but her body language is open, give her a massage. When she feels a bit stressed, pull her toward you and hold her.

If you are having dinner, sit next to her and stroke her hair to add to the pleasure and sensations from the food. You get the idea.

How to touch a girl tip #4: Romance her with your touch

Almost half of all books sold in the US are romance novels. This shows you how much women want romance.

Give her what she wants!

Touch her as if you are an amazing lover waiting to sweep her off her feet.

Hold her and create a protective bubble where the rest of the world does not exist for a moment. Enthrall your woman with how you open her up to her senses with your touch. Express your passion for her through your touch.

How to touch a girl tip #5: Touch her as if she means the world to you

This mindset might feel like a stretch in the beginning, but with time, it will become more and more natural to who you are, and you will naturally give more of yourself when relating with women.

How would you touch her if you chose her 100%?

If this is the woman you cherished beyond almost anything in your life, your car, your house, your money, anything you possess, how would you touch her?

How would you touch a girl who you would risk your life to protect?

Feel into all of these questions and transfer the feeling into your touch.

If you are already practicing a bulk of these distinctions in touch, then congratulations, you are way ahead of the game.

If you haven’t been, or if you didn’t even know that you can have these mindsets and practices, then today is the day to start!

There is no time like the present. Practice petting a dog, a cat, or a piece of fabric if your girl isn’t around. If you are dating or are in a relationship, put these principles into practice immediately.

The best way in getting better at how to touch a woman is through practice, so get to it!

You are just getting a peek into what’s available to you in your possibilities as a man. Get into action and put these principles into practice and make some women happy!

Copyright (c) 2008 Neo Young

By: Neo Young

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Many of you men out there may believe that there are no more good women out there or that they are hard to come by. It is true that when a man meets the woman of his dreams, he will do anything to get her; and by her already having a man doesn’t stop him. It is known that men are not perfect, so women all over are continuously looking for that perfect man…the one. With that being said, this can only mean that these women are not completely satisfied with their men. So why do they stay in the relationship? Well, they fear the single life, so they hold on to the guy until they find a better replacement.

When the time comes and the woman finds the guy she believes to be better than her current lover, she will dump him at the drop of a hat. This situation can easily be taken advantage of; any man can seduce any woman if he has the right game plan. But before men should go along seducing other men’s women, it is important that they know these three basic rules.

1) Never seduce your friend’s woman

2) Know the consequences of messing with a married women and the damage it can cause the family

3) Try to find out who the woman’s man is; after all, you will need to know who to avoid

Aim to Score

When you first approach the woman, it is very important that you make a stunning first impression; this can either make or break your strategy. Make it so that she believes your presence is completely innocent and friendly. It is essential that she first accepts you as a friend; later on in your plans, you will have to have her trust to make comments and give opinions about her relationship. If the woman thinks that you are only there to seduce her, she will not take any value in what you have to say.

After you have a successful friendship established, you will need to develop it further into a one of the girls bonds; this way she can trust you enough to tell you about the problems she is having in her relationship.

Your Plans

The strategy of seducing a woman who is taken is to make her think. Keep putting ideas in her head to make her wonder and really ponder why she is still with her man. She should ask herself, “Why is he disrespecting me? Why does he take me for granted? Why isn’t he here with me now? Why does he put his boys first? Why am I out with the girls instead of with him?” These are all great questions that when answered can cause a breakup or an affair.

No one is perfect, especially not her man. Bring to her attention all of his negative characteristics. Bring up relationships during conversations and discuss it in general; pet peeves and such. This will allow her to talk about the things that bother her in her relationship. You will be able to kill three birds with one stone by letting her name the flaws about her man and the relationship they have. Be the good listener and don’t add your criticisms; you don’t want to seem like a snake. Use what she says and amplify them and in no time, you and her will be on the same page.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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Your ability to build a phone conversation will allow to make a good impression to the woman. Many errors can be avoided simply if tentatively ponder that you are going to say and how it will look from the outside. The following items will help you to build your communication correctly and to avoid the most common mistakes.

1. The first talk on the phone should be short.

No matter how busy your day is, and how long have you to talk, you have to impress a person living a full active life. To do so, say what you wanted to say and there is no need of abstract discussions about the nature and the weather. It would not be bad if you have finished the conversation first. This will force the woman to wait for further meetings with you.

2. Talks must be finished on a cheerful note.

The woman always remember what you told her, ending the conversation. This should be something positive ridiculous that will force her to smile after she put the phone. Even if your first conversation was unfortunate, the latest joke can remedy the situation in your favor.

3. Your call should have a clear objective.

Do not call just to chat. Before the conversation you must prepare, utter the phrases that you are about to pronounce. You do not want that at the end of your explanation woman would ask you thus “So, what did you want to say me?”. If you invite woman to visit, you should have several options where you can go to, just in case that at first one she did not agree.

4.Radiate a positive.

Women’s trait, of course, is the ability to listen, they given by nature of compassion and the propensity to sympathy, but that does not unleash your hands. There is no need for it to drain all the negatives, accumulated in you for the whole day, to complain about life, etc. Not even a nagging need into the tube or talk with colorless voice. On the first few visits hide away your emotional baggage.

5. The message can be left on the answering machine, only if you are calling not the first time.

Do not leave a message on the answering machine, otherwise you will look like a man, who is very needy in her attention. If you call for the first time, hang up and try again later. Do not be afraid that unknown telephone number, displayed several times on her answering machine will alert her.

6. Call in good time.

This means that you must exclude calls during working hours. First, she will understand that you think a lot of her, once taking the time to call in a pause between jobs. Secondly, it can be inconvenient for her to talk when colleagues or boss is, and she could not be kindly with you, even if she wanted to be. If you invite a woman to visit by Sunday, then make a call until Wednesday. Never call on Friday evening or Saturday. If you lie on the couch and watch TV, you have not do anything, she must not know it, this is not necessary.

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Meeting women online is the new way of doing things vs. the going to the bar to pick up girls. You get more of a variety and the rejection has a softer blow. It even helps to build confidence even in men who have absolutely none, making anyone into an alpha male. There are 5 Cs that you should know and apply to your life to successfully meet women online.

First, you will need to have Confidence. By having confidence gives others confidence in you. It shows girls that you have something going on to be proud about and will automatically feel that you are worth their time. The way you speak to them online or on the phone will help them decide whether you are worth their time. Once you meet the girl in person, you will need to show that you are truly confident. Hold your head up high, speak audibly and don’t slouch. Eye contact is also key.

Always keep Control. It is important for you to always keep control of situations and of yourself. Self control is not something that everyone has, so make sure to keep grasp of it. It is important that you keep control of your emotions and reactions to situations and conversations you encounter. When talking to girls online, you will need to stay in control of the conversation and not let it go too far or in directions you don’t intend them to go.

Be Comedic. Women love to laugh, so use your great sense of humor during conversations online and when you finally meet the girl in person. Humor helps to break the ice of first meeting someone and it relaxes the atmosphere. It allows the two of you to be yourself without wondering what the other is thinking; you have already proved to be easy going.

Enjoy the Challenge. Don’t be intimidated if a girl plays hard to get. Look at this like a hunt and go for the game. It will make it more interesting and if you end up with the girl, you will have a great triumph to celebrate. Or you can flip the switch and make it even more interesting. Show her that you are not interested and she will surely try to gain your attention and affection. Girls don’t like to be rejected, but they take it differently than men do. Men just give up, women look at it like a challenge and won’t stop until they get what they want – you.

Use Charm. By being charming will entice the girl you are talking to. Don’t be too upfront about your intentions because it may rub her the wrong way and run her off. You need to be a gentleman and show her that you know how to talk to a lady. Once you meet her in person, you will need to condone the same attitude. Show her a bit of chivalry and that you aren’t all talk.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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