Having a low self confidence is something that can be extremely detrimental to both men and women across the world. Self confidence is simply how someone sees themselves; how someone views themselves is incredibly important, as it can affect their mood. If someone sees themselves in a positive light, and has good self confidence, they will be happy. If someone has low self confidence, however, the story changes. Having a low self confidence is not a good thing, and trying to improve low self confidence in women can be attained by understanding how to have a good self esteem.

#1- Be Responsible

One important aspect of trying to improve a low self confidence is to understand and accept the fact that you are responsible for your own actions. Many people with low self confidence are aware of things (and blame themselves), it is important to know exactly what you are responsible for. By knowing this, you can also understand that you have the ability to improve those things that you have been responsible for, which will in turn help a low self confidence.

#2 Own Yourself

People with a low self confidence have a tendency to dislike themselves, the places they have been, the things that they have done, and the way that they feel. If there is something you do not like that can be changed, it is ok to think about those things, as they can be improved. For the things that you cannot change, however, do not let yourself get down.

Be proud of the things that you have, and the places that you have been. Realize that what you think and feel is yours; be proud of your ability to make decisions and be yourself. By embracing who you are and what you do in a positive way, you can help to improve your low self confidence.

#3- Set Realistic Goals

Those who have no goals, or have incredibly unrealistic goals will often find that they have a low self confidence. Goals are important; goals help people to track their own progress and keep their lives on track. By meeting (or missing) goals, you can understand where you are at, and how you can improve.

People with a low self confidence feel as if they are stuck, and that there is nowhere to go. By having goals, you can understand where you can improve, but also how you can achieve. Having a low self confidence is all about feeling as if there is nowhere you can go. By showing yourself that you can attain goals and can achieve things, you are more likely to have a better self confidence and lose your low self confidence.

Low self confidence is something that can affect everyone. By working to improve your low self confidence, you can help yourself feel better about who you are and what you have accomplished. For some it may be hard, but it is possible for everyone to improve their low self confidence.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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I get a lot of emails from guys who read my newsletter that say things like…

“I’m sure what you’re saying is right, but I don’t want to be a jerk or an a**hole to women…”

..or…

“I have seen what you’re talking about happen all my life, but I’m a ‘nice guy’ and I want women to like me for me…”

…and…

“This doesn’t make sense…”

For most of my life, I was the nice guy of nice guys. As a matter of fact, when I first made the decision to learn how to be successful with women, this actually created an obstacle for me.

Let me explain…

Because I believed that “being a nice guy” must be the way to success with women, I actually couldn’t even perceive any other way.

In other words, I could see a situation where a woman was attracted to a mean, abusive guy and think to myself that either she must be screwed up in the head, or that the guy must be really nice to her the rest of the time.

As you probably know, it’s hard to convince a person to believe something when they already have a belief about the topic. The person that you’re trying to convince just uses whatever you say to convince themselves that they’re actually right…and you’re wrong.

I did the exact same thing.

No matter how much evidence I found to the contrary, I still somehow believed that being a “nice” guy, buying women flowers and gifts, taking them out, and generally letting them be in control of the relationship had to be the way to attract them.

Well, after continuing along the same path and getting the same results, I realized something that literally changed everything for me.

I realized that jerks do, in fact, attract hot women.

By: DeAngelo David

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Many men out there think that stepping up to a woman and talking to her is the hardest step when approaching someone they are interested in. Being able to go up to a woman and talk to her without being nervous (or strange) is a huge accomplishment for many single men. What some men do not realize, however, is that getting the girl’s number is the only way to seal the deal. Some men may be able to talk to a girl in an amazing way, but are unable to seal the deal. Getting a girl’s number is important, and there are a few different tricks to know how to get a girl’s number.

#1- Do Not Ask Right Away

This point cannot be stressed enough when discussing how to get a girl’s number. Some guys who are somewhat nervous around girls have a habit of asking for their number right away. Think about this for a second; if someone random walked up to you and said “Hi, I hope you’re having a good time. Can I have your number?”, how would you react? Most normal individuals would have no clue as to what to do, and would simply laugh and ignore the request. If you are trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number, be sure to realize that asking right away can be death as far as getting a number is concerned.

#2- Have a Conversation!

Conversation is incredibly important. A girl will not give her number to someone who she does not know, or does not like. If you want her to get to know you, you have to strike up a conversation. Conversation is a must when it comes to trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number. By having a two way conversation with her, you can gauge her interest (as she gauges you). Gauging this interest can lead you to the perfect time in the conversation to ask for a number.

#3- Never End with a Request

Asking for a number at the very end of a conversation does two things; first off, it makes you look as if you have done this a million time. Two, it makes you seem desperate. Do not wait for her to say that she has to go before you ask her for her number. When of the most important things to do when trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number is to know that it does not have to end a conversation.

Ask her for her number in the middle of the conversation…and then keep the conversation going. Find a normal breaking point to ask for her number. Once you have gotten it, strike up another conversation. This will catch her off guard, and show her that you are not just walking up to every girl asking them for their number.

If you use these tips on how to get a girl’s number, you are easily more likely to impress a girl and seem original. When trying to get a girl’s number, originality and sincerity is key.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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I must admit, when it comes to approaching women and having a meaningful, coherent and well thought out conversation with them (women that is) which could lead to intimacy, you can throw away everything you’ve ever been taught about them, theory just doesn’t match up to the reality, and many a guy will testify to this.

So then, what does it take to really make a lasting impression with women?
What is it, that makes some guys have all the luck, whilst all those well meaning, well healed and well mannered gentlemen out there spend the rest of their formative years cowering in the confines of their homes watching re-runs of Everybody Loves Raymond, when they could be out in the limelight dating all the lonely vivacious single women out there?

One word - Confidence!

As easy as it may sound, just what is Confidence, and why are there different levels of confidence, some levels relating to everyday situations and the others, relating to the heart thumping foot in mouth, sweaty palm situation when we’re in the presence of beauty?!

I have some good news for you!

Confidence is a learned human art form, this is a start. I call Confidence an art form for, everything that requires excellence in execution, be it F1 racing, Singing, track racing to seducing only the finest women, and getting away with it, is an art…one cannot help but to stop and marvel at the shear genius of it…even the ladies you seduce will pause for a moment to applaud your tenacity, diction and charm!

Need I say more?

So, regardless of your level of internal insecurities and aberrations pertaining to women, your actions my Dear Watson, should you choose to go ahead with the mission,are reversible, and with stupendous results guaranteed to see you possessing a harem that even the Great Sultan would be envious of!

I think we all can attest to what the lack of confidence does for one’s mojo, and what kind of results tend to manifest in our lives, so I’ll skip that sordid part entirely (it is after all, depressing) and concentrate instead, on creating opportunities that will put you, every single day of your waking moments, in the path of hot blooded, male depraved, pick-your-jaw-from-the-pavement pretty women that will have your Dad rethink his strategy for having married your mom!

Sound fair?

Let’s delve in, shall we…

In a nutshell, Confidence is the ability to accept who you are regardless of what inabilities you may have. It is a kind of internal mindset and belief system that affects your actions, thoughts and speech. Everything you are stems from this set of beliefs! In my opinion,appearance is the single most important and fastest route to looking or feeling confident. Regardless of internal strife or discord, you can always hide your internal emotions, albeit temporarily, by dressing the part.

Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Having spent the best part of my life in the wild and studying the big five most dangerous animals on Planet Earth, I really understand why the most vulnerable of prey gets eaten, whilst the other, more agile and enterprising game get away with murder, literally.

So too it is with men, if you act scared, not shy by the way, there’s a huge difference there but, if you act scared or, if you do not have a game plan when approaching women, you can rest assured they, (like big game) will smell your fear and lack of confidence from right across the room and have their way with you!

There’s nothing as pitiful as a guy with no game plan and no confidence attempting to seduce a pretty chick in a bar, or anywhere for that matter!

It’s like trying to steal candy from a kid that’s just realized there’s sugar in candy, and sugar tastes yummy and sweet! It’s just not going to happen!

Just like animals that think or reason in identities… 1=1=1, means that, past results lead to learned behavior. Once you’re whipped, each time you approach another chick, past memory kicks in, and you give up…confining yourself to a life of watching re-runs of Everybody loves Raymond on basic cable!

Admitted, it’s not easy to shed off fear and shame of rejection when it comes to approaching women but, we live in a highly technical environment, and at no time in the history of the Universe has there been so much information available to mankind…be it self improvement to learning how to harvest syrup from Maple trees in Canada etc!

Just like the famous sneaker brand Nike, Just Do it…whatever it takes, to rid yourself of the dry spell of not having a pretty woman to show off to our peers etc. Join a gym for the women, mooch off your fraternity brothers, go to stand up comedy gigs to laugh yourself silly with other single women or guys etc… the list is not exhaustive, but you get the idea!

In the end, by looking for the best in others, you indirectly bring out the best in yourself. Instead of putting down others, why not examine yourself. Declare to yourself that “I am the best” and don’t allow anyone to decrease your morale and and confidence.

Good night…

By: Feelgood

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It’s a fact: Most single men are unhappy. The reason is simple: They don’t meet enough women. But there are also happy guys out there – those who meet women often and often have sex with different women. And every one can become such a guy, because fortunately the ability to attract women doesn’t depend on your looks, job, income or background.

So, what are the secrets those lucky guys know about? How can you attract more women?

Secret #1: Be social.

The idea behind it is that the more social you are, the more people you meet. The more people you meet, the higher the chance you meet women and will have sex with them. Spending all day in the gym may improve your looks, but it won’t get you more women. Besides your social skills will get better every time you communicate with different people and you will do better next time you meet a beautiful girl. More important, one of the things women look for in a man is social status. If you are a person who talks with many different people (girls and guys) on parties and so on, your social status is high and women will automatically feel attracted to you. If you stand alone in a corner with a beer in your hand the whole evening and watch all the other people having fun, your social status is as low as it can be. So, go out regularly and interact with different people. Get to know people. Try to make a habit of it. If you don’t know what to say, learn some openers like “Hi guys! I have a quick question for you - who lies more, men or women?” aso. Remember, nothing impresses a woman more than social status, the fact that other people (not only girls) like you, that you are popular (= social proof). Smile and laugh a lot, it will have a positive effect on the people you’re talking to and it demonstrates confidence.

Secret #2: Be the Alpha Guy.

Women love dominant guys. Actually, dominance and self-confidence are the top qualities women look for in a man. And as about 90 % of the success of your approach depends on your body language, your tone and timing, you have to master those areas first. Only a strong and coherent body language can demonstrate confidence. Women are attracted to confidence as it indicates a high status. The alpha guy is a type of man who can demonstrate that he is successful and has women in his life. He is not needy like the nice guys women only rip off. The alpha guy always sets the tone, never looks for approval and always has a plan where to go and what to do. He never asks the woman “What would you like to do?” Don’t be fooled, most women don’t want a man who’s asking them all the time on their wishes. They want a strong man who knows what he wants, tells them want they need - a leader who will take them for a ride. The alpha guy always has his own opinion on everything and never shows he’s jealous.

Secret #3: Be interesting.

To quote the famous pickup artist Mystery: “In order to get a woman interested in you, you have to be interesting.” Knowing interesting facts makes you interesting. But it’s not enough, you have to develop a unique personality, your own point of view on anything. The reason for that is, it makes you stand out from the last 10 or even 100 guys the girl you’re talking to hooked up with. Being interesting also means that you can demonstrate (a special) value – something not everyone can do. This doesn’t mean that you have to play a greasy song on the guitar (but do so if you can). Read up on palm reading, dream interpretation or psycho tests and use it on your next date. Women love all kinds of tests and actually, you are interesting if you know about that stuff.

You will find concrete tips (for example openers, body language) how to improve the 3 areas in this e-Book (the cool thing about it: there is a 60 day money back guarantee, so you don’t risk a thing).

By: Steve Wells

www.attractallgirls.com