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Dating Advices - Why You Should Not Be Obsessed Over One Woman

Thursday, July 19th, 2007

I am pretty sure that mostly every guy will be guilty of this, which is to be obsessed over one particular woman, be it your friend, or a woman from your past relationship. A piece of dating advice from me is, being obsessed over one woman is not the same as being faithful to one woman.

When we talk about faithfulness, it is when you and a woman is in a relationship, and you show commitment and trust in this relationship by not fooling around. But being obsessed over one woman is when a man desires this one woman so much that they avoid any attempt to even date other women. This is not a healthy situation or attitude to have.

It is very common for guys to stuck with a certain girl, who no matter what you do; she just will not reciprocate the feeling that you have for her. In this case, my piece of dating advice to you is to move out of this situation as fast as you can! Stop obsessing over her. Rather than waiting on her to “come around,” go out and live an active, full life with a variety of women in it.

I can guarantee that if you make yourself “trapped” in this situation, it will cost you a lot of other things. You will be going down a “death relationship spiral”, and missing out other opportunities to know more women out there. It can also greatly crush your confidence and self-esteem, which will make future dates for you harder.

Therefore, I sincerely advise any guys out there who are obsessed over one woman to get alive! Get out of this “death relationship spiral”. You can meet the girl that is truly yours out there, if you just start to know more women. Do not confuse between staying faithful and over obsession when come to dating a woman.

By: Crid Lee

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One Night Stands vs Long Term Relationships

Wednesday, April 18th, 2007

In our days there are still a lot of people out there which are single because they haven’t got a relationship until now. One of the reasons why this happen is because men are still confusing about something; which is better to choose:  one night stands or long term relationships? Both have advantages and disadvantages that’s why it is good to think better before to jump in a relationship or to start these ”one night stands”.

People who choose to have one- night- stands are not ready to have a relationship. They have fear of commitment and consider that living single can be pretty sweet; if you are unattached woman the best of all is that you can spend as much time as you want with your friends. That’s why they prefer a one night stand.

Let’s face it: a one night stand is someone you pick up in a bar, you don’t know her, take it to your place, and have a healthy sex and leaves in the next morning, nothing more. What do you hope to find in the arms of someone who doesn’t care about you? Instead, a long term relationship between a guy and a girl is based around strong mutual attraction on the physical, mental and possibly even spiritual levels; it involves the concept of love and desire to be with someone you care very highly about for a long time.

The guys who are looking just for hooking are afraid to enter in a relationship, afraid of intimacy, rejection or afraid of opening up to someone. So, the ones who never had a one night stand until now, will want to try it as a personal growth experience. Men love sex, especially when there are no strings attached, and sometimes the urge is irresistible. Sexual desire is far more than a simple physiological need.  Experiencing a variety of people in a sexual context teaches you a variety of sexual techniques and ways of being.

One night stands can be fun, very sensual, and harmless and will definitely boost your ego: but you have to think about the consequences that may happen. One of the bad things that you can take sexually transmitted diseases, because you don’t know very well the girl, you don’t know with many guys was before you, so she might be infected. In a one night stand the partners become incredibly intimate at a very early stage so they become too vulnerable to each other before they know better.

For a long term relationship you must choose someone highly compatible in all areas, your partner should be your companion, friend and sex mate. For a one night stand you can choose a much greater variety of people, including women who are extremely sexually exciting, the decision can be made very quickly because anyway in the next day would matter anymore because she will leave for all.

Relationships require making a commitment and incurring obligations; you can’t chase after every opportunity if you want to built a relationship, you must have some patience. Even though, it can be very beautiful to have a relationship, because your partner cares of you and will be there for you when you have problems, will help you at need, you have always with whom to speak your problems. The one night stand girl will let you since the second day morning and will never care about you.

It is at your choice how you want to live your life, but remember that if you spend your energy looking for casual sex, there is a little time left over for developing a long term relationship; the rewards of investing time in a long time relationship are not immediate.

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What Does It Take To Impress A Woman?

Thursday, January 18th, 2007

Impressing a woman is not an easy task, especially if you don’t have a lot of experience with females. There are many components that go into impressing a woman.

Men usually struggle with the task and women often laugh at their attempts. Be genuine and don’t try to hard to impress.

That is where most men go completely wrong. However, if you can focus on these main points, you will able to impress any woman you want.

Confidence:
One of the things that women are impressed by is confidence. The truth is that women can’t usually stand a “weak” man. Even if you are not physically strong, if you have a confident demeanor, you will impress the ladies. Present yourself with confidence. Don’t be aggressive or make women think that that you are so into yourself you don’t like them. But, do show that you are happy being yourself.

Honesty
Another main thing that impresses women is honesty. If you are dating someone new that you want to impress, be honest with them about everything. They will trust you quickly when they can see they can count on you to be truthful. When you can be truthful with one another, you can build a great relationship.

If you want to impress them quickly, you can let them in on something that shows a little weakness, without giving in too much. For instance, you can tell them that you are terrified of snakes or something of that nature. They will think you are adorable!

Humor
Being funny with women is something that will always get you farther than being good looking. The truth is that women love someone that will make them laugh. You may think that the jocks have better luck, but the women who are worthwhile will be looking for the man they can smile with. After all, when looks fade and you age, all you have is conversation. Women understand that and are looking for that long term guy.

Sensitivity
If you are sensitive, you will instantly impress women. Maybe you volunteer at the local homeless shelter each month. Or maybe you help a hurt animal on your date. Whatever it is that shows your sensitivity, women will love it. Women are impressed with men who can be sensitive and strong. So, if you can easily show both sides of yourself, you will have them in the palm of your hand!

Remember, impressing a woman is also about being yourself. So, if you really aren’t sensitive or funny, don’t try to be.

Just try being yourself and hope that women will love you for who you are. You will just exhaust yourself trying to be someone else.

By: Jason Roberts -

Jason Roberts is a writer for GuaranteedOnlineDatingSystem.com which is an excellent place to find Dating links, For more information go to: www.guaranteedonlinedatingsystem.com

Yick! This Is Not Going To Work

Thursday, November 23rd, 2006

Online dating is hot. People are finding out that meeting someone online is not only very doable but can be especially gratifying. .

But (there’s always one of those) internet dating can sometimes produce less than positive results. For many people it’s when expectations meet reality.

For instance a guy who thinks he’s found the right girl. He replies on her profile and suddenly they start communicating on a very regular basis.

The chemistry they’ve built up through exchanging messages and talking on the phone blossoms. Now he considers the possibility of having more than an online relationship with the girl. He decides it’s time to set up their first real date.

And then it happens. They meet for first time over lunch and it’s a disaster. The girl appears to be somewhat different than what the guy had expected or recalled. But worse of all, the cheerful chemistry and lively conversation they had built up abruptly vanished. The date came to an end and even though the girl said that she had a nice time and enjoyed herself the problem is still there. The guy does not know what to say.

This is not uncommon in the world of online dating. There are many cases where two people just don’t click when they meet in person.

A lot of people who are involved in online dating usually ask why such things happen. They find it hard to believe that the person they have learned to like (and love) online is entirely different when in person.

So they try to assess themselves what went wrong. Is it their point of view that has changed? Were they deceived by the other person? Or was it just wrong from the very start?

The problem with most people is they fail to keep in mind that when they communicate to their dates online, they are really communicating, not with a person but with a series of texts. This is because any answers can always be fabricated or the other person can always deceive his or her date.

When this happens, personal meetings often end up like the one mentioned above. This is because reality is entirely different from what the computer screen illustrates.

Nevertheless, in real life, you’ve got to know how to exit from the situation without having to hurt the other person’s feelings.

1. It would be better not to delve on the issue about not having the right chemistry in the first place, or point out the reason why an individual cannot pursue the dating any longer.

In order to break things up easily, don’t focus on the issue of not getting the expectations one had started to build before you met in person. Don’t excuse yourself on the grounds that your date is not good-looking enough, or be hurtful in any way.

2. Explain the importance of finding each other’s right mate in order to build a happy relationship.

An individual should at least try to make an extra effort on explaining how chemistry works with two people and that lack of such value could be detrimental in one’s relationship.

3. Excuses will only make it worse.

Rejection should be done in such a way that the other person will not be hurt. That’s going to be tough enough without you making dreadful excuses the other person will sense immediately

4. Be firm in your decisions.

If you start to tell the other person that you think the relationship will not work, but then go all wishy washy, you will only make the matter worse and generate negative feelings.

5. It is usually best to allow your date to express their sentiments and ask questions then answer the questions as honestly as possible.

When a person gets disappointed after meeting his or her online date in person, it would be better to set things straight at once and put an end on the situation before it gets out of hand.

Try and understand how your date is feeling and be kind to them, even though you are about to end the relationship. Remember if you were in their place, you would want your date to be kind to you.

By: Daryl

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