#1- Be Responsible

One important aspect of trying to improve a low self confidence is to understand and accept the fact that you are responsible for your own actions. Many people with low self confidence are aware of things (and blame themselves), it is important to know exactly what you are responsible for. By knowing this, you can also understand that you have the ability to improve those things that you have been responsible for, which will in turn help a low self confidence.

#2 Own Yourself

People with a low self confidence have a tendency to dislike themselves, the places they have been, the things that they have done, and the way that they feel. If there is something you do not like that can be changed, it is ok to think about those things, as they can be improved. For the things that you cannot change, however, do not let yourself get down.

Be proud of the things that you have, and the places that you have been. Realize that what you think and feel is yours; be proud of your ability to make decisions and be yourself. By embracing who you are and what you do in a positive way, you can help to improve your low self confidence.

#3- Set Realistic Goals

Those who have no goals, or have incredibly unrealistic goals will often find that they have a low self confidence. Goals are important; goals help people to track their own progress and keep their lives on track. By meeting (or missing) goals, you can understand where you are at, and how you can improve.

People with a low self confidence feel as if they are stuck, and that there is nowhere to go. By having goals, you can understand where you can improve, but also how you can achieve. Having a low self confidence is all about feeling as if there is nowhere you can go. By showing yourself that you can attain goals and can achieve things, you are more likely to have a better self confidence and lose your low self confidence.

Low self confidence is something that can affect everyone. By working to improve your low self confidence, you can help yourself feel better about who you are and what you have accomplished. For some it may be hard, but it is possible for everyone to improve their low self confidence.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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While I’ve have some experience with dating here in Australia for some reason, I’ve recently be drawn towards the beauty of foreign women. Perhaps it is the very caring nature that I hear my friends talk about when we sit at cafe drinking coffee, perhaps the beauty of the women that they talk about, or then again it simply may be the culture and the experiences that my friends have had particularly with women from Romania.

In Australia we have very similar dating techniques when compared to other countries of the world. For example, we go to nightclubs, bars, cafes, discotheques etc to try and find the perfect person for us. Admittedly, I have been to these places and although I have met some beautiful people, I thought that there may have been an easier way to introduce myself to beautiful women. After all, how many times have some of us been out with friends only to find that by the end of the evening we are disappointed and return home alone.

I’m not saying that I’m the type of person that goes out to pick up women and bring them home, I’m a genuine person searching for the love of a woman. I’m definitely not interested in a one night stand, I’m now at the stage in my life where I am interested in having a committed and loving relationship with a woman of my dreams. I want to make this dream a reality…

I have met some of the lovely people from within my country and some of them were actually from other countries that were either visiting or studying here.

Actually I did meet a beautiful woman here in Melbourne her name is Alina and she was actually Romanian. I think this is where my fascination with Romanian women commenced, although we only had a very short period of time together I was intrigued by what I learnt about your beautiful country, your culture, the pride that you have when you talk about your family and friends and especially the way that Romanian women dedicate themselves to the man and there own families.

Although only knew Alina for a very short period of time as she was only here for two weeks on holiday, to me the experience was incredible and although at that time I was not ready to find love, I did find a wonderful friend.

After Alina returned home we continued to remain in contact with each other, I realised that I had met a friend for life. I need to explain to you that although we are friends, we did not click romantically described trying to say is that we did not have the chemistry that two people who were in love have?

Anyway, this was my first experience with a Romanian woman, the opportunity to learn about the culture, her family, friends, goals and plans for the future. It certainly was an experience to enjoy, chatting with this beautiful and intelligent woman and spending some time with her.

As you have probably guessed from my experiences, I was drawn towards the possibility of romance with a foreign woman. Fortunately for me, my experiences with Alina still edged with in my mind and I am now ready to search woman of my dreams, you may say that I’m ready to find love the Romanian woman.

I’ve told my friends about the possibilities of meeting and having a relationship with a Romanian woman and they have been nothing less than encouraging. As already have a few friends that are currently in relationships or married to women from other cultures. The possibility of me finding and falling in love with a woman from Romania are real, this is a possibility that I’m generally pursuing at the moment.

Fortunately, I have been lucky enough to find this website. It was recommended to me by my best friend. He is also searching for the love of a Romanian woman.

I have nothing against any experiences I have had dating women from within Australia, I guess a few of my friends and myself may be considered a little unusual or different in that we have a burning passion to find international love.

It is also important to note, that many western men are not being treated well by their women. Many women are looking short term and with hold affection once inside marriage. For me, I have so much to give that I prefer a woman brought up with strong family values and traditional love.

So why did I decide to find love in Romania, who you ask?

As I explained earlier there was something about Alina that I simply adored as soon as I saw her, the way she moved, where she played with their hair as she looked at the displays in the museum, a beautiful smile, her hair, the way she laughed, which told never to culture, her country, her family - I adored everything about her, unfortunate at that time I was not ready to romance.

It was this chance meeting when became interested in women from Romania. And I guess this is the reason why here today?

I’ve heard so much about Romanian women, I felt that it is now necessary to explore this for myself, to create a relationship with a woman that will love me as much as I will love her. I’m now ready to find my other half.

As you appreciate, it is not always possible to simply pick up a Romanian telephone book and find a woman that will love me. As we know, it can take considerable time the two people to get to know each other, after all we need to find out what we are both interested in, differences in our culture, talk about family and friends, culture and a goals and plans for the future.

Although modern communication has certainly assisted us in achieving this through use of the telephone, e-mail and Internet, there really is nothing better than establishing your relationship via these means and then taking the time to meet in person. I see this as being very important, I feel that it is vital that once we do find out prospective partner would need to keep the relationship alive and progressing forward, and sometimes the best way of doing this is by ensuring that you meet face-to-face soon after you feel that you are compatible with this person.

I guess what I am trying to say here is that there are hundreds and thousands of men around the world that would be genuinely interested in establishing a loving relationship with a Romanian woman.

Before I finish up, I forgot to tell you that Alina is now in a loving and committed relationship with a man from Canada, and we still managed to keep in touch occasionally, actually she still living in Romania at the moment and is preparing to live with her fiancé in Canada.

I truly look forward to commencing my lifelong relationship with my friend, partner and lover.
You never know, I may be lucky enough to meet you?

If you have recently come out of a relationship and you have now taken time to think about what you would do in the future, perhaps you may feel you’re ready to look for love on the Internet, this is a very good way to introduce yourself to other people. You see, the reason why I was not arrested in a relationship with Alina what she was in Melbourne was because of the fact that I’d recently come out a relationship and I needed time to heal. For me, coming out a serious relationship was little like grieving the loss of a family member or very close friend. I guess, as I think of it now, perhaps the reason why I’m looking for love with a Romanian woman is the result of coming out of a relationship with a woman here in Australia, more importantly perhaps it is the result of my limited and memorable experience with Alina.

I sincerely wish to thank you taking the time to read a little about me, if you have read this far I think it very much and I feel from within my heart that there is someone out there for everyone, and that this person may not necessarily be from within your own country. So if you’re interested in a relationship with their man from another country, for whatever reason I encourage you to join this website in your search for true love.

Anyway, I’m now ready to find my true love in Romania.

Yours Sincerely.
John.

By: John Smithh

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“I’m sure what you’re saying is right, but I don’t want to be a jerk or an a**hole to women…”

..or…

“I have seen what you’re talking about happen all my life, but I’m a ‘nice guy’ and I want women to like me for me…”

…and…

“This doesn’t make sense…”

For most of my life, I was the nice guy of nice guys. As a matter of fact, when I first made the decision to learn how to be successful with women, this actually created an obstacle for me.

Let me explain…

Because I believed that “being a nice guy” must be the way to success with women, I actually couldn’t even perceive any other way.

In other words, I could see a situation where a woman was attracted to a mean, abusive guy and think to myself that either she must be screwed up in the head, or that the guy must be really nice to her the rest of the time.

As you probably know, it’s hard to convince a person to believe something when they already have a belief about the topic. The person that you’re trying to convince just uses whatever you say to convince themselves that they’re actually right…and you’re wrong.

I did the exact same thing.

No matter how much evidence I found to the contrary, I still somehow believed that being a “nice” guy, buying women flowers and gifts, taking them out, and generally letting them be in control of the relationship had to be the way to attract them.

Well, after continuing along the same path and getting the same results, I realized something that literally changed everything for me.

I realized that jerks do, in fact, attract hot women.

By: DeAngelo David

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#1- Do Not Ask Right Away

This point cannot be stressed enough when discussing how to get a girl’s number. Some guys who are somewhat nervous around girls have a habit of asking for their number right away. Think about this for a second; if someone random walked up to you and said “Hi, I hope you’re having a good time. Can I have your number?”, how would you react? Most normal individuals would have no clue as to what to do, and would simply laugh and ignore the request. If you are trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number, be sure to realize that asking right away can be death as far as getting a number is concerned.

#2- Have a Conversation!

Conversation is incredibly important. A girl will not give her number to someone who she does not know, or does not like. If you want her to get to know you, you have to strike up a conversation. Conversation is a must when it comes to trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number. By having a two way conversation with her, you can gauge her interest (as she gauges you). Gauging this interest can lead you to the perfect time in the conversation to ask for a number.

#3- Never End with a Request

Asking for a number at the very end of a conversation does two things; first off, it makes you look as if you have done this a million time. Two, it makes you seem desperate. Do not wait for her to say that she has to go before you ask her for her number. When of the most important things to do when trying to figure out how to get a girl’s number is to know that it does not have to end a conversation.

Ask her for her number in the middle of the conversation…and then keep the conversation going. Find a normal breaking point to ask for her number. Once you have gotten it, strike up another conversation. This will catch her off guard, and show her that you are not just walking up to every girl asking them for their number.

If you use these tips on how to get a girl’s number, you are easily more likely to impress a girl and seem original. When trying to get a girl’s number, originality and sincerity is key.

By: Chick Magnet 101

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So then, what does it take to really make a lasting impression with women?
What is it, that makes some guys have all the luck, whilst all those well meaning, well healed and well mannered gentlemen out there spend the rest of their formative years cowering in the confines of their homes watching re-runs of Everybody Loves Raymond, when they could be out in the limelight dating all the lonely vivacious single women out there?

One word - Confidence!

As easy as it may sound, just what is Confidence, and why are there different levels of confidence, some levels relating to everyday situations and the others, relating to the heart thumping foot in mouth, sweaty palm situation when we’re in the presence of beauty?!

I have some good news for you!

Confidence is a learned human art form, this is a start. I call Confidence an art form for, everything that requires excellence in execution, be it F1 racing, Singing, track racing to seducing only the finest women, and getting away with it, is an art…one cannot help but to stop and marvel at the shear genius of it…even the ladies you seduce will pause for a moment to applaud your tenacity, diction and charm!

Need I say more?

So, regardless of your level of internal insecurities and aberrations pertaining to women, your actions my Dear Watson, should you choose to go ahead with the mission,are reversible, and with stupendous results guaranteed to see you possessing a harem that even the Great Sultan would be envious of!

I think we all can attest to what the lack of confidence does for one’s mojo, and what kind of results tend to manifest in our lives, so I’ll skip that sordid part entirely (it is after all, depressing) and concentrate instead, on creating opportunities that will put you, every single day of your waking moments, in the path of hot blooded, male depraved, pick-your-jaw-from-the-pavement pretty women that will have your Dad rethink his strategy for having married your mom!

Sound fair?

Let’s delve in, shall we…

In a nutshell, Confidence is the ability to accept who you are regardless of what inabilities you may have. It is a kind of internal mindset and belief system that affects your actions, thoughts and speech. Everything you are stems from this set of beliefs! In my opinion,appearance is the single most important and fastest route to looking or feeling confident. Regardless of internal strife or discord, you can always hide your internal emotions, albeit temporarily, by dressing the part.

Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Having spent the best part of my life in the wild and studying the big five most dangerous animals on Planet Earth, I really understand why the most vulnerable of prey gets eaten, whilst the other, more agile and enterprising game get away with murder, literally.

So too it is with men, if you act scared, not shy by the way, there’s a huge difference there but, if you act scared or, if you do not have a game plan when approaching women, you can rest assured they, (like big game) will smell your fear and lack of confidence from right across the room and have their way with you!

There’s nothing as pitiful as a guy with no game plan and no confidence attempting to seduce a pretty chick in a bar, or anywhere for that matter!

It’s like trying to steal candy from a kid that’s just realized there’s sugar in candy, and sugar tastes yummy and sweet! It’s just not going to happen!

Just like animals that think or reason in identities… 1=1=1, means that, past results lead to learned behavior. Once you’re whipped, each time you approach another chick, past memory kicks in, and you give up…confining yourself to a life of watching re-runs of Everybody loves Raymond on basic cable!

Admitted, it’s not easy to shed off fear and shame of rejection when it comes to approaching women but, we live in a highly technical environment, and at no time in the history of the Universe has there been so much information available to mankind…be it self improvement to learning how to harvest syrup from Maple trees in Canada etc!

Just like the famous sneaker brand Nike, Just Do it…whatever it takes, to rid yourself of the dry spell of not having a pretty woman to show off to our peers etc. Join a gym for the women, mooch off your fraternity brothers, go to stand up comedy gigs to laugh yourself silly with other single women or guys etc… the list is not exhaustive, but you get the idea!

In the end, by looking for the best in others, you indirectly bring out the best in yourself. Instead of putting down others, why not examine yourself. Declare to yourself that “I am the best” and don’t allow anyone to decrease your morale and and confidence.

Good night…

By: Feelgood

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So, what are the secrets those lucky guys know about? How can you attract more women?

Secret #1: Be social.

The idea behind it is that the more social you are, the more people you meet. The more people you meet, the higher the chance you meet women and will have sex with them. Spending all day in the gym may improve your looks, but it won’t get you more women. Besides your social skills will get better every time you communicate with different people and you will do better next time you meet a beautiful girl. More important, one of the things women look for in a man is social status. If you are a person who talks with many different people (girls and guys) on parties and so on, your social status is high and women will automatically feel attracted to you. If you stand alone in a corner with a beer in your hand the whole evening and watch all the other people having fun, your social status is as low as it can be. So, go out regularly and interact with different people. Get to know people. Try to make a habit of it. If you don’t know what to say, learn some openers like “Hi guys! I have a quick question for you - who lies more, men or women?” aso. Remember, nothing impresses a woman more than social status, the fact that other people (not only girls) like you, that you are popular (= social proof). Smile and laugh a lot, it will have a positive effect on the people you’re talking to and it demonstrates confidence.

Secret #2: Be the Alpha Guy.

Women love dominant guys. Actually, dominance and self-confidence are the top qualities women look for in a man. And as about 90 % of the success of your approach depends on your body language, your tone and timing, you have to master those areas first. Only a strong and coherent body language can demonstrate confidence. Women are attracted to confidence as it indicates a high status. The alpha guy is a type of man who can demonstrate that he is successful and has women in his life. He is not needy like the nice guys women only rip off. The alpha guy always sets the tone, never looks for approval and always has a plan where to go and what to do. He never asks the woman “What would you like to do?” Don’t be fooled, most women don’t want a man who’s asking them all the time on their wishes. They want a strong man who knows what he wants, tells them want they need - a leader who will take them for a ride. The alpha guy always has his own opinion on everything and never shows he’s jealous.

Secret #3: Be interesting.

To quote the famous pickup artist Mystery: “In order to get a woman interested in you, you have to be interesting.” Knowing interesting facts makes you interesting. But it’s not enough, you have to develop a unique personality, your own point of view on anything. The reason for that is, it makes you stand out from the last 10 or even 100 guys the girl you’re talking to hooked up with. Being interesting also means that you can demonstrate (a special) value – something not everyone can do. This doesn’t mean that you have to play a greasy song on the guitar (but do so if you can). Read up on palm reading, dream interpretation or psycho tests and use it on your next date. Women love all kinds of tests and actually, you are interesting if you know about that stuff.

You will find concrete tips (for example openers, body language) how to improve the 3 areas in this e-Book (the cool thing about it: there is a 60 day money back guarantee, so you don’t risk a thing).

By: Steve Wells

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- Rodgers and Hart

Nobody could press your buttons like your ex. A simple question could spark world war three. But the when the love and passion were there…Yowza!! It was you and your significant other against the world and the world always lost.

Unfortunately that volcanic relationship erupted too many times in a bad way. The arguments got more intense and lasted longer while the kiss and make up periods grew shorter to the point of almost non existent. You both tiptoed around each other for fear of stepping on an emotional landmine. Communication ground to a halt and that laughter that was so much a part of the relationship in the beginning disappeared completely.

It’s all over. The both of you said your goodbyes and made peace with each other. Then why are you still hankering to get them back?

It’s not uncommon for many people to believe they will never experience anything that compares with their previous relationship. Sure it was a roller coast ride filled with some unwanted twists and turns but it made you feel alive in ways you never imagined. There were more than a few people in your social circle who never believed the two of you would make it as far as you did. The thing about it was they were on the outside looking in. They had no idea how the dynamics of your relationship actually worked. They still don’t.

But you do and that’s why you want your former significant other back in your life. It is of course your choice but keep in mind very few things remain unchanged. If you are trying to get your ex back in the hope of creating those golden moments then you may be in for a let down.

Accept the fact that it is going to be a tricky proposition. In the first place they may not want to rekindle their relationship with you. For many people a clean break means just that. Number two is timing. You have to give them breathing room so they can do a little self assessment. That means you can’t bombard them with phone calls, text messages, email and the all to frequent ” I just happened to be in the neighborhood so I thought I’d drop in” routine. Respect their space.

But even that can be risky. You don’t want to give them so much time and room that, they forget all about you. So the question becomes how do you strike a balance? There is no hard and fast rule on this so you are going to have to gage it on the fly.

Also what are you going to do that will make them want to come back? Same old same old won’t cut it. Your ex enjoyed many parts of the relationships but they called it quits for a reason. What areas are you going to change to let them to show your ex you are serious? It can’t be a temporary change either. Since your ex knows you pretty well the chances are they will see right thru that. Besides that are they also willing to change? Let’s face it they had an equal hand in derailing this relationship. If the burden falls on you to make all the self improvements, you are inviting trouble.

A famous writer once said, “You can’t go home again.” That describes former relationships to a tee. Yet it is not completely hopeless. Many a couple have reunited after a breakup and gone on to build a stronger and better relationship than the one they had before. It takes timing, hard work, patience and willingness on both sides to give it another go. Even if you have all that in your favor, it still might not work. But if you feel it’s worth the gamble than go for it. Who knows? The two of you might get it right this time around.

By: Daryl

Article written by Daryl Campbell – The Relationship Tip – Okay. You’ve made your decision and you definitely want your ex back. Now what?.

Body Language

One of the definite signs of flirting is body language. Even if your words say one thing, your body can suggest wanting a closer and more intimate relationship with the person you are talking to.

Such signs of flirting include keeping eye contact with the person you like and touching lightly.

Other more direct flirting signals can be accentuated with a lick on the lips, the emotions projected in your eyes, and even how you move your body to appear seductive (or wanting to seduce).

These body language signals, although some of them are subtle, should still be clear enough to the other person for them to get the hint that you are interested. Otherwise, your efforts will result to nil.

A Little Bit Of Physical Contact Goes A Long Way

One of the best signs of flirting is putting in a little bit of physical contact into the mix. If you are in the middle of the dance floor with someone you like, then start dancing in ways that would slightly get your body in contact with them.

This might be a little unattractive when both of you are alone; but in the middle of the dance floor with all that loud music, anything can happen – and the other person won’t really mind that you’re doing it. It can even be fun!

These are just some of the signs of flirting to get the person you like into your arms. In fact, you might need to exercise a little bit of creativity to pull these off. Muster all the self-confidence that you have and show them that you are planning to give an exciting night if they accept your silent invitation.

By: Lee, Michael

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First there is the domination. We all have seen those WWII clips of them men coming back from battle and kissing their wives. This is a kiss with some power behind it. It can state many things.

A kiss like this will knock her off of her feet. Maybe you might use this kiss if you haven’t seen her for a while. You might use this kiss if you’re very horny and cannot contain yourself any more. We all have had those strong moments where we feel like we have to kiss someone. We need an outlet for all the sexual frustration that we’re feeling. The great thing about a kiss is, it is easy and fast too do. You can get your sexual frustration out without having to take off your clothes. The element of surprise is what makes a woman the wettest. This is not a kissing technique per se, but you’ll get the drift.

While you’re kissing her, roam her body with your hands. Explore each area that you can. This will make her go crazy before you can even start to consider what your next move is. I can’t tell you enough how important this is. Before you give your woman a kiss, make sure your breath smells okay. Do not go kissing her if you just ate a tuna on rye sandwich. If you’re in doubt, go brush your teeth. You do not care about it when she has shit stuck in her teeth that fall into your mouth.

Lets talk more about kissing and not the do’s and don’ts. The explore kiss. This is where you spend some time getting to know her mouth. This is a fun one from time to time. It shows that you’re interested in her. You are learning new ways to excite her. This can be good for both of you. Good for you because you will learn new things that turn her on. Great for her because she will think all this time you’re spending on her is great.

The peck before bed. You know you aren’t getting laid when you get that little peck before she rolls over in her flannel night gown. It doesn’t have to be such a tiny innocent kiss. Instead, look into her eyes when she gives you that little peck. Run your fingers through her hair and tell her that you love her. This will give her sweet dreams all night long.

Just like the peck before bed, turn that peck before you leave for work into something special. Tell her that you’ll be thinking about her all day long while at work. Look her in the eyes and smile when you state it. This will keep her waiting for when you get home. You can also use kisses to see where she’s at sexually. If you’re turned on but you are not sure if she is, kiss her and find out. Give her a long slow kiss, if she comes back wanting more, than you know you are going to score in the sack. If on the other hand after you’re done she is talking about he bills you owe that month, you aren’t getting laid tonight.

You might not know it, but a kiss holds a lot of power to a woman. With the right kiss you can make her go from undecided to a horny vixen when it comes to sex. If you aren’t sure that you will get laid, a kiss is a good way to test the waters. A kiss can also be a way to show affection. If you just want to show that you love her and are thinking about her, a great way to show it is a tiny peck. This will make her feel warm and fuzzy inside and know that you care.

Kissing shows interest. It maybe sexual or just love, but it does it all the same. Your woman will respond to this the same way time and time again. She’ll be happy to feel your lips on hers. Don’t forget, you can never get too many kisses in your lifetime.

By: John Blackson

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This gives a distinct advantage to the redneck man: the only absolutely great movies are only out on DVD. This means she has to go to your home to see them - or you need to go to hers. Need I say more on this?

Out of respect for men, there will be no Thelma and Louise in this list, and the movies listed will all include at least something that appeals to the men.

1. Gone With the Wind: If you can handle the length, this should be the main building block of your redneck date movie collection. this film is full of romance and drama and comedy and action - it’s the original Hollywood blockbuster, with something for everyone. Since the movie is around three hours long, you will want to plan your entire evening around it. Have dinner while watching it for the first half, then during the intermission move your dinner stuff out and replace it with your beverage of choice while relaxing on the couch.

2. Steel Magnolias: Okay, this one’s a little chick-flicky, but it’s a guaranteed winner for her, and if you don’t do anything stupid it should even guarantee you a second date. Steel Magnolias is about strong Southern women supporting each other, and though there are no car chases or action scenes more powerful than Dolly Parton’s hair being teased, you will probably enjoy it.

3. Anything by the Duke: You’re going to love these, and with John Wayne, the archetypical strong man, she should just melt. If you’d like a great love story, try The Quiet Man; for something a little more intensely masculine, try Rooster Cogburn. If she’s a military lover - and a lot of redneck women boast loved ones in the military these days - go for some of his war films.

4. Most pre-1960 romantic film classics: Start with Casablanca, and move through all the Fred Astaire/Ginger Rogers films. If it includes Marilyn Monroe, Cary Grant, or Errol Flynn, grab it. These are movies most people don’t think of as redneck films - but they are films that promote the ethics Hollywood has lost. A fringe benefit: if you bring her to your house and you have a shelf of these films, she’ll be impressed with your sensitive side. You will not need to do anything additional.

5. Eve’s Bayou is nicely creepy, a psychological thriller set in the hot sultry damp of a Louisiana swamp. If you’re looking for something a little different that you can both discuss later, this is the one.

6. Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood may overwhelm your testosterone, but it’s a really great movie for making her laugh. If you pick this one up, you will need to be able to sit through two hours of mushy romantic stuff and lots of female empowerment. It is a fantastic movie, though, and will impress her with your understanding of women.

Not all these are for every redneck man or woman. You’ll find, though, if you start going through them that even the female-oriented ones will catch your attention. And if you show one of these on your first date, you can go with the ye-haa car chase movie on the second one.

By: Fred Morris

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